Examples include: wanting to marry a guy that wants 30 dogs, wanting to marry a guy who works as a shaman and pagan herbalist, wanting to marry an albino, wanting a guy that’s 7 feet or 4 feet tall etc… I wonder if any body is searchable if you know where to find them. I have a very specific guy or type of guy that I want and it might take years to find one cause the guy at work did not want to trade numbers since it was against the rules.
With online communities like Reddit spreading like wildfire online, it is definitely easier to find that specific trait on some part of the Internet, be it also on chats, apps, or even some part of the Dark Web.
But you might find, like some do, that that ideal doesn't hold.
I hope it's not the case and you find what you're looking for. People may say a thousand things, but if you're serious about something you don't HAVE to settle.
You can change your mind like everyone else.
It's hard enough to find a person you mesh with. It always amuses me when someone makes thier dating unnecessarily difficult by adding unrealistic parameters like height requirements. Because these are the people that invariably complain about thier lack of options. When they were the ones that chose to shrink thier dating options.🤣
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A lot of men are unique, but if you're looking for a specific type, then I'm gonna let you know to leave your imagination alone. Refine what it is you truly seek in a man and a marriage. If you have no children, you have much higher chance than the women who have one or more.
Also, a lot of men will take note of your age as well. So it'll be best to have a great personality and never have a nasty attitude. Be your own person and don't be a boring woman all the time. However wanting 30 dogs or being 7 ft 4 is just ridiculous, but I get that it's an example.
You want a unique man and there is nothing wrong with that at all. Just don't let your type be as crazy as those examples. Just be realistic.
Marriage is a very special thing to have and it's not something to take lightly. He has to consider you worth marrying in order for that to happen, that's the main thing.
As has been said, nobody is perfect but you'll find someone who is 'close enough'. I never thought I'd find my perfect partner and she isn't but she's not far off. All I need to do is wean her off heavy rock music and she's perfect lol
Of course it's hard. If you impose enough requirements you exclude everyone in the world. If you are member of a religious minority and want to marry someone who shares your religion that can be very hard if the number of adherents is small.
It is hard for one person to check every box, but you could open your mind to polyamory and have loving relationships with several different people whom all check different boxes instead of just one person. I think this the best part of the lifestyle.
If a woman wants more than 2 dogs she's automatically disqualified as a crazy fucking dog lady.
Look, there's no such thing as perfect. Start looking for good enough or you will be waiting forever
Yeah, it will always be hard to find guys like that
That is a very interesting question. I've often said it's difficult for me to find my type in the world because a woman who's my type is likely hanging out at home watching anime all day in her free time (x and I was right! Lmfao
Thats very vivid. And specific. 30 dogs? You have any idea how much shit you'll be picking up?
Because the qualities that make a guy atypical in the ways that you describe are very rare.
seems very picky, may i suggest lowering your standards?
With the internet anything is possible
I don’t know, probably.
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