One word describes this. Fraud! I do not advise giving this man a choice. If he can lie to you this easy what else can he lie about going forward? You simply toss this POS to the curb and find a man that can be the real man you deserve!
Those are nice options But I’d divorce and sue him. Fertility treatments are freaking painful and who wants to go through that knowing your partner was deceitful. Also they’re expensive!
Look females find it acceptable to lie about being on the pill or poke holes in condoms just to get pregnant and fuck a guy over for life and a guy doesn't mention he's had a vasectomy and it ruins a moment of her time and you all treat it like the end of the world. Grow the fuck up. Sure what the guy did was an asshole move but don't fucking act like women and society haven't been doing worse to men since way before this bullshit story.
Team Wife, I support all the way, and the Husband is being deceitful to her he should come clean and give her what she wants, If not then she should get a divorce and move on but so sad to put her through all this.
Team wife all the way. Three years going through emotional hell just for her husband to tell her he had a vasectomy? Maybe if it was a shorter time, I'd disagree with the divorce threat, but THREE YEARS? Hell nah. Understandable.
Uh, he's lucky she didn't leave him on the spot and file for divorce. He should be thankful she was willing to give him another chance after such extended lying and deception.
Lies are lies.. if she wants a divorce, she could want it without reason. And if they have an option to reverse va... And they are not, that basically seems like an ideological or choice difference
I am suprised that she ain't go insane and did not kill him lol. It is ok if you have vasectomy but lying like this should be crime. He literally wasted her youth and her fertility. Tf. I am also suprised that the doctors did not check him.
No normal person can do this. He is narcissistic. He probably has mental disorders since no sane person can be that selfish, egoistic etc to the point that he makes her partner to go through all this because of a big lie
Having had to go through infertility treatments with my wife, no vasectomy on my end, it was so stressful for her. That guy was an ass. He’ll be sleeping with one eye open hoping he doesn’t wake up with his fella dismembered.
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One word describes this. Fraud! I do not advise giving this man a choice. If he can lie to you this easy what else can he lie about going forward? You simply toss this POS to the curb and find a man that can be the real man you deserve!
Those are nice options But I’d divorce and sue him. Fertility treatments are freaking painful and who wants to go through that knowing your partner was deceitful. Also they’re expensive!
Absolutely Team Wife. I would have been tempted to throw things at him for lying all that time knowing what I was going through.
He would have divorce papers now. Ugh what a horrible man!
Look females find it acceptable to lie about being on the pill or poke holes in condoms just to get pregnant and fuck a guy over for life and a guy doesn't mention he's had a vasectomy and it ruins a moment of her time and you all treat it like the end of the world. Grow the fuck up.
Sure what the guy did was an asshole move but don't fucking act like women and society haven't been doing worse to men since way before this bullshit story.
Team Wife, I support all the way, and the Husband is being deceitful to her
he should come clean and give her what she wants, If not then she should
get a divorce and move on but so sad to put her through all this.
@Prettygurl12 I agree with you on this matter
Husband is a fucking Assholes...
Put her through Hormones and shit!..
She shouldn't even talk of divorce..
Just go to lawyer get divorce...
And walk away from such a disgusting men!..
Team wife all the way. Three years going through emotional hell just for her husband to tell her he had a vasectomy? Maybe if it was a shorter time, I'd disagree with the divorce threat, but THREE YEARS? Hell nah. Understandable.
Uh, he's lucky she didn't leave him on the spot and file for divorce. He should be thankful she was willing to give him another chance after such extended lying and deception.
The husband is a real jerk. I'm on team wife. She should divorce his ass anyway.
She is Right no if, ands or buts about it anyone who says otherwise is delusional.
@TwinkleLily5 I agree
Lies are lies.. if she wants a divorce, she could want it without reason. And if they have an option to reverse va... And they are not, that basically seems like an ideological or choice difference
Sounds to me like he could've avoided her lots of unnecessary trouble. That ain't right of him not to say anything about the vasectomy.
I am suprised that she ain't go insane and did not kill him lol. It is ok if you have vasectomy but lying like this should be crime. He literally wasted her youth and her fertility. Tf. I am also suprised that the doctors did not check him.
No normal person can do this. He is narcissistic. He probably has mental disorders since no sane person can be that selfish, egoistic etc to the point that he makes her partner to go through all this because of a big lie
She should sue him
I'm on Team Wife! 100%! He's an asshole!
How could you keep secrets about your fertility from your sexual partner? Not only that, your LIFE partner!
I can understand not wanting to tell her at first while dating, but that's something you absolutely HAVE to disclose before getting married!
Having had to go through infertility treatments with my wife, no vasectomy on my end, it was so stressful for her. That guy was an ass. He’ll be sleeping with one eye open hoping he doesn’t wake up with his fella dismembered.
I would not blame her if she dumped a man who was so senselessly misleading.
The wife is being very reasonable. The husband is an a-hole.
on this evidence the wife is right, he lied or rather never told her the truth, he has been given a choice its now up to him
If the wife is wrong about anything, it's that she's being too diplomatic, and probably should have just cut his dick off in his sleep.
C) Team nobody.
They got themselves into this mess, it's nobody else's business but their own to get them out of it!