Do you think a lot of women that help women get high value guys are misguided or tricking them?

[jennifer_bloom]

I know many women who settled down with high value guys and not a single one of them were chosen for their looks or their clothes.

They were chosen for their crazy hard work ethic, their very high intelligence, and the kindness they showed all human beings.

Be a good person, work very very hard, be humble.

That is how you find a high value man.

Make up and nice hair will not get you an elite man. It might get you a high school teacher or a postal worker or a sushi maker but they do not make enough to support a family and you will have to work too.

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+1 y

I'm not a neurosurgeon but I believe that for healthy people, intelligence can increase or decrease based on training and knowledge application so I think it's wrong to devalue people as stationary low status people if they fail certain markers in their life like attaining education upgrades or notable income thresholds. That is why I removed the other opinion.

[jamesgoldman]

It depends

This reminds me of a conversation I had with a wealthy family, the son had a Rolexes and his father has Pateks
The younger said Rolex opens doors and gets attention at bars and from women
The older said his were for the point where it didn't matter anymore