... Okay this is severely intriguing to me... Obviously I've never been a girl with a sister, so what in Earth could she be setting you up for? Can you explain to us (or if you're another girl who gets why she's suspicious could you explain to me) what you're concerned she might be plotting by having you wear a bridesmaid dress?
Unless she’s holding a gun to your head she’s not forcing you, you can always choose to wear your own like you said or not go at all. I could be wrong but maybe she wants everyone to know who the bride is aside from all the other women there I don’t know.
If u don't trust her and she is not letting u do what others do then she might be setting u up.
She might planning something.. something that u might not like example... blaming u something for what u didn't do..
Embarrassing u
Etc
My advice is don't go.. especially if u don't trust her
Have a talk with her and let her know you really don't feel comfortable with that if you're not actually a bridesmaid.
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My sister was a bitch to me on her wedding. She made me look the ugliest. She said “oh it’s my day,” and made me give up all the ways I present myself and the things I do to have confidence in my appearance. I wanted to wear blush, for example, and she freaking out and was like “No! Not allowed!,” meanwhile, the other bridesmaids were allowed to and her excuse was that they were black nd I’m not? Tf? Moral of the story f my sister, and f your sister, and do what u want
Just wear your own dress. If you're not part of the wedding party, there really is no point; it's just petty and controlling. If she is angry, tell her to she should include you in her wedding party for her NEXT wedding.
No wear your own dress what’s the point? I get the whole “it’s her big day” thing. But you still don’t have to be a bitch because you’re the bride to be
Do what she asks you to do. It’s her wedding. Don’t complain. If it’s super vindictive or something, get her back at your wedding
Did she give you a reason or just demand you wear the dress?
It seems like you don't have a very good relationship. What about your mom, what does she say?
On the day fall to the floor and start twitching you soon won't have too be there lol.
If you are a bridesmaid then you are in tha ceremony surely...
That honestly seems sketchy to me. If you are not participating into the additional part of being a bridesmaid then you shouldn't have to wear the dress. Because you're not a bridesmaid.
The question to me rather is: do you want to attend this wedding? It does not look like it.
If your not a part of the ceremony then I would wear my own dress.
I'm not sure you understand what "force" actually means.
If you dont trust her dont go screw what everyone else thinks you know her
She is totally setting you up. Don't let her do it.
That's kind of weird, are you being some sort of female usher? Has she told you your role in the wedding? I'd ask her why she's making you wear that dress if you're not in the wedding party.
It's your sisters day not yours, roll with it.
Dont go to the wedding
Dont go. Screw her
i think it's a prank
It sucks to suck
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