Do marriages become boring after a while?

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Are they getting tired of each other?  I am very curious😃

ChicoFromThe305 · Accepted Answer

I'm sure it happens to some which is what's considered falling out of love I think, it's both of their job to keep the spark alive, which is why I don't believe dating is only for getting to know each other before getting serious, dating should be a regular thing in a marriage, they should go out and be a couple and be young every once in a while, no matter the circumstances, when when they have children, they should settle things to have a day they can be a couple again, it's also a future investment for their children, keeping their love alive will keep that child's parents together, the family would be thankful for such investment.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

anything can get boring. driving a nice BMW can get boring. having chocolate cake every day can get old. you have to find ways to have stability and keep it fun as well.

were humans.

now cats... they like the same routine every day. But that's cats...

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I think a good marriage is one where there is cooperation and curiosity and mutual interest and giving and service and personal excellence and tolerance. An example, is, two people mutually decide when to buy coffee, when to go for a hike, where to go for dinner, what sight seeing tour to do, and they join together to do it. I’ve seen people give their wives foot rubs after the wife comes home tired, I’ve seen wives clean the house for hours while the husband is taking care of the garden or the pool. A good marriage is like an ecosystem where the beaver does beaver work and the hippo does hippo work, and the monkey does monkey work.

antelope51 · Accepted Answer

Yes. I watched a youtube thing once that had a good point that to make a marriage work longterm, you need a personal investment in it. Sometimes you're in it for your partner, sometimes you're in it for the sake of the commitment, sometimes you're in it for the kids, sometimes you're in it because it's easier than getting out of a joint mortgage... very rarely do all the pieces align, but the key is to not give up on the whole thing just because one part gets boring, tedious, or challenging.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

It depends. Marriage is just a relationship called by a different name, lol. So still, it requires a lot of effort from both partners to keep it entertaining and alive.

If both partners are mature enough to understand they both bear responsibility for this marriage's well-being, it should work quite well.

Read about relationship crises, it should help to predict problematic moments

SimplyPut · Answer

Yes love and marriage went out with the horse and carriage. I mean when your closest neighbors were a days ride by horse marriage had it's place. Now the next best thing is a click of a button away. Jump in the car, hop on a bus or plane and explore the world and all the different types of... ummm it has to offer. Yes marriage should be outlawed. It's boring and messy.

coolbreeze · Answer

I think if a couple doesn't try to keep that spark going and do things to make it fun and exciting then yes a marriage can get boring. I think people cheat and get bored when they are not getting attention or their needs fulfilled.

AmeerX · Answer

Marriages don't become boring. It's just people can lose some of the lustful attraction. Like, you live with someone and you know they are now always available so you treat them for granted and that can be wrong

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

If they are a match (likeminded), they will never become boring. If they are different from your way of thinking, and from what you are interested in, then they will become boring.

exitseven · Answer

Itcisxnotctge marriage that gets boring. It is all the mundane things you have to do to pay the bills.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Because people tend to get lazy and selfish in long term relationships. They also go into them with unrealistic expectations.

Kelly6 · Answer

@lumea it can become boring if you don’t know how to make each other happy and introduce new things

aceleon · Answer

time is the killer of everything, love or good feelings are not exceptions and this is precisely why i'm against marriage (aside from many disadvantages it brings to man though)

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I read an article before that said the average human gets bored with their partner after 12 years.

KatherineJ · Answer

I’ve been married for over 10 years. I am not bored yet.

sheikalana · Answer

If you don’t find ways to keep the flame alive if can get boring.

RebelinSteel · Answer

You both must work at, takes both to keep it interesting and both to work around problems. Relationships are like that, really need both.

Booklover_90 · Answer

If you  allow  it to get boring. You get out what you put in.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Let's be real variety is the spice of life. Cheating is pretty natural too. If nobody got caught or had the slightest fear of ever being caught cheating, how many of us would feel bad about doing it

riverrat3 · Answer

I am sure that spending all your time with the same person has challenges

SunnyRS · Answer

If both partners fall into a monotonous life cycle then yes it can become one.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Only if you let it happen.

shortster · Answer

Only if you let them.

NathanDavis · Answer

I wouldn't be

elizamichale1 · Answer

I dont think so

JoshMa · Answer

Boring to children who get married 🙄

IloveWinters · Answer

Yes it does.. I agree

Samrasheihk · Answer

Your mind is vary best lumea

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