How do you deal with being single around the holidays? (Page 2)

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I'm used to being single, but it seems to hit the hardest around the holidays, particularly Christmas. I have been somewhat depressed and lonely the past few days since all of my friends are in relationships or married. So I do not have anyone to spend time with or even vent to.  How do you singles deal with the holidays or distract yourself from being lonely?

Sir_Laughsalot · Answer

The thing is to think of it as "do I want to be in a relationship or am i just scared of being alone?" If the latter is the case you can always try doing something you like doing alone, and just help your mind keep off of that train of thought.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I would say i try not to think about it but i watch so many romantic movies/shows that its bound to cross my mind

ohshee · Answer

Hi. Well if u get bored and would like to chat send me a message if I'm on I will answer ,, And if ImnNot then will answer when I get on.

Silent_Bob · Answer

After sharing the holidays with someone for nearly a decade, the holidays are a lot harder for me now.  I drink a little bit more this time of year. My brother's a vintner.

SkipStop · Answer

I get together with my family. Nothing is better than spending time with my family. And it's great to be single and free.

QueenTanya · Answer

Being single today feels the exact same way as being single on Christmas. It's just normal for me and the holidays don't change a thing

_uck_uckGoose · Answer

When I was single during the holidays I’d just focus on enjoying them. I get that you may feel lonely but find comfort in treating yourself special and knowing that the right person will come around when the time is right.

MissDawn7961 · Answer

I have my siblings over to my house for dinner and or present opening too ! Thanks

JoseyWales4 · Answer

I’ve never seen Christmas as a relationship type of holiday. So I could care less about not having a girlfriend.

HoratioCaine · Answer

I avoid my mom or any other female really since females are notorious for being the worst single shamers

poneglyphs · Answer

I guess you get used it, sure you may get lonely amd sad sometimes but that's why you relie on your friends. I never had anyone before I talk to my friend's or be with my family.

kitty71 · Answer

Im used to it alreayd I had spend my entire life since birth being single so at this point I dont have a damn about it

MelissaMarie9614 · Answer

It sucks being single! Especially around Christmas time! I wish I have a boyfriend to spend Christmas (and everyday) with.

pyrophobia · Answer

For me, I deal with it by looking at all the money in my bank account before and after Christmas. They end up being the same (unless I buy myself something) and that makes me happy 😁. It's the easiest way to save money

kyronj · Answer

Lol very gud question by the way, find things to occupied your time, don't worry bout it in time am sure someone will come your way

Iron_Man · Answer

Why worry about it? They have all let you down so far you have your true blood your family after all that's what really matters

chriscdi · Answer

i always have family to celebrate holidays with, if you think of it, you dont need anyone else

SirRexington · Answer

I've pretty much become numb to it at this point. But I will tear up a bit at night maybe.

MemeMaester · Answer

do stuffs you love... LIKE FINDING A boyfriend ok no jk but srsly do what you love

cth96190 · Answer

Porn Hub. . . and when I begin to long for real female touch I take a Mirtazapine.

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