Even though I do not get along with my family, I do not want to relocate unless my new neighbourhood is better then my old one. I love the idea of marriage and caring for others but not sure I want to marry because it’s a lot of responsibility and means I’m no longer free to choose my life, also do not want to give up my career for a guy unless he earns enough that I can give up my job, I fear being forced into poverty if my husband is poor but does not let me work.
I don't know Jen. Says you are 37yo and you aren’t married. Are you happy with your current situation? Did you ask him to move in with you? How much money do u make? Where do u and he live? No use moving if you are going to be miserable in your new place. If you want a change and willing to take a risk that’s up to u. It depends on your goals in life.
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Not likely. In a relationship your partner comes FIRST. Everyone I know and love is here. So she has to be worth uprooting my life and leaving all of them. And I've never met a woman so far worthy of that.
Love and mariage needs to be well thoughts and you are right to fear for your freedom. By relocating you can end up beeing isolated , and men are not predictable … do what makes you feel good and of you jump into it and Marry him , never Forget your dreams
It would be very hard for me to leave my family and friends behind so I'm not sure.
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For the guy that I love, yes I would!
I’m not old enough, but if I was I’d have to be sure I was really in love with him before I did that.
Actually maybe I am old enough. I have two more years of high school left, but my boyfriend and I have already been talking about whether we wanna (or even can) go to the same college (he’s a year older than me).
I've relocated to a different continent twice and was asked to do it another time. I wouldn't do it again, TBH. It entails a lot of risk unless you have a comprable or better job lined up.
Prefer they relocate here, I'm the first homeowner of a cozy house. That makes it easier, but would move again if career needs dictate.
If the relationship became serious then possibly
I do anything for the crush that I have right now
I know a girl who did this, I used to like her a lot, but she found someone afar and relocated.
I'd couldn't explain this to myself 'cause she was so close with her family and some friendsI know this is directed toward women, but the world is a different place these days. Packing up and relocating isn’t what it used to be. A lot of risk and with relationships being so prone to failure it’s better to just date locally.
probably wouldn't mind relocating if we were in love and the new city was big enough
it would depend on how much I liked the girl I suppose.
Go where the money and value is. You decide as a couple the better location and where you’ll be better off financially.
Yes, I would relocate, I wanted to. My last boyfriend, however, wouldn't relocate for me or let me move in, and he broke up with me.
only if there's a ring.
I would move to Greece……. 👀
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