Should young women marry when they are 18 to 22 and beautiful, instead of seeking a career and waiting until they are used up hides at ages 27 to 30?

[Kelley1]

Beautiful, sexy, and fertile 18 year old girl.

Without their clothes and makeup, it is not possible for a 30 year old millionaire woman to be as appealing and desirable to 30 year old millionaire men as the beautiful 18 year old girl. Career women in their thirties don't like hearing that. Instead, they choose to believe "I'm pretty, educated, and successful so I deserve a man that matches my age, income, and education."

However, unless they are twenty years older, wealthy men don't care about her money. Eleven times out of ten, they will choose a sexy gorgeous young woman that looks good in a bikini.

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Just as @RingOfFire stated, it appears most people on GAG believe they know better then millions of years of evolutionary development and natural design.

[RingOfFire]

That's the way the game used to be played, but nature deniers abound in society now and we're supposed to make believe that millions of years of evolutionary development and natural design are passé and we know better than nature what's good for the survival of the human race.

[Berethor]

It's true that men tend to care much more about woman's youth than about her money.

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Christmas%20Cake

[HawkPerception]

I've never thought that anyone should be sleeping around. I personally believe you should always date with the intention of eventually marrying someone... finding the one you want to sail through life with.

I think it's okay to make mistakes and find out that someone isn't compatible with you, but as long as you have the mindset where you're looking for marriage, you're good.

I think that's the mentality that will eventually give you the most happiness in life, but I can't control others lives nor do I want to. People have to find out the hard way that sleeping around will not satisfy them in the long run.

[blueonblack22]

A woman should do what she is most comfortable with doing. If she wants to get married young, have kids and be a home maker to a good man then by all means do so. I 100% respect women who are responsible mothers and home makers. That is a full time (actually over time) job in itself. Being a good home maker also enabled a decent man to focus on his career so he can better provide and protect his family. And many women find true happiness with this course of action (despite feminists telling them otherwise).

But if a woman doesn’t want to be a mother or settle down then she should also have the freedom to pursue a career or do whatever she wants (as long she isn’t leaning on men to financially enable her. Being a worthless OnlyFans model is a great example of this).

But I do not have any problem with women who choose an “independent” career path if that’s what they want to do. They might be happier or they might regret it later. But I am not going to tell them either way what they should do.

Anyway I am absolutely beyond fed up and disgusted with western feminists accusing western men of wanting to “enslave” women with “patriarchy” in modern society like we all want to push sharia law or some insanity. The vast majority of western men are not saying not doing anything to “control” women. We don’t have any real power anyway. And the guys who give an opinion (stupid or not) are doing just that: giving an opinion. If an extremist like Andrew Tate says all women should serve men it might be a stupid opinion but he is not enacting legislation or some bs to do so.

So again men are not actively enacting nor promoting laws to directly control women nor should they. Now western women have it better then women have ever had it in all of human history (but feminists will never be satisfied)

And if a man is against abortion he is NOT trying to “enslave” women. He just doesn’t like the idea of an innocent baby fetus being murdered. Real sick of that bs argument too.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Right on, Blue on Black !!!

[blueonblack22]

@beefcakebradybatson thanks. I guess we can agree on something.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Glad to concur on something, blueonblack22.

[blueonblack22]

@beefcakebradybatson 👍

[beefcakebradybatson]

Shake, pardner !!!

[Surely]

Why are you so obsessed about getting older? The eggs in your body have a much longer use by date than you are giving them credit for. I understand that a woman’s body recovers from childbirth more quickly at a young age. If you have things that you would like to do. Like traveling to somewhere or maybe hiking the Appalachian Trail. Do so before having children. You may not have time to do so after children.
In my experience. Most women are most beautiful on the outside in their twenties. But the inner and more important beauty doesn't happen until their thirties. Are your parents pressuring you for grandchildren? You are a very pretty young lady. I especially like the picture in the flowers. I know that you will be desirable women for years to come!

[Kelley1]

You can travel, married, single, or with children. On family I briefly met took their young children for a couple of months to France and Europe as part of their education. How much time will be availabl after I have children is greatly dependent on money. If their is very little money for the basics then time can be very limited. Otherwise, everything about having children is better when you are younger. You body is more flexible so childbirth is easier and your skin is more elastic plus your muscles are firmer so their are fewer stretch marks and your body recovers better to your pre-pregnant size. You have more stamina and energy to get up in the middle of night to care for a baby.

Moreover, modern beliefs about waiting conflicts with the 3 million years of human evolution in which for more than 99.99% of human existence (all but the last 300 years), women mated in their teens and very early twenties.

[Kelley1]

* there; not their

[Surely]

@Kelley1. Okay. Far be it from me to try and convince you otherwise. I hope you find what you are searching for! Good luck.

[Kelley1]

@Surely Thank you. I have confidence that I will. However, I may need to lower my expectations a bit which I will if not engage by Christmas. It comes down to having realistic standards. I want the most desirable guy that I can marry, but I know it will never happen if I'm reaching too high.

[UnicornLobotomy]

Absolutely. And men should wait until they are 25-30 when they can afford a stay at home wife and mom for if and when she wants to do just that. Its optimal and should be more normal. The guy should stay in shape if he’s older and make healthy decisions not just good financial decisions. She would be starting a family during peak fertility and as long as he is physically a specimen of absolute health and a tad older he is giving her his best years financially and matured enough to provide and tolerate basic relationship problems.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

As a 21 year old, I sincerely believe that choosing a long term partner shall be taken seriously. Sure, some people see their life partner at a young age, but that's not the story for all. Knowing a person fully takes experience, a lot of process, and time. ⏳

"You can't marry a man you just met!" - Elsa, Frozen

[Kelley1]

Whether you marry quickly or wait a long time, neither guarantees a successful marriage. However, marrying quickly is successful as often as not.
www.elitedaily.com/.../what-happens-when-you-get-married-right-after-meeting-8-women-whove-done-it-explain-15866319

This might not come as a shock, but there's no exact timeline for when you should get engaged. You may hear some "love at first sight" couples say you can get engaged after a few days, while experts may say wait three to six months. But even though everyone has an opinion on the matter, from "You're jumping in too quickly" to "It took him too long to propose," there isn't a magic formula.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I see where you're coming from, but I think the best time to get married is when you're ready.. and have matured emotionally, physically, and mentally. Like 24 above, mid-late twenties. During 18-22, you will still learn a lot of things.. your perspective for now can still change as you grow. :)

I suggest looking for a serious relationship for now, and not to jump quickly into marriage—then see how things will go. Set a time limit. If it leads to marriage, then awesome. 👍

[Kelley1]

That complies with the current beliefs but modern beliefs are an aberration. For more than 99.99% of the 3 million years of human history, teenagers and younger girls mated and married. Religious scholars believe the Virgin Mary was 14 when Jesus was born; a common age at the time. I have no way to prove the age most girls mated during the 3 million years of the Stone Age, but knowledge of primitive tribes indicates it was much younger than the twenties. Shakespeare's Juliet was 13 when her parents arranged for her to marry and at the time people didn't think she was too young.

I don't believe prepuberty girls should marry and even 16 may be too young. However, in the 1800s the Law was also used to marry girls as young as 7 to 10 to men who were a lot older.
discover-the-truth.com/.../

[FreyaRed]

Well, 99,5% of hairdresser and grocery clerks won't be millionaires with 30. A spouse isn't necessarily a disadvantage for one girl's career, sometimes he can be some kind of mentor or supporter. However one or another above can be a little bit idealistic, that's why I wouldn't build up a strategy for my future life with planing that I become millionaire with 30 and my husband supports my career.

[Babygirl_S]

I don’t know about the West but in India, the best guys in terms of looks, income etc. pick girls who have a beautiful face, body and a high income. At 18 I didn’t have a job and could only marry an illiterate guy. I tried talking to surgeons (my favourite at that time) but they said they wanted a highly educated girl. Now my dating pool is much bigger and many Indian guys even set the upper age limit of 33 for women 😌

[avery58]

Do you really think that someone that was shallow enough to marry a gold digger because she was young and beautiful would stay with her when she ages? And what will she do then when he leaves her if she can't take care of her own self?

[VIVANT]

If there’s no love who cares? Anyone marrying by a number is in it for reasons that do not interest most non sociopaths 🤷🏻‍♀️

[VIVANT]

Newsflash, people age regardless of how young they are when you marry.

[Kelley1]

All that is true. However, by age 25, women are Christmas cakes and have lost half of their sexual market value. That is, how desirable men perceive them to be. That doesn't imply the men are right. It is just the way it is. By age 30, the girl in the photo will be another hide but, for now, she is what men are attracted to.

[SixFootSexy]

Yes, but the media has done a tremendous job of propagandizing women, that they are empowered, sexually liberated, and should be anything other than a wife and mother when they are young.

[supercutebutt]

Will your youthful hide drop out of SMU and find a wealthy sucker before you get all used up? The clock is ticking!

[Kelley1]

I hope to marry a high-value young man by the time I graduated from SMU.

[supercutebutt]

I don't think you will. Smart gentlemen have figured out that marriage is for suckers. You better pay attention in class and get good grades because odds are, you will be working for a living.

[Kelley1]

I will be. Most guys want to marry it they think they are doing well. If I am not engaged by Christmas, I will lower my expectations and standards from a top 10% guy to a top 15%. Then if necessary, a year later, I will drop them to a top 20% guy. Absolutely, that will suffice. I am not going to hang around hoping for the improbably while my sexual market value is dropping.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@Kelley1 There is something I don't get, you seem to be writing about. xls files? I see you writing percentages in areas that are not even statistical in nature, these numbers you use are not significant in the space where you try to apply them. What is happening?

[OtterMan68]

No, they should start their career first. They can quit later or pause their careers if they get married down the road, but they need to be able to support themselves if the marriage does not last.

[soe11]

• Depending upon her condition.
• Some like to get boyfriend first and get two kids then after some year get in to career6.

[Friendlybro79]

Why ask the question if you know the one answer that you're willing to admit is the correct one?

[Kelley1]

To educate.

[Friendlybro79]

A my take might make more sense if you're not saying this is debatable? Maybe I read your question wrong. Regardless thanks for sharing.

[Kelley1]

I wrote two "My takes" and GAG hid them both. I could find them but others could not. Hiding posts is what GAG often does if they cannot find some excuse to remove it.

[Friendlybro79]

Weird. That's unfortunate.

[LiamJHayden]

Not possible? I've always preferred older women.

[Kelley1]

Exceptions don't make the rule.

[LiamJHayden]

You said "𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞" therefore a single exception disproves the thesis.

[Kelley1]

Okay. I don't disagree. I wanted to argue but I couldn't find a logical argument that would disprove your statement.

[elaphe]

Used up hides at age 27? High-value young man? The way you describe people is so shallow lacks any kind of perspective. Finding a mate isn't a game; it is about love.

[Nikki1989]

Have your eyes checked. There are many gorgeous women in their 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond. This is the kind of mentality I would expect from an immature incel troll.

[Kelley1]

Rebecca Lynn Pope was right in saying old hides such as you cannot understand the fact that you are no longer young.

[jamesgoldman]

Marriage at 18-22 leads to divorce by 27-30

Great for my business

[Ironco]

Enjoy your youth while you're young...

You've got a lot to learn.

Just relax and enjoy your age you are.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Used up at 27 to 30 ? There are PLENTY of beautiful fortysomething women !!!

[Kelley1]

Some are attractive for their age but they are not beautiful.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Some still are beautiful, though they are not exactly plentiful.

[Kelley1]

When wearing makeup and clothes, that may be possible. However, they are not beautiful naked or in a tiny bikini. With political correctness, going crazy where even men and fat women win, I would not be surprised if some 40 year old win a pageant. However, before the insane political correctness, no 40-year-old or even a 30-year-old has ever won a beauty contest if competing against 18-year-old women.

[Cheerfull009]

If she can handle family life , then must marry, if no , then she should work for her careey

[eagle1951]

does it matter you marry when you find Love

[Kelley1]

If a woman wants children, she should marry before she has lost most of her eggs and the remaining eggs are deteriorating and developing genetic defects.

[Dongie]

I say at least not before 25.

[shortster]

20-26 is the ideal age for women to get married.

[Ladsin2]

Probably depends on what the woman wants.

[strateguy632]

Yes.

[jackieistired]

Pardon?