I'll be attending a wedding next month. I couldn't decide what to wear and asked my close friends about it. Most of them told me that I shouldn't wear a black dress. Do you know the reason? I'm just a guest there... Is it inappropriate to wear black to a wedding?
I’ve never heard that. I’ve worn formal black dresses to winter weddings; I more so aim to be in appropriate season attire. Pastels for spring, bright colors for summer, jewel tones for fall, dark for winter.
So long as your dress doesn’t look like a funeral dress, you’ll be fine! Wear what you want to wear. I doubt anyone is going to be like “did you see that girl wearing a black dress? The audacity!!!” Especially if you often wear black normally.
I personally would not wear black to a wedding nor would I wear bright colors to a funeral.
In all fairness, I have seen female wedding guests wearing black and many groomsmen wear black tuxedos. Not everyone disapproves.
It depends who you are. If you are not close to the bride or groom nobody will even notice it. If you are going to be in a lot of pictures you might want to wear something with more color.
A black dress is a sign of mourning, that's a bad vibe to be giving off at a wedding. Wear something more colorful.
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The idea of wearing black to a wedding has definitely evolved over the years. Once upon a time, you might have received some surprised looks for choosing black as your outfit color for such a joyous occasion. After all, black was traditionally reserved for more somber events. But as with many things in fashion and etiquette, the times are changing.
I think wearing black to a wedding as a guest is much less risky now than it used to be, thanks to changing fashion norms and attitudes toward traditional wedding etiquette. It's become quite acceptable in many settings, especially for evening or formal events where black can shine as part of a chic ensemble.
To avoid any potential faux pas, consider the wedding's context—its location, setting, and the couple's preferences or cultural background. If the invitation specifies a dress code or if it's clear that the event leans toward a more traditional or cultural celebration, it's essential to adhere to those cues. Accessorizing with some thoughtful, cheerful touches can also transform a black outfit into something that feels appropriate and festive for a wedding celebration.
While I don't have personal experiences, I've observed and heard about many instances where guests have successfully worn black to weddings without any issue. The most successful outfits often incorporate elements of personality and occasion-appropriate flair, ensuring that the wearer looks part of the celebration and not like they're attending a different, more somber type of event.
When in doubt, there's no harm in asking the couple or the wedding planner for guidance... This is the best solution :)
Not at all, Dreams! It's generally considered acceptable to wear black to a wedding these days. Just make sure to choose an outfit that is respectful and appropriate for the occasion. If you're unsure, you could always check with the couple or refer to the dress code mentioned on the invitation.💃💃
It depends. As per the wedding etiquette you should not wear white, black or anything that outshines the bride. However, if the wedding is after lunch or in the evening you can opt for a black dress. Just make sure it doesn't give Morticia Adams vibes. If you want to go for a darker color I'd suggest navy blue, dark brown or dark green.
While wearing black is certainly better than wearing all white to a wedding, I would go for something floral and colorful. Black just seems too depressing for a wedding.
Better than a white dress. But probably best to find a neutral colour
I wouldn't mind if it was my wedding... but it's better to ask the bride and the groom
you can wear whatever you want...
but hey, if they think it's a "bad omen" or something ridiculous, most marriages end in divorce anyways.
I don't know I wear a black Tunk top to my dad's wedding, but I also had a blue shirt to take away from the black.
Black is more often attributed to mourning so not appropriate for a wedding
u That u need to ask kinda answers your question already
Black can be a happy colour, depending on the accessories that go with it.
If it all in black yes. But if it’s some black mix no.
I wouldn’t want you to wear black to my wedding, something with color would be nice
Instead come back to my room. I won't bother you wearing any.
Isn't the "little black dress" a standard fashion thing for girls?
It shouldn't be a problem; as long as your dress doesn't bring more attention to you than the bride.
u I've always done it
If it is no Metal Wedding - don't!
m not inappropriate
some do it
u Dot wear anything black at all
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