I think it may not be worth it to men for like right now but maybe through the years in time they will end up finding it worth it. Cause it can be reslly really fcked up being to old and alone. Maybe even be impossible to be so old and living alone
Not worth risking a women legally taking all your money and belongings and fucking up everything you’ve worked for throughout your life, maybe if divorce court was fair to men it might be worth it
Is marriage not wortg it for men? Kind of funny question.. more for that person to decide.. but if u found the kind of love that u enjoy and makes u happy and also that love , loves u back as much then wouldn't anything be worth it? Since it seems that the majority of people i know all seem to look forward to this one main thing in life..
@OfDeath Oh please. Get over yourself! I'm Asian and my boyfriend is white American. This is exactly what he said about not wanting to date Western women. Most traditional cultures have the expectation of the man providing. My boyfriend has no problem with it.
A guy providing for a women is no different than prostitution. This is another reason guys don't want to get married, guys don't want to have to pay for a women.
So only prostiutes are quality women? You are literally by definition a whore/prostitute, a guy has to pay to date and in turn sleep with you. Your boyfriend is a loser that has to pay for you.
Marriage is everything to me it means the world to me. I'm looking for somebody I want to spend the rest of their life with me to build a family and a strong bond that's what I see... I'm looking for somebody that's going to be honest loyal faithful and sincere to me who wants to raise my children with me. The children that we can have together and a long life.
Why wouldn’t it be? With a negative attitude marriage isn’t for anyone.
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I think people get caught up in generalizations like "MARRIAGE is worth it" or "MARRIAGE isn't worth it." I don't think those statements have any real meaning. Rather, marriage to a specific person either is or isn't worth it and marriage to a different person may or may not be worth it.
@Abbas1996 Honey, I actually feel very sorry for you, you are so delusional. Life must be so hard for you. I bet you can't fuck anything with that non existent dick.
@Abbas1996 Oh look, actually my mom stayed with me and she is amazing, I'm sorry you had a terrible experience with women but being sexist won't help anything, you tell me to grow up but you treat someone that is 16 like a child, you are 22. Being sexist won't help you anywhere in life, I am sorry for your mom, she had to give birth to such a pathetic loser like you :) Goodbye, stay where you belong, trash.
You didn't need the "My opinion, my life, don't get offended." Your statement is what it is, and there was nothing wrong with it. Stand by it, and don't apologize. You don't need to include that.
It is if you actually like the person you're asking to marry you. So here's some free advice: if you don't like being around your partner. Don't ask them to marry you. It's really that fucking easy
Marriage isn't worth it unless it's for religious reasons otherwise it's essentially a business contract that benefits neither men or women when they fall out of love I can see why lots of men feel negatively about it
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The problem is western women especially in America just know when things get rough in the relationship she can simply just divorce and cash out. I don't think it's worth it but if you really want to you got to find some traditional chick who will value the marriage and not just abandon ship if things get rough but do it at your own risk.
Well it's a shittier deal than it's ever been that's for sure... I want a girl who I can be with forever but I don't want the government claiming any authority over what that means, I don't want a legal marriage
It is TOTALLY worth it..., as long as you marry the RIGHT person! That is the hard part. It took two tries for me. Now, I love it. I have everything I wanted to have in my wife.
I think this was meant to be a comment on someone elses reply, I can't remember though tbh. I don't see why I woulf have responded like this as I have no intentions getting married.
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I think it may not be worth it to men for like right now but maybe through the years in time they will end up finding it worth it. Cause it can be reslly really fcked up being to old and alone. Maybe even be impossible to be so old and living alone
@xforgottenx I'd rather take my chances with old and alone than spend a minute of my time with a woman who doesn't make me happy.
Not worth risking a women legally taking all your money and belongings and fucking up everything you’ve worked for throughout your life, maybe if divorce court was fair to men it might be worth it
Is marriage not wortg it for men? Kind of funny question.. more for that person to decide.. but if u found the kind of love that u enjoy and makes u happy and also that love , loves u back as much then wouldn't anything be worth it? Since it seems that the majority of people i know all seem to look forward to this one main thing in life..
Don't marry Western feminists. Look for Asian or Eastern European women.
It's either a feminist or a gold digger
@OfDeath Oh please. Get over yourself! I'm Asian and my boyfriend is white American. This is exactly what he said about not wanting to date Western women. Most traditional cultures have the expectation of the man providing. My boyfriend has no problem with it.
A guy providing for a women is no different than prostitution. This is another reason guys don't want to get married, guys don't want to have to pay for a women.
Happy being alone then.
I can have a relationship without getting married and paying for a women, not all women are prostitutes/whores.
No quality woman with self respect would want that lol
So only prostiutes are quality women? You are literally by definition a whore/prostitute, a guy has to pay to date and in turn sleep with you. Your boyfriend is a loser that has to pay for you.
He's got you there
He probably just used the Asian stereotype on white women to you so he didn't come across as racist.
Haha she is literally a prostitute
Depends on if its happy/fulfilling or if you get stuck in a sexless marriage or get fucked over in divorce court.
Tbh It depends on your partner. If they fight so easily or don't seem committed then it's not worth it. Both men and women, that's a bummer.
Marriage is everything to me it means the world to me. I'm looking for somebody I want to spend the rest of their life with me to build a family and a strong bond that's what I see... I'm looking for somebody that's going to be honest loyal faithful and sincere to me who wants to raise my children with me. The children that we can have together and a long life.
Why wouldn’t it be? With a negative attitude marriage isn’t for anyone.
I think people get caught up in generalizations like "MARRIAGE is worth it" or "MARRIAGE isn't worth it." I don't think those statements have any real meaning. Rather, marriage to a specific person either is or isn't worth it and marriage to a different person may or may not be worth it.
From a legal/economical perspective no.. it doesn't... Marriage is a too risky business for men in our time.
It has virtually no benefit for men while signing them up for divorce rape in the future.
HARD PASS.
Marriage is not worth it for everyone, I just hate it, nobody stays together forever and I don't even want kids so.
My opinion, my life, don't get offended.
When did your parents divorce kid?
Aw don't worry, no woman would ever marry you, boy :)
As long as women will fuck hoping someone marries them I'm not worried sweetie
@Abbas1996 Honey, I actually feel very sorry for you, you are so delusional. Life must be so hard for you. I bet you can't fuck anything with that non existent dick.
I know your parents divorce made such a miserable lonely girl out of you but don't worry life changes
@Abbas1996 Oh look, actually my mom stayed with me and she is amazing, I'm sorry you had a terrible experience with women but being sexist won't help anything, you tell me to grow up but you treat someone that is 16 like a child, you are 22. Being sexist won't help you anywhere in life, I am sorry for your mom, she had to give birth to such a pathetic loser like you :) Goodbye, stay where you belong, trash.
You didn't need the "My opinion, my life, don't get offended." Your statement is what it is, and there was nothing wrong with it. Stand by it, and don't apologize. You don't need to include that.
You already know how most men feel about marriage and how most of them will say it's not worth it. C'mon now.
p much yeah
It is if you actually like the person you're asking to marry you. So here's some free advice: if you don't like being around your partner. Don't ask them to marry you. It's really that fucking easy
Marriage isn't worth it unless it's for religious reasons otherwise it's essentially a business contract that benefits neither men or women when they fall out of love I can see why lots of men feel negatively about it
The problem is western women especially in America just know when things get rough in the relationship she can simply just divorce and cash out. I don't think it's worth it but if you really want to you got to find some traditional chick who will value the marriage and not just abandon ship if things get rough but do it at your own risk.
true
I feel that marriage is worth it for anyone, regardless of gender, if you truly love and enjoy spending time with the other person
Well it's a shittier deal than it's ever been that's for sure... I want a girl who I can be with forever but I don't want the government claiming any authority over what that means, I don't want a legal marriage
It is TOTALLY worth it..., as long as you marry the RIGHT person! That is the hard part. It took two tries for me. Now, I love it. I have everything I wanted to have in my wife.
No it's not. I don't think. What do they get out of it? 1 girl for the rest of their life.. Why do that when they can have unlimited pussay
Being brutally honest right now; the people who say marriage isn't worth it, just aren't worthy or marriage.
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I feel like this is a troll trying to harass women.
Asking if marriage isn't worth it for men is harassing women?
That’s a reach
I think this was meant to be a comment on someone elses reply, I can't remember though tbh. I don't see why I woulf have responded like this as I have no intentions getting married.