My boyfriend and me were out a walk and he asked me to marry him he got me a ring I started telling people, was looking at dresses and venues etc and we were both excited well so I thought and then the week later he told me he takes it back and he doesn't want to get engaged, he says it's a big commitment, he isn't ready, turns out he regretted it the day after he asked he said he doesn't know why he asked me, we have planned having kids next year and moving in at the end of the year? I just don't get it, has anyone got any thoughts on this, I've asked him about it and obviously I'm distraught but he just gets angry and shouts at me, I don't know what to do or what to think

Wow. Wtf? He has mental problems.

He has cold feet syndrome that's normal.

Sounds like he's making exit plans

How many things do you enjoy doing forcefully?

I would ask him why he did that

My boyfriend asked me to marry him and changed his mind and took it back, what should I do? (Page 3)

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pooper89 Follow
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Wow. Wtf? He has mental problems.

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weirdo123 Follow
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He is a dick. Leave him

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blondfrog Follow
Master Age: 34

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He has cold feet syndrome that's normal.

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culinaryqueen Follow
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Time to dump his butt

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dannyuk Follow
Xper 5 Age: 47

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Sounds like he's making exit plans

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Master Age: 38

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How many things do you enjoy doing forcefully?

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Anonymous
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Change your mind too?

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roseypopxox Follow
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There's nothing u can do

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iamnash Follow
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I would ask him why he did that

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Sweetgirlh Follow
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I think he needs some time

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Dre_808 Follow
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How long have you been together?

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Jimmie-Rustler Follow
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Should of shut up Karen

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ramusen Follow
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Maybe he has other affairs

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TheDarkOne_21 Follow
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Leave him and break up

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TheUglyMan Follow
Xper 7 Age: 36

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He finally came to his senses

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Wizard-of-bras Follow
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……you’re under 18…………

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2opaz Follow
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You should break up with him

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Ah I see

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  You deserve MHO.
  
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  @CarpetDenim Thank you
  
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Find someone else.

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Maverick91 Follow
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He's a deck.. u should refuse him

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Divijs Follow
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Talk to him you nonce

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peachpitt Follow
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Move on.

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krishna7731 Follow
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Searching for another guy

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Mouryas Follow
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Leave him and change your mind

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ovoxo_ Follow
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He smartened up. You should be happy for him.

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Anonymous
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You guys need SERIOUS premarital counseling...

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deric_97 Follow
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You're like 20.

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Anonymous
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Sucks for you, doesn't it?

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Anonymous
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im glad he changed his mind

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what an idiot

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Lol impulse.

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iamshan Follow
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What a dork

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leave him

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TheBestUsername Follow
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That's crazy

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Anonymous
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Break up with him

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Anonymous
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Yep.

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Dirtbag69b Follow
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dump his ass

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Master Age: 25

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Marry him

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JesseTheMan Follow
Yoda Age: 26

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I dunno

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Valhalla1996 Follow
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Kick him in the dick

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David_Bayer Follow
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He just isn't ready

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matthewpankes Follow
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Kill him

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Eshuu Follow
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Leave him

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robbase214 Follow
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Let him go!

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bugs_bugs_bunny Follow
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Nothing let him go

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Yes that's worrieing

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Anonymous
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He has issues

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Anonymous
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Nothing 😂😂😂

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