Curious to see if people's opinions on the traditional way people do life such as marriage and kids is as appealing once you've been through it. I never want to get married and people think it's wrong. I'm all about living in the moment and keeping life fun and free of stress until I die. I do want a serious relationship, if I meet the right person but not marriage. Just curious to see if people are genuinely married and have kids and happy or if life becomes miserable when you are no longer your priority.
I'm not married nor do I have children so I may be biased but I doubt people truly regret spreading their genetic line, but who knows.
Marriage can be fun, but from what I've seen with divorces, maybe it's not that fun, once the "newness" wears off? Either that or they don't know how to do marriage and they are now regretting, but I don't know. I doubt people regret things that result in good outcomes anyway. By good outcomes, I mean good memories to take to your death bed. Fond experiences, etc. I doubt the people they marry were always bad. I am sure there were good, fun times there, otherwise, why did they even get married? ! Marriage is supposed to be a serious committment and for life. If my parents could do it for close to 47 years, then why not others? ! What is the difference between my parents and them? ! Are my parents more PATIENT than the typical person of today's generation? ! Maybe!
Sorry if I'm not much help but that's all I can say about it for now lol, as I don't have any real personal experience with this unfortunately. I HAVE been engaged though and the longest relationship I ever had was an on and off relatoinship of six years. The off years don't even really count. Anyway...
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Im not married nor a mom yet, but if i could go back, iād certainly start having kids between the age of 18-24 (initial goal anyways but iād go about things a different way)
We are intelligently designed to leave our parents, boy-girl cleave to one another, and take dominion over every living creature on the earth and in the sea. So, we are fighting the tide to take your route although not everyone marries or has babies.
The ease in which we can make babies only supports the Intelligent Design and its Purpose to reproduce, spread, and take dominion over the 🌎 🌍 🌏.
Since I've never been married, I would try to meet the woman I've been talking to for the past few days... like 8 years ago when I first signed up. she's been a member that long too i think.
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I would have no hesitation at all in doing it all over again... I worship and treasure both my husband and our two adorable precious children.
Meeting my wife was probably the best thing to happen to me. I never had a good relationship before. I thought that being crappy was just the way it was. My kids are awesome too.
Would do it all over again the same way. I love my husband and kiddos
It will be interesting to see the results.
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