My boyfriend's friends called me "anorexic" thin?

[Anonymous]

ok so basically they told me that I look like an anorexic just with better words...he has never told me that himself...it bothered me a lot but I didn't say anything.yes I am very thin but why would they do that?

[Lauren2410]

Ignore them dear. I mean, I've learned by myself to not let idiots ruin me and my self-esteem. The boy chose you as his girlfriend, meaning he likes you for who you are! SO what if they call you anorexic? I've been called whale and I'm not even obese, I'm just a bit overweight. It's not like they're perfect Calvin Klein models. Don't let things like this make you self-concious, because trust me , it's awful to think the worst about yourself and be so insecure, that's how I've become. And I'm changing. Next time either ignore them or say thank you and smile haha.

[Asker]

I know I just feel terrible when his guy friends do it in front of him...they're not perfect ofc not...

[Anonymous]

Are you REALLY? I am underweight and deal with anorexia. You do not have to respond to this, it's just for you. I'd look for people to tell me I'm fine thin.
But, before being underweight, my ex bugged me about my weight. But he was being harassed by his jealous sister about it and cared too much what others thought. At that time I was thin BUT a healthy weight for my height.

[Opinion Owner]

Also- are these female friends? Guys hardly ever comment on this stuff, let alone TO the girl. Ignore them but I had to mention the above just in case. I'd been bullied for being thin when I was a healthy weight so don't let yourself be bullied

[Asker]

thank you for your answer and support :)

[bubbiexo]

They're just being rude. What your body looks like is none of their business, so just ignore them.

[findingdreamland]

Agreed!

[Asker]

agreed A LOT :)

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Haters going to hate.

[Asker]

true