Do girls marry a guy they don’t like? Is marriage one sided love or mutual?

[Anonymous]

I’m almost 30 and never had a boyfriend and guys I liked my whole life deny to be my boyfriend. guys only want sex and no girlfriend so this is why I’m alone 24/7 . No guy is drooling to be next to me 24/7 in love.

I love guys but they don’t love me back. I met one guy I don’t like that wants marry me. Does this mean he’s the love of my life even tho it’s only him that likes me and I don’t?

how it’ll be special wedding if only he will be happy and I won’t? Sex , texting , will be a chore, I won’t feel excited or butterflies to see him & date, I would only be with him so I can prove to my married family that I also got married and to have wedding pics, baby, and show to them I do have a husband even tho it won’t be guy I’m attracted to and desire.

[Summeroflove]

Some do this yes but it’s never okay to string another person along without being honest, it’s not something recommended doing but if you’re this desperate for marriage be straight up honest about what you’re looking for. You wouldn’t want to finally meet the man of your dreams just to…. Find out one day he never loved you. He just settled for you until he found someone better and divorced.

Also not all guys just want sex this mindset is just like dudes who say all women are whores. You’ll chase away any self respecting person with a sexist attitude just believe me.

It doesn’t sound like a happy marriage but if you wanna marry him be straight honest about how you feel…. Never lie.

[Asker]

I don’t exist for a guy to like me back. Mutual love don’t exist. I’m almost 30 and never had a boyfriend as guys I love don’t love me back.

[Asker]

If I don’t marry this guy I’ll be alone forgerr and I’ll never meet a guy I love that also loves me equally. I deserve be with a guy I don’t like 😞

[Summeroflove]

Then tell him what you’re doing. And don’t lie

[Asker]

I’ll just marry him to finally at age 30 get a first boyfriend and experience a relationship and so my family see I’m married and prove I will have kids even tho I don’t love the guy back.

[Summeroflove]

Asker be honest or you’re gonna get divorced

[Amy10223]

That man that wants to marry you but you don’t like, that’s not the love of your life. That’s calkednn be one sided love and he’s going then living, you have no love feelings for him.
You come from a family where everyone is married— and you want to marry as well for the sake of being married. That’s a poor reason to marry.
Marry someone you love with your heart and soul, no matter how long it takes to meet him. To marry otherwise for other reasons won’t make you happy.
And for what it’s worth, it does not take marriage to make a woman feel whole. A person can make you happy and loved, but marriage is a whole other institution that needs to be taken more seriously because it is more complex and challenging. People need to realize—- many women especially—- that marriage is not something everyone needs to do!!

[Amy10223]

Sorry, “that’s called one sided loving loving or unrequited love” first few sentences got mixed up.

[Asker]

I want have babies live with a guy. If I don’t get married I’ll never have this life. I’m almost 30. Neevr had love or. First boyfriend. I think mutual love don’t exist so I need marry that guy that wants marry me or else I’ll be alone forver. I’m not a club girl that wants be free I want a partner and have babies come home to a family.

[Asker]

Since no guy ever loved me back , it means mutual love don’t exist and only one sided love.

And yes my family r all married and it got to point im alone. Everyone is living with partner having parties blissful with their babies and no longer pay attention to me and ignored. At the parties fmaily r all next to a man and in their own world.

Im lonley and no one to talk to , family don’t see me as successful as I’m alone and. No marriage no boyfriend

[Asker]

Each time I love a guy they don’t love me, so I thought the love of your life is the guy that wants marry me that I don’t like. One sided love is the love of your life

[BetaBucks]

Many women marry guys that are useful, but they aren't attracted to them. They pretend that they're some deep person, and not superficial, but the truth is that they just love their plow horse for their services. And if the services aren't there, the love is gone. Guys are way too stupid to think like this. We're all a bunch of simps.

[Anonymous]

Probably a Gold digger or even worse, a Sprinkle Sprinkle Gal.

[EnjoytheDay777]

It happens with both guys and girls