This feels like a troll post, but I'll answer lol
You're 18. If you're aiming to become a wife then you should begin working on yourself. Get a job with decent insurance, then work on your physical and mental health (get a PCP, dentist, therapist, etc). Start going to the gym. Basically, build yourself a healthy lifestyle/routine, and work on self-esteem issues or childhood truama you may have. This should take about a year if you're serious about yourself and have all the resources in your town/city; if not, then that's okay, but all this shouldn't take 5 or more years.
Once you can confidently make your own decisions and love yourself, start going over what qualities you want your future husband to have. Loyal? Trustworthy? Read up on red flags both subtle and blatant for all types of abuse, and become familiar with them. Trust your intuition. Read 5 love languages by Gary Chapman.
At your age, it's better to find someone who is up incoming; not rich now but striving to be with real ambition/goals, and you can put yourself in a position to provide genuine love and support, which will build a long lasting relationship. Sure you can date someone older who is already wealthy, but if you do the first paragraph above, then you should know your wants and needs outside of, "I just want a rich husband." Some older men can't keep up in the bedroom due to age or health, some may have outdated values that don't match yours, etc. Then you got to watch out for the guys that got wealth quickly, but can't sustain it or is irresponsible with it.
Relationships require work, and husband title shouldn't be given to just anyone without careful consideration; just because a guy is rich doesn't make him a good man. Sometimes wealth isn't always about money, finding a decent man who truly loves you can be just as great.
How about you focus on becoming a rich woman instead? A woman (or man) who is financially dependent on a spouse puts themselves at risk of a lot of things. If you are financially dependent and your spouse becomes abusive, you can't leave as easily.
Oh wow if you have money you can leave and... be a spinster with kids
Great question and at least you're honest. You're articulating what most women refuse to admit. I dont know how much money you consider is "rich" but I make well over 6 figures and my circle contains other men that make 6 or 7 figures and we have a saying. "She needs to be where I'm at" For example I dont go to 24 hr fitness etc, I belong to a luxury fitness gym, I dont eat at McDonald's Wendy's etc You can find me at 5 star restaurants. Do you know the woman that I meet? It's usually the ones that work at these places. Go apply for a job at a luxury dealership, luxury real estate company etc, that will get you around wealthier men.
6 figure salary ain’t what it was in the 90s for sure. My cousin went to Princeton then UW medical school, her husband is an ER doctor as well. They don’t talk about money but I’ve heard they make close to $1m/year direct compensation. They don’t flash their money, have two daughters and live a quiet life. He’s a good man too. Very respectful of our family and treats my cousin so good, can tell he truly loves his family.
@Justerino Less than 10% or the population makes over 100k per year so you're statement is false and it's not relevant to the conversation.
@Justerino Lol she's looking for a man not a household. Household is a reflection of combined income so unless she's marrying both it's not relevant and I just check this state about two weeks ago it's approximately 10%. What city do you live in? (If you can't share that then let's just end the convo because it's off the subject to begin w/)
Have you tried seeking arrangements?
https://www.seeking.com/
You'll ought to find a rich man there.
No need to try and date IT workers. They don't make that much money. IT workers don't earn the type of money to buy a Ferrari. I learned it the hard way.
I know, and he cheated on me with an escort. As you know on my last post that my ex boyfriend cheated on me and spend all his check to just fuck with an escort. Only money matter to me now.
I don't blame you. Of course it's about the money. Rich men have options and you are among one of them.
Can you give them a reason to commit to you and only you?
What you consider being cheated on he considers is something as normal as washing dishes.
Rich that I mean is that like RICH RICH but RICH that can afford a good place to live , a good food everyday and can send me to college and can buy me some Gift for special day. That’s all
Yeah, I understood what you mean. Avoid IT workers. They don't make that amount of money (nowadays every 3. rd ape and maybe their mother too have a degree in IT).
I too would like to know how to dig up those rich folks. Nobody knows it seems. Or they are extremely secretive.
Try Las Vegas. You are in the United States, so that's a big step inherited for you already. I am not in the United States.
Gift, that’s not rich, I just looked and I live in the 3rd “richest” city in USA, some of the richest people in the world live here: Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos, they both cheated on their wives, and both their wives left them for it. When you get off the freeway here there’s a banner for kids softball, it’s safe (except downtown) and has 10,000s of open jobs in IT and Healthcare Gift, you will have your own money I’m telling you, you’re so young, you will have a good life. I still support your future. I’m sorry 🙏
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Donald Trump is still a reasonably rich husband.
Go after him.
Being married means nothing to him because he cheated on his first wife, Ivana, with his second wife, Marla, and then on his second wife with his third wife, Melania.
Melania is no fool and knows that Trump has cheated on her.
So, go for it! I am sure Trump, as a rich husband, would be happy to cheat on his third wife again, and, who knows, you might become Wife #4 for a while... until Wife #5 comes along.
Person/people who disagree with me: What is it exactly that you are disagreeing about?
>> That he's not actually rich? You may be onto something because of all that fraudulent accounting... He's not on the Forbes Richest 400 anymore...
>> That he's not a husband? Well, in a sense, you're right because a husband doesn't commit adultery or treat his wives (or even ex-wives) like shit. That said, at this moment, he is technically married, so he is a husband.
>> That he doesn't commit adultery? Well, the record sort of speaks for itself, doesn't it? Do a little due diligence from those times, and it's obvious. But, regardless, after all, when he's saying all you have to do is "grab 'em by the pussy", he wasn't talking about his wife. That tells you all you need to know.
I know you're saying it laughingly, but just be in shape, be feminine, be interested in sex. Throw in caring/accommodating then all you really have to do is go to areas where rich men go and you'll find one.
Rich guys want what all guys want as far as female traits/partner traits are concerned. If you take an interest in him, you really like sex, you're in shape, you make him feel good anytime when you're around. Yeah he's going to want to wife you up
Step 1: Go to school in a field that pays well.
Step 2: Get your own job and stop using a man as a crutch.
Step 3: Accept that a man might not earn as much as you and this doesn't make him a failure.
Step 4: Profit from the wisdom of actually being an adult.
You don’t! You get off your backside and work on your career!!! Why would any self made man look for a partner that is just gold digging - they don’t, they can spot them a mile off and consider them no better than leeches! Get a job, educate yourself, and build your own empire! The reason you are receiving this unsympathetic response from me is because of the way you have expressed the question.
Men dont care about womens financial success. She's actually on the right track a million dollar man will back a hundred dollar woman anyday
Old money (like the Rockfellers, Rothschilds, Vanderbilts, Al Sauds, Waltons) does... Not only she has to be attractive, but has to be equally well-off and successful. This girl doesn't have either the looks or status to attract such guys
I think you're doing the fairytale thing women do. You're using one exception to make the rule. She said rich not generational wealthy those are two completely different things. Men on general dont care about a womans finances she just needs to be beautiful and as least annoying as she can be. As far as the looks you can't really say.
@Vegasrunner You didn't like her answer, so you dismiss it as a fairytale.. It depends on what type of rich men we are talking about.
Epstein and Trump or Zuckerberg and Bill Gates, which are both married to scientists with an Ivy League degree?
Classy men that view women as equals and not as sex objects, actually do care about a woman's education and finances, not just her looks. They're smart enough not to marry gold-diggers, because they know in case they will divorce, they will lose half of their assets..
@Someone700 You're kinda doing the same fairy tale thing. Between the two of you u listed 8 of the wealthiest families that have ever existed in the history of the world. I hate to be the one to break it to u but neither of you are marrying someone from those families. "Classy" is subjective so unless you can define it dont present it. Men are not concerned w/ women's finances if that was the case you wouldn't even have the term Gold Digger, you also would have Nightclub culture, baller websites sugar baby websites, and prostitution. Reality your value as a woman to a high value man is your beauty, loyalty and submission. I didn't bust my ass to create value in myself to take on another women's mission. No real man does. I realize that it hurts and goes against what you've been taught but it's how real mean speak when they've amongst each other. If you want you're career great just know that men dont give a fux about it.
@Vegasrunner You don't know me in person in real life, therefore I couldn't care less about your assumptions about me.
"Reality your value as a woman to a high value man is your beauty, loyalty and submission."
So, you are one of them. It's pretty obvious by this statement, who you voted for.. You probably share the same values as him...
I define classy as someone "successful, cultured, educated, intelligent, influential" that values women's opinions and doesn't view them as inferior. I wouldn't give a guy like you the time of the day, you're someone I would avoid like the plague in real life.
I'm not wasting anymore time in this conversation. Au revoir
Rich that I’m talking about is millionaires that not too broke to take care of me in every way I want. I know a really not gonna want me cuz I don’t think they will attractive to me
There are more young men who will become rich than there are men who are already rich. My hairstylist is marrying a man who is a senior engineer at Amazon. He probably makes $400K/year and has about two or three million in stock if he didn’t sell it. Is that rich enough for you?
Probably not.
@FýrdracaDócincel Then good luck. I described men in the top 1% of wage earners. Men who earn more than that are quite rare and have a lot of choice in partners. If you want their attention you are going to have to 1) go to places where you can meet them and 2) be special enough to attract their attention.
What's with girls and marrying rich or treating their boyfriends like an atm?
Personally, I find it disgusting but that might be because I'm not much interested in depending on someone else.
The number of times I have heard a girl say she's looking for a rich boyfriend/husband is... actually not a lot lol but every time I hear a girl say that it makes me cringe.
Rich attract alike and if you ain’t one, the best you can get is a hookup or a pay for “services” rendered and not a diamond ring. The only way to a rich husband is socialite route, I. e if you got beauty with no talent, selling your body to the highest bidder, invest well, get rich and now you can mingle with rich people with prospects of meeting someone richer to marry you.
1 Timothy 6:10
For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have
wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs
another goes into the snake to be tortured lol
hahahahahaha
the snake will be in the video good luck
https://www.youtube.com/embed/fH1uylyEnLU
I know you may be hurt. But your sexist troll post is only hurting (not helping) your cause. Who knows? Certain women are "actually" gold diggers and that may have triggered certain men to treat women the way that they did (not that it's right). It's a circle that seemingly has no end until you stop being sexist.
There’s nothing wrong with a girl looking for a man that’s capable of supporting her or that has a career that will give them a certain life style but if that’s all you’re looking for that might be all you get. You might miss out on someone that’s kind and generous he might decide that if all you want him for is his money then he might treat you as you need to earn it by whatever means he decides this might be a scary situation
I can't tell whether you're trolling or you are really looking for someone rich.
She's hurt 🤕
@Lucina_Rose yes, I am. 🥲
Well you aren't solving problems with this post. You're creating more.
m m @PrettyPriya Very 😭
GUYS listen!! Stay AWAY from golddiggers. They rob your money, men are nothing but a walking wallet to them, they dont care about your personality or feelings. They are not better than escort girls. If you want to pay a girl so that she stays with you and has sex, an escort is the better choice
Whaaaaat? How are you not a walking wallet to a escort? They sell sex only, not a good woman to spend your time with at all. Have you ever seen your escorts personal IG? Guarantee she has a pimp, boyfriend, or baby daddy, you are nothing to her but $$$. girlfriend > GFE shouldn’t even be mentioned.
A woman with self respect may expect support to show commitment, or for you to have your own thing going on if she has hers.
@Justerino so you stand on golddiggers side like a simp. A golddiggers love is as real as an escorts love
@Fromdusktilldawn get married with an escort then! 😭
@Justerino you dont seem to get my point. Just like a usual comment section warrior who is bored and wants to annoy people
Sorry the emoticon wasn’t necessary… I’m just saying, what’s a gold digger? One, do you like this girl at all, no? Then you’re just using her sex and she has a limited time in your life, yes? Then what’s the issue? She’s expects a guy to provide her a comfortable life? Is that really that offensive to you? Don’t give a gold digger who you don’t like money, any money, don’t give an escort you don’t like money either, but an escort you do like? Not everyone wants to have kids or a monogamous relationship but I think that style relationship gives the most support to children.
Sure waste your time and efforts towards an unlikely outcome. Or build something you can be proud of with someone you like on your own starting level. The later is a safer bet but requires effort but pays of almost certainly.
Im pretty well off,
and i only date women that are well off/ equil to me,
this ensures they are in it for the right reasons, They are with me by choice,
my wife runs 2 companies, Has over 500,000$. Saved, And
we are building a 6,000sf house together
Women that date guys for money are the lowest of the low,
And I only date people that are my equals.
if you dont have anything BIG going for you, You have no shot with me
Well, if he is a self married millionaire chances are he won't have that much time to spare on you. He's busy earning his pay.
If he is born into money he will possibly feel like he is entitled and treat you like crap.
Rich guys aren't everything, and many are Egomaniacs. Just find a decent hard worker how looks after you rather than looses himself in his money.
It's simple, just think of it in terms of an equation, a girl that's looking for a rich guy must be ready to have something to give in return that provides the same value, i. e. to be really hot. The hotter you are, the wealthier the guy you can get, is that simple. Just keep in mind that it's just a transaction for both, he'll dump you as soon as he can get a hotter girl.
Probably the nerd you avoided in high school honestly. Everyone especially girls all thought I was such a dweeb. The sports jocks got all the girls attention. Well fast forward 15 years, those sports jocks are struggling to make a living, relationships fail... and im here with a cushy six figure salary, private plane, three quarter million dollar house, take awesome vacations several times a year. I have more problems keeping girls away from me now...
Rich guys are generally going to pick slim girls with small boobs. So if you are slim with smaller boobs, you are physically their type. Other than that, you have to get them with your personality which is different for each guy. If you're fun or happy a lot, or at least present yourself that way, a lot of guys will be interested in you.
I am quite well off. Typically I date youngest possible ie 18 to 21. I date attractive thin women so about 120lbs or less. And I date virginal women, virgins or very inexperienced ones get my attention.
So the closer you can be to those things, the more likely you can get a wealthy mans attention.
Good luck.
@Clyde_123 It is because it is a pleasure that some men have because inexperience and being the dominant ones attract their attention, do you understand?
@Clyde_123 more valuable. If a man has lots of value he wants something valuable too. I am also dominating and like to win, i don't want second place (or 15th smh). That would mean nothing to me. I want someone I can be proud of.
I think if at 18 you already feel this way about relationships they aren't for you.
I wish I could say I was surprised that this question is on here but I’m really not. Disappointed, but not surprised. It’s no wonder divorce rates are so high these days.
Head to Palm Beach. FL. Not West Palm Beach. Palm Beach. There are plenty of guys old and rich enough that all you have to do is have sex once on the wedding night and you inherit enough to be set for life.
You’re 18….. Go enjoy life; make your own money and get your own career
@lovedejj_xo best advice
I want to be the rich wife on my own😂 but yes.
@lovedejj_xo it’s about making your own place in the world and saying look at me, not about getting someone else and saying look at them
Also doing it on your own helps with confidence, helps being independent etc.
@chrismaster69 absolutely
@simphunter007 go troll elsewhere dude.
Or what?
She’s clearly lazy
Simphunter007 still trolling I see🤣. I gave him a run for his money. He gave up
Does he *really* have to be rich?
Like, can't he also just be someone that has a good job doing something that he loves? One that manages his money well?
typically in these types of marriages, you must have something to offer to your rich husband. Typically its you are the trophy wife while he pays you $.
"why don’t I find a rich one" ... One reason is that people will think you're a gold digger and look down on you. Funny that even rich guys don't like gold diggers and they are the only ones that benefit from their existence.
You're confused.
Plenty of rich husbands murder and abuse their wives.
You seriously need to reassess your life, kiddo.
Maam, U know it's better to find a nice guy and be his another half and help him to become rich and travel the journey along wid him.
You think a rich husband gonna care about you? No unless your extremely attractive and have a good personality. No rich guy is gonna pick you to be his wife, more like friends with benefits if your lucky
You can be a rich guys sugar baby at best. Lots of girls do it to get their breasts done and body fixed up. I don’t know how rich you are talking. And you gotta be prepared to get with a guy 50-80years old because that’s where the money is.
How about getting a real job, earning your own money---the right way---and developing qualities and competencies that will make you have more to offer than any girl who would seek a rich husband?
Get a career. Then you will be working with said rich guys... More contact better chances of meeting one. Birds of a feather flock together... Go work where rich men Work.
If you are really shallow enough to look for a husband on the basis of how much money he has, you won't mind if he judges you solely on how well you use your pussy, right?
Too find a rich husband, put it out thier that they are gold diggers and very complaint too thier husband's wishes.
Be skinny, work on being fit, do your hair and makeup and hang out around the Boating Docks where rich dudes with Yachts hang out
Tell me you are a gold digger or a sugar baby without telling me you are a gold digger or a sugar baby.
I used to be a sugar baby , at least I got $3-4,000 easy
@Darine123
That amount is pocket change.
Yes, it was
I see two ways:
1) you get super hot and present yourself. But the only rich guys you’d get will be narcissistic assholes.
2) Get educated, get rich yourself and then find a guy with equal ambition who’s also nice.
Pass. Wealth is a fortunate bonus not the main attraction.
What dp you have to offer a rich man? Don't say looks, he can get those from anyone, so they have an effective differentiation factor of zero.
Rich old men, they are everywhere. Your colleagues, co-workers, I am sure one of them is rich
"Broke men will hurt you and rich men won't."
-Someone named Darine on the internet
Broke men and rich men still break my gear so why don’t I be with a rich one. I rather cry in a penthouse not an apartment 😹
That's the spirit lol
What do you offer? A rich guy can get unlimited pussy. So I'd that is all you have to offer good luck.
I earn 800k $ every year just by doing trading... it is qualified rich in your gorgeous eyes?
Of course babe💕
Let's crack the deal.
Pm me
it won't be easy because rich guys are actually just minority , so u may ended up competing with others
if everyone is rich , money has no value at all
I have a lot more respect for prostitutes vs women with this mindset.
@OpenClose ironically they are actually the most honest women.
@Darine123 I know you are young so I will cut you some slack. But the fact that many women have this attitude and at the same time push feminism and “equal rights” bs is one of the most disgusting hypocrisies of the female gender. Just realize what you are doing. You can’t be both “equal” and “special”. This attitude is one of the top contributors to misogyny.
@OpenClose @globetrotter22 what you mean you know what you’re getting? You don’t, 5 guys could have banged her that same day, think she’d ever tell you? It’s gross, and what she is talking about, looking for a husband, you come home to the girl everyday and she’ll probably cook for you and clean up a bit too. Then if you have a bad day, you don’t have to leave, and so many other things that make having a woman of your own so much better!
@Justerino If you go to a brothel, you know she is having sex with you for the money. That's essentially what I mean. Plus I can just assume she's been with hundreds of other guys. You kinda go in with that already in mind.
With regards to cooking and cleaning, I don't want to think of these things as my wife's "job". If she likes cooking and cleaning, and prefers keeping the house cleaner than I do, then great. But I don't expect these things, so I don't really know what I'm getting in that regard, either. I mean I expect her to carry her weight in some way. But there are a lot more ways to do that now. Maybe she makes enough in her OWN job that we can afford professional cleaners and a cook.
I mean obviously I think having a wife is better than seeing a prostitute. But a gold digger will pretend to love you because she wants to hop into your lifestyle without having done anything to earn it. Simply riding on a female privilege, in a sense.
You could argue prostitutes, OnlyFans girls, pornstars, and camgirls are also riding a similar "privilege", but when you engage, you already know that this is kinda the point.
@Justerino I get what you are saying man. I used to think the exact same way. But the type of woman you described if becoming an increasingly rare commodity. Yes she exists but in my world (and I am bit older) she’s already taken and/or I have a lotto’s chance of finding her.
I THINK i met such a woman a few years ago. Long story why it didn’t work out. For a long time I thought screwed that up. However I found out not too long ago she f*cking cheated on me.
I used to be 100% against prostitution. But our society is brainwashing women to treat men like shit. So i see their services as a more viable cause. Yeah it’s only business and they dont really care for you. But they are HONEST about the transaction.
Gold diggers are the lower than pond scum. The worst of the worst. Especially in western countries there absolutely no excuse for that behavior. It’s disgusting
dating is 100% more worth it than seeing a hooker. If you ever want a girlfriend after sure she wouldn’t be happy about it and you don’t get any better at treating a woman or having a relationship with a woman, even if you are super rich and too busy you can find a better girl than a hooker to spend your time with, it really is an easy and desperate way out of loneliness / being horny. Honestly, I have no advice for anyone in relationships but use your own judgement. I definitely believe in love karma though. I’m just saying hookers are a waste of money whether it is once a year or multiple times a week.
@Justerino i used to think the exact same way. In fact I WISH I could still believe that. But not every guy has had the best dating experiences going through life. I am not talking about 1 or 2 bad experiences with women but more like 15 to 20+ in the last 10 years.
I feel like i have to wander through a giant sess pool to find an occasional oasis. And the oasis’ are getting less and less common
The oasis still exists but i Don’t know how many more buzz saws i have to run through to get to one.
Dress and act classy and go to 5 star hotel bars and country clubs.
I wish you a rich guy which brakes up with you because you aren't rich... just to realize the irony
A rich one will cheat on you just as much. Because he knows he can get any girl he wants unless she’s a celebrity named Kim Kardashian.
Start hanging around airports and talk to the airline pilots
Mannnn, sounds like a good idea😭
Ouh, give me your dad number 😂
Just continue what you're doing and be a skank eventually you'll find a guy Stupid Enough To Marry You!
You want a rich guy or a rich husband? What would you do of someday else's husband rich or not 😸
Nothing wrong with whatever you want. Maybe go to charity event and fundraisers. Dress in nice
Take a job in income tax. Abuse your position to get a list.
Go to Hilton and have breakfast there or just wait in the lobby area, wearing something revealing...
Bir Türk bul. Onunla bir gece geçir, adam fakir de olsa banka soyup sana her şeyi verir. Büyük kalçalarınız ve büyük göğüsleriniz ve bir deliğiniz varsa yeterlidir.
Find a Turk. Spend a night with him, even if the man is poor, he will rob a bank and give you everything. It is enough if you have big hips and big breasts and a hole.
Lmaooo, no if he has to rob a bank for me😭
best bet? make an only fans and be a proper gold digger on there and see which man falls in love with you and donates the most
Make a load of money urself, marry a guy, half ur money will become his and there u have it, a rich husband!
first you have to be beautiful have class because if you are going to be arm candy than you better look it
Wouldn't we all like someone to "take care of us". Guys would like that too!
You'll have to break up with your current boyfriend before doing that though.
Typically though the rich, date the rich
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