Marriage is hard work, even when two people have a lot in common and begin the relationship in pure bliss. Over time, challenges will arise as a couple and for each one individually, during must support each other. If you're in a healthy relationship, will learn, grow and become closer as facing these challenges.
nope, never have... I've seen plenty of good marriages all around me, so I sure see the value of it, and the great aspects of it, when it is done well, of course
Indifferent about it, works for some people but not for everyone, personally it's not something I aspire to. I know plenty of people who are in far healthier relationships without having a certificate to show for it than married people.
no, I just got married. I have a positive view that it gives security, but puts a focus on continual work to express love and keep it fresh.
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Actually. When you marry you have to have sex with one person All of your life. So, we must be cautious who we choose. It is risky. After dating around we must find someone who is both mentally and sexually compatible to us.
The divorce rate is very high. Just keep in mind, divorce is very expensive!
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I don't have negative views on the institution itself. But experience has taught me virtually no woman anymore is capable of loving "till death do us part". And wedding vows shouldn't be thought of as "temporary". Or "till something better comes along". Or "till I grow bored". So while I still believe in marriage. I just think virtually no one qualifies for it anymore.
I don't think marriage is useful unless it solves some legal or financial issue where it would be beneficial to pass on assets for example or make benefits pass on to survivors.
I have seen 2 failed marraiges of my mother and 1 of my granmother. And besides that i also know what am ass my stepfather was. So i don't know of i will change my mind in future but i doubt i will get married.
ya I've known very few people in my life i’d consider genuinely, happily married. i don’t see why people can’t be in a relationship without a contract behind it. 🤷♂️
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I have good views on marriage, hoping to do it one day. Many people I know have been married for years and are very happy.
Marriage is hard work, even when two people have a lot in common and begin the relationship in pure bliss. Over time, challenges will arise as a couple and for each one individually, during must support each other. If you're in a healthy relationship, will learn, grow and become closer as facing these challenges.
Why would anyone do something unnecessary and undesirable thats hard work
What is the meaning of your life if you don't do the hard work?
nope, never have... I've seen plenty of good marriages all around me, so I sure see the value of it, and the great aspects of it, when it is done well, of course
Indifferent about it, works for some people but not for everyone, personally it's not something I aspire to. I know plenty of people who are in far healthier relationships without having a certificate to show for it than married people.
no, I just got married.
I have a positive view that it gives security, but puts a focus on continual work to express love and keep it fresh.
Actually. When you marry you have to have sex with one person All of your life. So, we must be cautious who we choose. It is risky. After dating around we must find someone who is both mentally and sexually compatible to us.
I don't care if I end up married or not, but I allow others to make that choice for themselves without judgment.
I have seen many successful marriages so I don't have negative views on it.
The divorce rate is very high. Just keep in mind, divorce is very expensive!
I don't have negative views on the institution itself. But experience has taught me virtually no woman anymore is capable of loving "till death do us part". And wedding vows shouldn't be thought of as "temporary". Or "till something better comes along". Or "till I grow bored". So while I still believe in marriage. I just think virtually no one qualifies for it anymore.
I don't think marriage is useful unless it solves some legal or financial issue where it would be beneficial to pass on assets for example or make benefits pass on to survivors.
I have seen 2 failed marraiges of my mother and 1 of my granmother.
And besides that i also know what am ass my stepfather was.
So i don't know of i will change my mind in future but i doubt i will get married.
I don't have a negative view of marriage as an act or symbol, just the laws around it.
I am more neutral on it. It seems to be more for some people than others.
I do not have negative views about it. It is not for everyone and if you end up with the wrong person it can be bad.
That's why an engagement before actually tying the knot is very important. People rush in where angels fear to tread.
https://youtu.be/kVrwHQ9-6ls
I have neutral views on marriage but I do like the idea I have to have a woman/ girl with the same views as myself
Your question brings to mind a joke my brother told me.
Do you know why husbands generally die before their wives?
Why? I wanna hear the joke?
@Hispanic-Cool-Guy
Because they want to. lol
I don't get the joke?
daniel tosh said that joke once 🤣
@dolemite89
I'm not sure who that is, but it made me laugh.
It's a foolish institution that simply redistributes the man's wealth to the woman when the woman gets tired of him.
ya I've known very few people in my life i’d consider genuinely, happily married. i don’t see why people can’t be in a relationship without a contract behind it. 🤷♂️
I think only in my adult life have I ever wanted to be married.