Girls, you are a single bridesmaid at your friends wedding. Are you looking at the groomsmen and taking a peak for any cute guys to talk to later on?

[sportchamp618]

[jennifer_bloom]

I lost most of my friends from lying, gossip and people gaslighting me so I only attended one wedding, cause most of my dad's friends are in other countries since he wasn't born in Canada. The wedding that I was at, I sat next to a guy that would never be anything other than a friend along with the cousins of the groom. The guy was my accountability partner in a way cause he had more life experience then me but we did not socialize in any close way since our social circles were not the same. He knew I would never date him cause he was not religious and I knew he would never date me cause he only dated girls with high paying jobs.

[Anonymous]

i can tell you right now, being a bridesmaid taken or single is annoying. taken or single, we just want to go home, regardless of our relationship status.

[sportchamp618]

Really? Why?

[SaoirseS]

Nothing wrong with looking.

[OctoberGirl88]

Absolutely

[sportchamp618]

Would you make a move on anyone?

[OctoberGirl88]

Depends on if they showed equal interest

[sportchamp618]

Should he make the first move or you?

[OctoberGirl88]

Again it depends on what he’s given me. Also, I am the type to make moves, but not all girls are comfortable with it.

[sportchamp618]

Give me an example of making a move so I don’t ignore these types of indications in the future.

[OctoberGirl88]

So for example if there’s been flirting back and forth I’m going to assume the guy is interested and just ask for his number. That alone would indicate that I am also interested.