To all those who struggle with insecurity (Page 2)

[ThatGuy98]

Even though you make some solid points there is no denying the fact that appearance plays a big role in both dating and your everyday life. Someone who is healthy and take care of their appearance is more likely to get interest from the other sex and even an easier time finding jobs. Everyone doesn't need to look like a photo model bu being healthy and taking care of yourself is highly beneficial.

[PeachSunset]

Well, it plays a roll in dating bc there's so much shallow people who can't help but be attracted to the more attractive human being, although you don't need to be attractive to be happy, being with someone who only cares about looks is unhealthy anyways.

[PeachSunset]

I still mean, eating well and doing things. you just don't need big eyes and narrow shoulders and a tiny waist and silky smooth hair

[ThatGuy98]

@Take Owner Meh, I have to disagree. At least I could never spend the rest of my life with a girl that I didn't find attractive. I want a girlfriend and eventually wife that is beautiful both on the inside and outside. You can call me whatever you want but that doesn't change the basics of human biology and attraction.

[PeachSunset]

Inner beauty is forever. Outer beauty is temporary, why diss someone with such a beautiful personality if they don't match your standards on physical appearance. Sure its a bonus, but I think a person's main priority in dating is to find someone who's beautiful on the inside and not ignore them as a possible lover bc once again they don't fit your requirements bc outer beauty isn't whats going to fuel a relationship unless all you're looking for is sex, sex, sex.

[KidanisCortes]

In a perfect world wed all like beautifull soul or whatever but this is the real world and looks definitively matter. Ask a fat girl how her life is going or an ugly guy and you'll see how depressed they are just because people treat then badly only for being born unfortunate looking.

[PeachSunset]

Ofc, it matters to ourselves. Even a thin girl may think she's fat. If a girl is unhealthy whether its obesity or even anorexia or bulimia, that need to be fixed. But so much of ourselves are healthy and make ourselves unhealthy bc of our negative thoughts. They may matter but they aren't whats going to fuel happiness or love.

[tenofthepeaks]

life is tough..

[PeachSunset]

sure is :/

[zombiebabe]

that's a really nice take :) good job

[PeachSunset]

Aww, you saw-ty. I loved yours too, I feel like mine was informing people that #TheStruggleIsReal, but yours was dealing with it, I think yours was more helpful X'D

[zombiebabe]

awww thanksman

[luvmeggers]

im extremely insecure

[LetsGoRangers]

Aww You really Shouldn't be you look great (:

[Anonymous]

This is all so sweet if only it made a difference.

[PeachSunset]

Thank you, i'm trying to help other girls figure out that its just society and their tricks and fads and that it may all be in their head but whatever happens, all you need is to feel beautiful.

[tenofthepeaks]

everybody is insecure on some level.

[PeachSunset]

Of course. But would you rather feel extremely insecure or partially insecure? We should control it because its extremely rare it will completely go away.

[tenofthepeaks]

it's about managing it.

[BroBroncoski]

Is that Heidi montag?

[MJas16]

Yeah it is