Guys, If you don't mind sharing, what are your goal (s) in life? How would you feel about being a goal?

[Vneila21]

I am very goal-oriented and don't give a penny if you think that's not good. I am aware that life does not move in a straight line. Even if my life takes a sharp turn in the other direction, I will think outside the box and adapt. Don't you think that we've had this thought about what life should be for too long: play as children, school (I value education), get a job, mingle, get married, have children, and die happily? Tirelessly wandering in the dark year after year? I'm gonna be real with y'all: women need men just like men need women. But this front, putting men against women and acting like your side isn't my side, is extremely childish. We were made to learn from and about each other. Once upon a time, my only goal was marriage to honor those before me. Having marriage as a goal doesn't make you a lost cause. Having marriage as your only goal will put you at the mercy of a lot of people (including the vicious).

[Kaneki05]

Umm to be lazy as possible and afford the things I want. So far so good, no job and I play what I want and watch what I want, and still get stuff I want.

Of course it would be nice if my writing works out, or I become rich but ya know the top is more realistic and easy.

And the impossible is to find a girlfriend so that's not really a goal just an impossible wish.

[Vneila21]

I don't know about you, but my life took many turns. It'd be cool to be in your shoes for a day. Unbothered by the world.

[MrChinaski]

Honestly? I will probably sell my house next year and travel around the world for the rest of my life.

[Vneila21]

Ohh, that sounds like a good plan! Seeing new things will maximize your quality of life for sure!

[MrChinaski]

Who are you? I haven't seen you on here before.

[Vneila21]

That's because I'm a new member. Been on since April.

[MrChinaski]

You didn't answer my question. And you aren't required to. Still my question stands.

[Vneila21]

Who I am in general? I am a daughter, spiritual warrior, I am always learning, a visionary, honest, respectful, unafraid to make boundaries, and willing to step outside my comfort. I'm also introverted; I tend to be the black sheep wherever I go.

[MrChinaski]

You sound both young and interesting. Message me when you are less young.

[MrChinaski]

Cool. The world needs more black sheep.

[Vneila21]

I value growing inward rather than growing up. Either way no one can rush growth, but as you wish. As for calling myself a black sheep, it came from experience. People just look at me weird and almost all of them stay at the surface. It used to bother me but not anymore. I'm learning to hone my energy and give it where it's needed.

[MrChinaski]

Great answer xx

[WonderingManII]

I always want to improve my relationship with Jesus. I want to improve my relationship with people. I want to get married. I want to die and go to heaven.

[Vneila21]

What do you think you can do to improve your relationships with people? Jesus asks for a willing spirit to step out of social norms, which is one way to describe Faith.

[WonderingManII]

@vneila21
I don't know how to answer your first question. All I can do is try. It's ok when people hate you because you are following Jesus. It is not ok for them to hate you for other reasons. I think the number 1 reason why people don't like me isn't because I follow Jesus. It is because somehow my personality is a little off. They can smell it even if I'm hiding my weird side. One of the reasons why I joined GAG is because it gets to so tiring hiding my weird side all the time. I decided on GAG, I'm just going to try and be myself. No hiding the things about me that might turn others off.

Trust me I'm always outside of the social "norms".

[Jeff51]

Tired of the rat race looking for something different now.

[PeterLegg91]

Live life and enjoy, and try be as healthy as possible

[nl171]

I’ve reached most of my goals in life

[Vneila21]

How neat! Then you and I know there's no singular ticket to success.

[nl171]

Agreed!