Can I move to another state at age 27-28 alone without marriage?

[Anonymous]

My mom says I can never leave the nest move out til I’m married. But I never had a first boyfriend, and think marriage is not in my destiny & no guy will ever marry me as I cannot get a boyfriend.

it’s my family tradition that you can only move out until you get married. My brother got married 10 years ago, my brothers wife & her 5 sisters all got married & last one finally got marriage at 27 & moved out wkth husband.
im scared as I’m 27 in 3 months & I don’t want live forever with dad & mom. I’m grown & have strong desire leave nest next year when I’m 28. I desire move to another state & adopt babies as it was my dream have my own babies & be a mom. I Desiré decorate my own apartment , my own Christmas tree finally at 28. I want begin my own life finally even if it means be alone forever & never have a man.
my moms not happy but this is my life & im happy about moving to another state.
she’s saying she’ll move in with me but the point is me living alone finally live my OWN life. No longer renting with her & dad.

[LiamS95]

Think twice before you run out and adopt a bunch of babies not that the adoption agencies will let you anyway until you're well established with a good place to live, money in the bank and a good paying job to support yourself, pay for your house or 3 bedroom apartment. Pay for food snd because you'll be working long hours to pat for all this not to mention a car the insurance you'll need for your car, your living place and medical insurance, you need to be able to afford a nanny or daycare. I'd suggest getting yourself a good job with a career in whatever State you want to move to then get yourself a good place to live in a good neighborhood reasonably close to where you'll be working and not far from a food market before you even think about doing anything else. Take it one step af a time. No one can stop you from moving as you're of age. Contact me if you need someone to just talk to about it.

[jahaims]

You are extremely sheltered. You can leave whenever you want

[devilish-cutie]

yes, if you have the income for it, you can do that, as a 26 year old you are at legal age of being free to do whatever you want with your life.

[Asker]

My mom said I can’t move out until I’m married, if I’m not married I have to live with her forever. My brother and his wife and her 5 sisters did get married and moved out fast. I’m the only person that never got a boyfriend or marriage 😞

[devilish-cutie]

I read your post where you already stated that. My answer is that you are an adult and can make you own life choices regardless of what your parents say. You do not live your life for your parents and sometimes you will have to disappoint them.

[Asker]

She says who will take care of me alone? No husband to take care of me? She says your mom needs take care of u forever

[devilish-cutie]

yes she is allowed to say her opinon and you to have yours

[Asker]

She says it like a way like I can’t live alone as I won’t have a husband taking care of me.

[Nikki1989]

What does marriage have to do with it? You can live anywhere in the world if you have the money to move.

[Asker]

My mom says I can’t leave nest until I’m married.

[Asker]

But I think no guy will ever be my husband as I neevr had a boyfriend my entire life. I think my destiny is be single forever.

So if I’ll be single forever I want move to another state and rent my own place and adopt my babies.

Sicne I won’t be able to plan next year with a husband buy our house, I’ll need move out alone rent my own apt , with imaginary husband lol.

[EmmaMary]

What a complete and utter load of fucking Bollox! smh

[4ngelic]

um yea... why wouldn't you be able to

[Asker]

My mom says I can’t leave the nest until I’m married

[Asker]

My family all got married except for me. Just becuz my destiny is to never get married doesn’t mean I need live forever with my mom til im old. I would need somehow live my own life without a man, that’s y I want move to new state and adopt babies. Since I’ll neevr have a husband or first boyfriend

[4ngelic]

you're 27, you dont need to listen to your more anymore

[andy530]

Yes you can