have you sleep in separate bedroom with your spouse, wife or husband? and why or why not?
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Have you sleep in separate bedroom with your spouse, wife or husband? and why or why not?
Never. If she is pissed off, she was welcome to sleep on the couch or recliner. But I refuse to sleep in another room just because she was pissed off about yet another thing.
All the people that claim "snoring" is the reason, the SO needs a CPAP machine. Snoring is not a valid reason not so sleep together. If I got married again, and she came up with these lame excuses to not sleep in the same bed, that would be a serious issue. You can always get those sleep number beds if one needs a harder bed and one needs a softer bed.
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My SO and I sleep in separate bedrooms. She says she can't stand my snoring. We know a few couples who say, and do, the same thing.
Yes, we sleep in separate beds almost every night. He needs a hard bed to sleep since he has back problems, and I need a soft bed to sleep otherwise I wake up in pain. He also snores a lot and I can’t sleep with noise. We find that we both get better sleep and feel much more refreshed in the mornings if we sleep separately. Occasionally we’ll sleep in the same bed like once or twice a month.
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Not married but when I get married I'd definitely like to have at least one spare place in the house to sleep separately at times. Of course sometimes couples sleep separately when they are going through a rough patch, but I can see myself sleeping separately at times not because of anything being wrong with the marriage but just because I like my space sometimes.
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I think if I got married it would be great to have celibacy days where we act like brother and sister and not husband or wife.
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I'm not married, and never really been in a relationship where we "spend the night" or anything. I believe overall, I'd want to sleep in the same room. But, I sleep light, so if she's a snorer, or is physical during sleep (punching, flailing, kicking, etc), I would want another option. Maybe a separate bed, at least. I also hold weird hours, and unless she sleeps pretty soundly, I wouldn't want to wake her up at 3am, or I'd want to read and need light, or can't fall asleep if SHE needs to read in bed (or wants to watch tv).
I currently sleep on a couch. I'm in a lot of pain normally as it is, but my back has been killing me more and more the last few months, which has not been good for my health. Once I get better, I think I'm done with sleeping on couches, except maybe the occasional nap. I need something better; I don't get enough sleep. -
Yes. times my back bugs me and I had to go find a better mattress. Or when she isn't sleeping well and goes sleep elsewhere to avoid waking me up.
Thankfully, she is very easy to sleep with other than she likes her side boiling hot and I like cold, she sleeps like a rock and is quite still usually.
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We usually sleep together but there are definitely times where I wish I had a separate bed lol
only cause my husband is a cover hog. I wake up in the middle of the night for him to be rolled up in the entire blanket. We’ve even tried to sleep with our own blankets but he ends up throwing his to the side and stealing mine 💀
he also just hogs up the bed all together.
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I had boyfriend that I don't want to sleep in same bedroom. Turned out I just didn't love him 😂
Sharing sleep is the most intimate thing you can do. If you want to sleep together for months or years in the long turn You should truly love your spouse.
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I slept in a separate bedroom then my spouse once. I got back late from my job and they looked so peaceful that i didn't want to walk them when i woke up in the morning i found she had joined my sometime in the night and had her arms wrapped around me
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Not married but together almost 7 years. Only times we don't sleep in the same bed is when we have slept somewhere else, e. g he stayed at his friends after having drinks. Only time I can think we slept separately in the same house was when I slept on the couch because I was having a gallbladder attack and I wanted him to get some sleep because it was like the 3rd night in a row.
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I would like to have the option available if need be but not required of course.
It can be uncomfortable and sometimes very inconvenient to share bed with a person depending on the circumstances.
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Yes for a bit. Just to create some abscence and rekindle our intimate life.
Also he snored really really loudly.
He would slip in my bed sometimes or I would slip in his and we would separate. We ended up going back in the same bed.
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No , I don’t have an extra bedroom or maybe I would occasionally lol. But we sleep fine together and I enjoy the cuddles.
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I suggest separate bedroom if one of the partner snores
If you sleep every night with someone who snores there is a high chance you might suicide. We don’t want that -
He's slept on the couch numerous times, but not regularly. 😈
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I know a couple like that. Its because he snores. He uses a c-pap. Its loud according to her. He understands that she needs her sleep due to her job. Its always been what time of year because his allergies.
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When my ex husband told me he saw me more like a sister instead of a romantic partner that was when I decided to sleep separately.
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we have slept in separate rooms for a long time, i snore, she twists and turns and kicks all night, we sleep better alone
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Have non of the listed. But, whats wrong with you people? Dont answer.
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Might as well be best friends
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I've heard some Jews do that in their marriage.
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Glad I never been married
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Nope.
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