Guys, would you rather propose in public? Girls would you rather have a public proposal or a private engagement proposal?

[Anonymous]

I was thinking some people like to get public proposal and some just like private?

[Little_Bumblebee]

I really do not like the thought of being proposed to in public. That is a big ick for me.
And I also see it as a way to get some peer pressure into what should be a private, intimate event.

If I ever got proposed to. I would much rather want for it to be private. It could be outdoors as long as it's private.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

In the past, I thought public proposal was romantic.

Now, I think it should be our moment. Only my and his memory, no need to have multiple witnesses l.

[ShadezMcgee]

I would do it in private. I wouldn't want people to witness it and make her uncomfortable or feel pressured in the spotlight. I myself wouldn't want to be embarrassing if she said no.

Would rather do that in private just the two of us for either the next happy moment or the heartbreak that could follow.

[Lionman95]

No I definitely won´t propose in public because I´m the guy for that. I will do in private and well prepared and thought through. I don´t see the necessity to do in front of people I don´t know and make it a public thing.

[EmmaMary]

My husband proposed to me on Christmas Day Morning (2017) with both our families present.

It was, and will remain to be, the most beautiful and romantic Christmas present I could ever possibly wish for.

[BCRanger10]

I had originally planned to propose to my wife at a big fountain, but that didn't happen.

[Nikki1989]

My husband did it in a crowded restaurant to a standing applause. It was a very romantic moment that I will never forget.

[libsaretards]

By default I would pick proposing in private. I am a natural introvert anyways. However, it would really depend on her preference.

[heatherlou]

If I was ever going to be proposed to, I'd want it to be in private.

[sheikalana]

We had private proposal and a private wedding just for the two of us.

[TacosRAwesome]

I prefer it to be private. I don't need it to be done at home but I dont want an audience.

[jahaims]

If she wanted it to be public that is gross and we would be done.

[Nikki1989]

So I guess being romantic is not your strong suit?

[Sasha0426]

Yikes, dude. Good luck having long lasting relationships without breaking up over something stupid. It’s fine you don’t want to do it public but at least try to communicate first about your feelings. If she doesn’t understand, then yeah. Don’t bother staying.

[jahaims]

Comments making assumptions to justify your biased feelings because you are projecting

[Sasha0426]

Ok, then explain yourself. Why would you straight up end your relationship if she wanted a public proposal?

[Sasha0426]

And don’t just say because it’s gross. Like, give a really explanation on why it’s gross. What’s gross about it?

[Sasha0426]

*really good

[jahaims]

There we go. That is a much better approach than making aimless accusations based solely on your feelings. It is "gross" because proposing is supposed to be romantic and intimate. No other people should be involved in such a special moment. If you want to do it in public, then you are doing it for attention.

[Sasha0426]

Ok, there’s no reason for you to be a jackass. Because breaking up over that just seems stupid if you don’t communicate first. You could’ve been nicer about it.

[jahaims]

There you go, making assumptions based on feelings again. I would love for you to explain how I am being a jackass. Go back and read the thread, and you will see you were rude to me by projecting your feelings on me with a lot of assumptions. You can't expect the world to nerf itself for your feelings. That is a very unrealistic perspective. Breaking up over most things would be silly if you didn't communicate first. That is so obvious. I am not sure why you stated it.

[Sasha0426]

Did I fucking say the world should do that for me? No!! You know what? We’re not going to get along. Let’s just agree we hate each other and move on.

[jahaims]

I have zero hate for you. You told me I could be nicer. I am part of the world. Sorry you are too close-minded and ignorant to have a conversation. I truly hope that changes for you one day.

[Sasha0426]

I don’t regret what I said 🤷‍♀️

[Sasha0426]

I would say sorry but the way you insulted me you can forget it.

[jahaims]

I thought you hated me and were moving on? Idc what you do or don't regret. An apology would mean nothing coming from you as my feelings were never hurt. Unlike you, I am very secure with who I am as a person. Insults and apologies don't matter when they come from someone who I do not respect.

[Sasha0426]

You know, you’re right. I don’t respect you either 🤷‍♀️

[nonyabeez-wax]

Private. That way there's no pressure.

[Likes2drive]

Private for me, I don’t like the attention

[The_Smart_Engineer]

I prefer private proposal

[Kristierose]

Because it is in our dna

[robocop666]

No I am a private person

[overthinkergirl]

private

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Private engagement