Should guys help their wives around the house if they both work (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

That's weird cause most men do "house" chores but women never help their man with the "outdoor" chores like mowing the lawn, weed eating, trimming the hedges, washing the house, etc.

Interesting

[Daniela1982]

And do men wash their own clothes?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes they do?

[Daniela1982]

Was that a statement or a question?

[Opinion Owner]

A statement

[Daniela1982]

Maybe single men do.

[Femphile_xoxo]

I think it's however the couple agrees to hash out the chores. Personally, I'd like an s/o to be doing just as much work as I do around the house. 😋

[Staximus]

Of course they should help them. Anybody who doesn't help their wife clean up the house is a lazy inconsiderate spoiled piece of shit who's mommy did everything for them growing up.

[Daniela1982]

Wait, didn't everyone's mothers do everything for us when we were kids?

[Staximus]

I'm talking about guys who didn't have to do chores around the house when they were old enough, mom did their laundry until they moved out, etc.

[Daniela1982]

For some they still take their laundry to mom.

[Justagentuk]

I'm a perfectionist, maybe a littke ocd,
So I do the housework so it meets my standard
Men make not just better cooks, but better cleaners too!

[Daniela1982]

How does your wife see it though?

[Justagentuk]

We do share the housework but I like doing it, for sure she doesn't like when I point out missed areas etc.. So I learned not comment and I do the missed bits later

[Anonymous]

Never really thought about it too much. We keep it similar to when we lived by ourselves with a few adjustments. I'm used to growing up with sisters so doing laundry got much easier when it's only for 2 people.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

If they can't hire a maid then obviously he needs to help. He lives there too.

[Mickbert]

I’m 100% the submissive so I do 90% of the chores, cooking, cleaning, etc. she sits back until I’m done and then I get to go and take care of her ;-)

[CVNT5]

if you read the Bible closely, it says that God Made Eve as a Helper to Adam, not his slave.

this means that the guy should be taking initiative around the house.

[SHREYASH007]

Yes 100%, but I am not proficient in household chores so I can only work as a helper, I may surely give her good body masssage after work for sure.

[Daniela1982]

Practice makes perfect.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but the problem is, she doesn't help me around the house. Even when she wasn't working...

[Daniela1982]

Get out the whip.

[Opinion Owner]

That ended with a near divorce. I dong know what to do.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't *

[msc545]

It depends on the relative amount of work each one does: If the guy works 40 hours a week and she works 10, then no.

[Likes2drive]

I used to help out a lot when I was married

[Daniela1982]

And did she appreciate it or take it for granted?

[Likes2drive]

Probably took for granted

[krin_m]

Guys certainly should help. NO two ways about it. Also appreciate their partner's efforts sincerely.

[hahahmm]

ha ha ha ha. I noticed that women are good accountants and can always compare what they do to what a man does so I became a better accountant & started to honestly look at the value of what I do for her compared to what she does to me. And you know what I found? I did way, way, way more, even if I never cleaned or cooked.

[RebeccaBI2000]

Yes. They should, my SO better help.

[Sevenpointfive]

i take a dump and flush.

[Daniela1982]

Do you clean the hash marks and put the seat down?

[Sevenpointfive]

i don't clean any marks. i don't know what that even means

[Daniela1982]

Same thing as skid marks.

[Jerre]

Yes they should help their wives

[rockytherock]

That's sick I love that way of thinking

[spartan55]

Uh... yeah... Definitely

[May_Summers]

Certainly if both are working

[handsomelad70]

Absolutely !!!