A man who truly respects his wife will never get her pregnant: True or false?

[Anonymous]

A man who knows enough about the female body and respects his wife should not and will not get her pregnant

True

False

[williael]

It's possible that getting her pregnant is the highest form of respect: he wants her to be the mother of his children. (This applies only to a committed, mature, loving relationships). I have had some long-term relationships with men who have children and they told me, "I wish you were their mother."

Also, it shows great respect for the female body to realize that it can do such miraculous things as prepare for childbirth, nurture and grow a new life, and deliver something so large through a passage so small and resilient.

I felt honored to be pregnant with a man's child. Physically, I was probably the healthiest I have ever been. Everyone's experience isn't the same, but that was how I felt about my pregnancy.

[Bethany22]

True. Men gain more walking away power once they get the woman pregnant, as the woman must then hope that he will not leave her for another woman and financially support that woman instead.

[menina]

I only see that being true if both agreed on not having children. Or if she has an health issue that can cause problems during pregnancy or while giving birth. Otherwise, it doesn't show that he doesn't respect her.

[Asker]

But isn't pregnancy in general a health issue

[menina]

No, I don't think so. Unless it's a risky pregnancy or if the woman is unhealthy.

[Anonymous]

So by your way of thinking, the only way the human race can survive if for men to "disrespect" women?

[Asker]

I don't know how else a man can ask a woman to go through such an excruciating process

[Opinion Owner]

Children are a lifelong gift.

[DizzyDesii]

Nah he needs to get me pregnant

[Asker]

Why? Even at such great cost to your mind and health?

[DizzyDesii]

I dont mind

[Anonymous]

What’s disrespectful about pregnancy?

[Asker]

It requires months on end of discomfort and it's a risk to your life

[Opinion Owner]

True but why is this disrespectful? I don't know if that’s the word you’re looking for.

[Asker]

Can a man who asks that of a woman really respect her?

[Opinion Owner]

I guess I’m not understanding how respect aligns with getting a woman pregnant. I mean I could understand if he used her, strung herself along, won’t give her a title or something then yeah stuff like that is disrespectful. But if a man and woman decide they want to have a baby, you think as a couple who want to be parents it’s disrespectful? Pregnancy is a beautiful thing for a woman who’s ready to be a mom.