How would I convince my wife to spend time with me instead of focusing on our child for the whole time?

koustav_56
I am an Indian techie, running an indian-american rech firm and a traveller. Married since 6 years and having a 2.5 year old child.

My wife and me, we were friends since school. She was always that studious nerdy student who would favor me doing my assignments, bringing extra lunch because i was that typical backbencher bully throughout my school life. We grew together. My parents never thought of any other girl to be my wife or their daughter in law instead of her. She is the perfect DiL for my parents. We got married early... she was in a stressful situation that how she would take her childhood friend, that notorious student of her school as her husband.
I loved her since my college days. She is a beautiful girl with big eyes and cute baby face. I dated other girls but never got into any relationship with anyone. Prior my marriage whoever i dated with whomever i drank and had sex, at the end of the day fully exhausted, i texted that one person & its her.
I love her with all my heart. She takes care of me from everything that i would never asked for. She is a mother to me much more than a wife. I used to take her to trips, dinner nights movies etc beside my work because i got a busy schedule. Then we had this child just like her - a cute munchkin, my son!
Days were good but suddenly she started to focus more into our child than spending time with me. She provided me everything just like a maid servant would do but thats not what i want. She is my wife not a maid servant. Whenever i plan to take her out or to have her in the bed, she avoids by saying that the baby needs her more, she has to take care of him. She comes up with weird excuses or at time the baby starts crying that she leaves me alone in the bed! Its not possible for a man to stay alone and do nothing when there's a gorgeous woman in the house. Once in a while i tried to hold her down but she starts sobbing and i let go of her.

I can't live like this. Should i file a divorce?
How would I convince my wife to spend time with me instead of focusing on our child for the whole time?
How would I convince my wife to spend time with me instead of focusing on our child for the whole time?
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