This feels like a troll post, but I'll answer lol
You're 18. If you're aiming to become a wife then you should begin working on yourself. Get a job with decent insurance, then work on your physical and mental health (get a PCP, dentist, therapist, etc). Start going to the gym. Basically, build yourself a healthy lifestyle/routine, and work on self-esteem issues or childhood truama you may have. This should take about a year if you're serious about yourself and have all the resources in your town/city; if not, then that's okay, but all this shouldn't take 5 or more years.
Once you can confidently make your own decisions and love yourself, start going over what qualities you want your future husband to have. Loyal? Trustworthy? Read up on red flags both subtle and blatant for all types of abuse, and become familiar with them. Trust your intuition. Read 5 love languages by Gary Chapman.
At your age, it's better to find someone who is up incoming; not rich now but striving to be with real ambition/goals, and you can put yourself in a position to provide genuine love and support, which will build a long lasting relationship. Sure you can date someone older who is already wealthy, but if you do the first paragraph above, then you should know your wants and needs outside of, "I just want a rich husband." Some older men can't keep up in the bedroom due to age or health, some may have outdated values that don't match yours, etc. Then you got to watch out for the guys that got wealth quickly, but can't sustain it or is irresponsible with it.
Relationships require work, and husband title shouldn't be given to just anyone without careful consideration; just because a guy is rich doesn't make him a good man. Sometimes wealth isn't always about money, finding a decent man who truly loves you can be just as great.
How about you focus on becoming a rich woman instead? A woman (or man) who is financially dependent on a spouse puts themselves at risk of a lot of things. If you are financially dependent and your spouse becomes abusive, you can't leave as easily.
Great question and at least you're honest. You're articulating what most women refuse to admit. I dont know how much money you consider is "rich" but I make well over 6 figures and my circle contains other men that make 6 or 7 figures and we have a saying. "She needs to be where I'm at" For example I dont go to 24 hr fitness etc, I belong to a luxury fitness gym, I dont eat at McDonald's Wendy's etc You can find me at 5 star restaurants. Do you know the woman that I meet? It's usually the ones that work at these places. Go apply for a job at a luxury dealership, luxury real estate company etc, that will get you around wealthier men.
Have you tried seeking arrangements?
https://www.seeking.com/
You'll ought to find a rich man there.
No need to try and date IT workers. They don't make that much money. IT workers don't earn the type of money to buy a Ferrari. I learned it the hard way.
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Donald Trump is still a reasonably rich husband.
Go after him.
Being married means nothing to him because he cheated on his first wife, Ivana, with his second wife, Marla, and then on his second wife with his third wife, Melania.
Melania is no fool and knows that Trump has cheated on her.
So, go for it! I am sure Trump, as a rich husband, would be happy to cheat on his third wife again, and, who knows, you might become Wife #4 for a while... until Wife #5 comes along.
I know you're saying it laughingly, but just be in shape, be feminine, be interested in sex. Throw in caring/accommodating then all you really have to do is go to areas where rich men go and you'll find one.
Rich guys want what all guys want as far as female traits/partner traits are concerned. If you take an interest in him, you really like sex, you're in shape, you make him feel good anytime when you're around. Yeah he's going to want to wife you up
Step 1: Go to school in a field that pays well.
Step 2: Get your own job and stop using a man as a crutch.
Step 3: Accept that a man might not earn as much as you and this doesn't make him a failure.
Step 4: Profit from the wisdom of actually being an adult.
You don’t! You get off your backside and work on your career!!! Why would any self made man look for a partner that is just gold digging - they don’t, they can spot them a mile off and consider them no better than leeches! Get a job, educate yourself, and build your own empire! The reason you are receiving this unsympathetic response from me is because of the way you have expressed the question.
There are more young men who will become rich than there are men who are already rich. My hairstylist is marrying a man who is a senior engineer at Amazon. He probably makes $400K/year and has about two or three million in stock if he didn’t sell it. Is that rich enough for you?
What's with girls and marrying rich or treating their boyfriends like an atm?
Personally, I find it disgusting but that might be because I'm not much interested in depending on someone else.
The number of times I have heard a girl say she's looking for a rich boyfriend/husband is... actually not a lot lol but every time I hear a girl say that it makes me cringe.
Rich attract alike and if you ain’t one, the best you can get is a hookup or a pay for “services” rendered and not a diamond ring. The only way to a rich husband is socialite route, I. e if you got beauty with no talent, selling your body to the highest bidder, invest well, get rich and now you can mingle with rich people with prospects of meeting someone richer to marry you.
1 Timothy 6:10
For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have
wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs
another goes into the snake to be tortured lol
hahahahahaha
the snake will be in the video good luck
https://www.youtube.com/embed/fH1uylyEnLU
I know you may be hurt. But your sexist troll post is only hurting (not helping) your cause. Who knows? Certain women are "actually" gold diggers and that may have triggered certain men to treat women the way that they did (not that it's right). It's a circle that seemingly has no end until you stop being sexist.
There’s nothing wrong with a girl looking for a man that’s capable of supporting her or that has a career that will give them a certain life style but if that’s all you’re looking for that might be all you get. You might miss out on someone that’s kind and generous he might decide that if all you want him for is his money then he might treat you as you need to earn it by whatever means he decides this might be a scary situation
I can't tell whether you're trolling or you are really looking for someone rich.
Sure waste your time and efforts towards an unlikely outcome. Or build something you can be proud of with someone you like on your own starting level. The later is a safer bet but requires effort but pays of almost certainly.
Im pretty well off,
and i only date women that are well off/ equil to me,
this ensures they are in it for the right reasons, They are with me by choice,
my wife runs 2 companies, Has over 500,000$. Saved, And
we are building a 6,000sf house together
Women that date guys for money are the lowest of the low,
And I only date people that are my equals.
if you dont have anything BIG going for you, You have no shot with me
Well, if he is a self married millionaire chances are he won't have that much time to spare on you. He's busy earning his pay.
If he is born into money he will possibly feel like he is entitled and treat you like crap.
Rich guys aren't everything, and many are Egomaniacs. Just find a decent hard worker how looks after you rather than looses himself in his money.
GUYS listen!! Stay AWAY from golddiggers. They rob your money, men are nothing but a walking wallet to them, they dont care about your personality or feelings. They are not better than escort girls. If you want to pay a girl so that she stays with you and has sex, an escort is the better choice
It's simple, just think of it in terms of an equation, a girl that's looking for a rich guy must be ready to have something to give in return that provides the same value, i. e. to be really hot. The hotter you are, the wealthier the guy you can get, is that simple. Just keep in mind that it's just a transaction for both, he'll dump you as soon as he can get a hotter girl.
I am quite well off. Typically I date youngest possible ie 18 to 21. I date attractive thin women so about 120lbs or less. And I date virginal women, virgins or very inexperienced ones get my attention.
So the closer you can be to those things, the more likely you can get a wealthy mans attention.
Good luck.
Probably the nerd you avoided in high school honestly. Everyone especially girls all thought I was such a dweeb. The sports jocks got all the girls attention. Well fast forward 15 years, those sports jocks are struggling to make a living, relationships fail... and im here with a cushy six figure salary, private plane, three quarter million dollar house, take awesome vacations several times a year. I have more problems keeping girls away from me now...
Rich guys are generally going to pick slim girls with small boobs. So if you are slim with smaller boobs, you are physically their type. Other than that, you have to get them with your personality which is different for each guy. If you're fun or happy a lot, or at least present yourself that way, a lot of guys will be interested in you.
I think if at 18 you already feel this way about relationships they aren't for you.
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