Would you relocate for your partner?

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Let’s say they live far in another country

ZamerZ · Accepted Answer

Depends on the country and several other factors since just moving based on emotions alone sounds very unreasonable. I'd never move to the U. S. and prefer a country that has the same or similar standard as mine when it comes to living conditions, healthcare and my own job possibilities. I am very close with my family and miss them despite living in the same country and "only" 6 hours away from them. So the person and the new opportunities would need to outweigh what I already have here. If the difference is just one person, I wouldn't do it.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I would relocate to a new house or apartment for a husband but not another country unless it was a place I would have chosen even if he was not around. I believe it’s possible to make your husband happy without making yourself miserable at the same time so there should be a place that both of us are happy living in.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

How do you start dating someone who lives in another country? My fiancee is from China; I would have never met her if she was still there.

She lived about 80 miles away from me when we started dating, so I could drive there, have dinner together, then come home, or go visiting on weekends. I would have moved to her home eventually, but she chose to move to mine.

dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

I already have. 🙂 The 15-hour time difference was hard on our LDR. But, I’d only do that for someone I’m  very  serious with. My S/O is my fiancée though — so that’s serious enough, haha.

Hawkes_Lady · Answer

It would all depend on the circumstances. I would have a very hard time leaving my family, but anything is possible.

TenderFantasy · Answer

I guess if they were my husband and it was for his job or something but other than that, I don't know. That's hard right now, at least for me, just because I have a lot of roots and things here that I've established and gotten used to, but maybe if they were really the love of my life or something and where I'd be going wasn't that bad or too remote/different.

HawkPerception · Answer

If she's my dream girl in every way (kind and intelligent, same views, same interests, same way of thinking, same way of communicating, same sense of humor, same love languages, sexually and physically compatible, etc) there isn't a place in the world I would not go for that girl.

JacobJordan · Answer

My wife was born in a different country. She wanted to go visit her country I decided we should just buy a house so we can visit or stay whenever we wanted. Basically any place we have visited that she really liked we have bought property and houses. Far simpler than trying to sort out hotel rooms and reservations. We just fly in drive to the house and boom place to stay for our time there.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I mean if I'm absolutely head over heels and the circumstances made that the only way and truly trust the person then yes I would.

That said Visas and getting residence in certain countries is not always a simple task. The logistics could be complicated and monetarily costly

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely. I'm moving to Mexico shortly. I know my future wife is there, I've already spent significant time in villages there. I hope she doesn't want to come here though, because I'm not coming back. No desire to. Most there though, if you're doing all right and a decent person, they just want to be with you period, regardless of where. They wouldn't want to leave their family anyhow, it's HUGE there... and I wouldn't want her to anyhow.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

If I understood how the family would be provided for. I have a solid job, not extravagant but enough for me and kids to live. My OH is native to south america, if she wanted to move back, I'd have to be confident we'd have a decent income

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I have no problem with relocation. My company allows me to work from almost any country in the world... I would only need to realign meeting times and voilà

WhitneySnow · Answer

I’m not sure. It would really depend on the circumstances and what was going on in my life at the time. I might want them to be the one who relocates for me.

worldscolide · Answer

No, i would not. Sorry im established, own my home, and have a career i have been at for a decade. there is no chance in hell, even if she was perfect and ms right. Thank god im not in that boat though, im married lol.

Nikki1989 · Answer

We relocated to another country, but we both wanted to do it. I would never move just for a man alone.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

I’d move to another house but I don’t think I’d move to another country. I’d be scared to be in another country because what if I need help or things don’t workout and I’m alone in a place I don’t know.

Staximus · Answer

I wouldn't have a "partner" , girlfriend, or wife in another country. That's not a real relationship, it's just bullshit.

SphynxUK · Answer

No. Not to another country. Probably not even to another town because my family is here.

bobalife · Answer

Yeah, if it’s someone I decided to be with and we build a strong foundation as a couple.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

In the past no, but now that my income is very flexible, I certainly would if it was the right person.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Yeah, I would be willing.. I would miss the fam, but I could just always visit, and it's not like they are necessarily keeping where I am..

sawno · Answer

Was planning to do it for my last relationship but unfortunately lockdown lasted to long.

katiesmuff · Answer

I sure would think you would want to get your partner close to you.

msc545 · Answer

I was seeing a woman who lived in Mexico City for a year and a half on alternate weekends before moving there - a year later she cheated on me and I left her and moved back to the US.

exitseven · Answer

yes but I dont think I would go to another country unless it was Canada

sheikalana · Answer

Only if I could maintain a good quality life.

serious_miss419 · Answer

Not a chance. I have my own obligations to tend to and prioritize my day to day around those obligations.

loveslongnails · Answer

That would very much depend on the country and if I could do my work there.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

With enough time and proper planning then marriage is the result then yes I would

dlonso777 · Answer

I think it would depend on a lot of things, such as whether we each have jobs and where the rest of my famiky lives. But all in all I wouldn't be opposed to it.

ienjoylookingatgreen · Answer

No way, change my whole life for one person is pathetic

Crankor · Answer

One or the other would have to or else there would be no point to it

DreamLife7 · Answer

Stop being so desperate before u end up dead in a lake. Use your damn brain

OtterMan68 · Answer

Yes, if it was a better place for us than where I lived: financially, safety, climate, etc

LiamJHayden · Answer

No, I wouldn't. My ties here are too strong.

91bryce91 · Answer

nup, thats crazytalk. there's plenty of vagina here where i live

Anonymous · Answer

Tried to see her 3000 miles in her state just to get stood up by her

laly520 · Answer

they already live in a far another country

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

If I think he's worth it, yes! :)

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

Yes, if I liked them enough.

SoJust · Answer

No , I don't change

Bismarck_96 · Answer

I would if I’m in something serious with her

Minahh · Answer

No if I didn't already want to move there

rosemilk · Answer

nope

jaskin777 · Answer

Yes absolutely

LavLavLuv · Answer

Yes I would

DreamGlow · Answer

Nah. .

litty736 · Answer

Absolutely

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No..

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Possible yes

Unknownuseraccount · Answer

Yes.

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