My co worker shared that his wife doesn't dress or live neatly as she used to before marriage.
He doesn't expect her to get dolled up but at least neat.
Why women lose interest of taking care of themselves after marriage
I equate this marriage scenario to her going fishing:
1) She (the angler) lands that big-ass - 6 ft trout in the boat and now he's temporarily flopping and gasping for air in the relationship, similar to a trout out of water;
2) She got dressed up in finest to land-em, so it's time to dress-down while she keeps him alive in the tank at home, feeding him on occasion.
3) She'll come back around to wearing something nice once spawning season commences and she needs his little swimmers.
4) Once the spawning period is over and they have several young-of-year running around, she'll go back to wearing her track-suit ensemble and that's when he'll be either poached or baked.
Thus marriage in nutshell, as told by OfMiceandMen, you can get the novel version at Chapters, and other quality book stores near you.
Because that is the point of marriage for women. To lock down a high value man and then stop caring. She has legal power over her husband and there is nothing he can do about it. She can fuck him any time she wants and completely destroy his life. The government and her army of white knights will support her.
Because they do everything they work outside the house and do more than 80 % of the work inside the house plus taking care of the kids so they're too tired to take care of themselves also women care more about their family well being than their own and their appearance. (at least that's the ways things are in France).
Even with two extremely young children, I still go to great lengths in always looking presentable and tidy.
And I've certainly never had any complaints whatsoever from my husband, or anyone else come that.
Looking at @LazerBean comments, I would safely have to say that she's hit the nail on the head!
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The same reason some men stop putting effort into acting cute romantic after marriage. Either they are lazy, no longer motivated to, or have different priorities.
People take for granted plus life may become monotonous after marrage. Women dont seek attention unless its their partner. Before marrage i feel women love getting compliments in genral and are seeking to attract a good guy after marrage they get what they want to that makes them comfortable i guess.
My wife does. She looked great when I met her and she still does. Great figure, great clothes and shoes that she finds for cheap at resale and thrift shops.
I'd say it applies to both parties. They don't put in effort because they've "won" so to speak. They're married now, they don't have a need to pea cock to each other no more.
I would say laziness. A lot of women just aspire to have a wedding. Its crazy, but this is proof.
probably because they're depressed about who they married and they're probably expected to do everything while the husband just comes home and barely does anything... i'm just saying.
u that sounds like a personal issue... not a generalized situation
im not married, but have children, i still maintain myself very well with very little effort. not everyone can be lumped into the same category.
Because marriage changes the dynamic. Pre marriage the man can nuke the relationship and the burden falls 100% on the woman. After marriage the woman has that power now.
I expect they begin to take their marriage for granted. Partners should always be trying to please each other, and NEVER take each other for granted
She is comfortable and happy, or very unhappy and doesn't care.
Many assume ðeir spouse ought to do it. Irresponsibility seems to be popular.
Its just the feeling of being comfortable and content and people just lets themselves go
Speak for yourself. I look better now than I did before I was married.
cause they figure they are taken so what the hell
My guess is they are unhappy.
I maintain myself 🤗
They got their meal ticket
Do they have kids?
