My boyfriend wants to marry soon, but I don't because of my studies, what to do?

[I_m_not_real]

His younger brother wants to marry his girlfriend, but for him my boyfriend will have to marry me before. I'm from India, and here the elder marries first. But my studies will finish next year December, and he said that he cannot wait that long because of his younger brother. And my parents won't allow me to remain engaged to him for a year, because my parents are scared that groom will run away, or make me pregnant n all that bullshit. I hate my boyfriend and my parents for this, i feel that they're ruining my life, and i won't be able to happily enjoy my marriage. What to do?

[Gent207-2]

Your marriage is already ruined

Both of your timeliness and ability to stand up for each other has been tested by your parents and found insufficient. There is hope however if you two can break free from your families and forget your own path.

But if you cannot you will see this drama repeat again and again

[slatyb]

Tell him to wait. If he can't wait, you will meet someone else.

[delilahlovesyou]

Your profile says you’re 25—which I think is the perfect age for marriage. So no, you’re not too young. You can still go to school while you're married, though, right? I would personally love to stay home and have a man provide for me.

[I_m_not_real]

I'm 28...

[Anonymous]

i'd say just leave everyone and be by yourself so you can focus on your future career. for that toxic relationship/toxic family/toxic mindset.

[Opinion Owner]

forget that toxic*

[I_m_not_real]

I really feel like doing that sometimes...

[Opinion Owner]

go for it. you're still young. no reason to marry. especially right now.

[gothbxtch]

don’t get married unless you want to!

[Wise4myage]

Tell him how you feel and to be patient.

[DextroShade]

You should prioritize marriage over school.

[riverrat3]

Tell him find another girl