How do you make friends and find hobbies as an adult? Are there any good apps for making friends or finding local things to do? What should I do?

[WhiteBoyChill]

So basically I’m 23 years old, returned from college, I’ve got no friends around anymore and pretty much nothing to do

Life kinda just feels like a drag at this point and I’ve been feeling this way for basically the past several months.

I don’t ask for much, I literally just want to have friends again and genuinely look forward to things I can do locally on the weekends

How do I proceed about this?

I’m just hoping somebody else here can relate at a certain time in their lives.

I practically live to work at this point because I basically have no life outside of work.

[Screenwriter]

Go online to Meetups. There is practically EVERY ilk and hobby covered. Sailing, woodworking, book clubs, softball, baseball, basketball, volleyball, conversation groups.

Also, go to a city gym, or to an outdoor hoop at a park, and join a pickup game, or just hang around while you watch other guys perform a pickup game. Meeting some guys might alert you to what else is going on in town.

Local libraries also have events: author meetings, activity meetings based on what's being read. Join a group whose activities you're interested in. I'm in a Master Naturalist group. We volunteer to do nature activities around town: bird watching, cleanups, invasive plant removals, we have potlucks at our general meetings.

Volunteer to do whatever you're interested in around time. I've done some tree planting in my city. Volunteers are ALWAYS needed. You meet people that way. Good luck.

[jennifer_bloom]

I find the best way to make friends, is to go somewhere where your personality and talents match the demographic you are looking to visit. If you are good at singing, visiting a bar that has regular singing programs might be a good way to meet people.

If you are religious, a place of scriptural study or a place of volunteering might be a good place. If you are athletic, an athletic club such as sports group, a community centre swimming pool, a library book club, a speech training program, a charity to volunteer at, a cultural interest club that aligns with your ethnic background, a sorority or fraternity.

I also know woman's clubs that are made for people outside the college age social group.

[slatyb]

Start with Meetup. com. Volunteer for something, like Habitat for Humanity. Play pickleball or any other sport that appeals. Find a group that walks or bikes or skies or whatever.

[Darkest-Knight]

Can't help you there. I have no friends either. With the exception of errands and work I haven't left the house since the summer of 2000.

[AI Opinion]

Feeling adrift after college is pretty common, but it's a great time to explore new hobbies and make friends! Try apps like Meetup and Bumble BFF to connect with people who share your interests. Joining clubs, volunteering, or attending local events can also help you find like-minded folks. Look for hobby groups that align with your current interests or try something new like gaming, hiking, or crafting. It's about taking that first step and being open to new experiences. Don't worry, with time, you'll find your tribe and activities that bring you joy! 😊

[WhiteBoyChill]

How can I find out about clubs or local events in my area?

[Jennz6]

G@G is a good place to make friends. Look at “MY TAKE”

I have made a lot of friends here on this site 💃

[Anonymous]

Just like you did when you were a kid.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I made all my friends in school tho when I was younger is the thing

[Opinion Owner]

I get it, just like me when I was in school.