What do you think eventually causes resentment and hatred in a marriage?

[Anonymous]

[Smashingdoozy]

Not caring. Even about the little things. That's why most marriages/ long term relationships end. Because someone doesn't care enough. Inviting people over without asking or giving a heads up, not doing housework, forgetting important days, not doing things when asked, continuing to do things when you've been asked not to, not telling someone about an event until the last minute, expecting them to drop everything for you when you don't do the same in return... The list goes on. Individually they seem insignificant and not that big of a deal but together they are incredibly frustrating and make you feel like shit.

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe my mom began abusing me and my dad because she was not happy and thought taking it out on us would ease her burden and then she did it for so long she did not know how to quit.

[MementoMori777]

The lack of God's involvement in the marriage, how are you going to thing your love life will last if you don't involve the king of love.

[Asker]

So since God doesn't approve of premarital sex, do you think it's crucial to wait until marriage to have sex? As a way to get his blessing and make the marriage last longer.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Too much doom, and not enough coom😎

You know what time it is... Coom'o clock.

[BCRanger10]

I think the fact that so many people these days go into marriage with a mindset of compatibility rather than love, sacrifice, and commitment. They look at a person and think about what they are willing to love and what they can get from the other and not about what they will give. It becomes about use.

It's for this reason among many others why I always say don't live together before getting married and don't have sex before getting married either. I know people think they're helping themselves and their relationships out, but all they're really doing is limiting themselves. They're turning what should be a full, conscious, and deliberate decision into a phase, into a transition. Love doesn't work that way.

[Cj_Shway]

well you don't really get a brake from your partner, it's you and them pretty much all the time 😂 I couldnt imagine being able to do that for ears and not kinda get sick of a person

[Anonymous]

Lack of commitment and not putting the needs of the other before one's own (i. e., selflessness). Those two conditions are at the core of most divorces today. With that in mind, women file 80% of divorces, so what does that tell you?

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Instead uh vs. e/other. U face the Problem and Solutionize it..

[Anonymous]

Nagging, laziness, no sex, one side doing everything

[Anonymous]

Lack of sex and communication

[ariadneR]

Non communication, and no trust

[LiamJHayden]

Lack of honest communication.

[Anonymous]

Boredom