What should I tell my niece who I recently found out is after a married man romantically?

[Anonymous]

I have no idea what to say to her. I'm ashamed she is my family. I'm even more ashamed my brother in law has raised a daughter who doesn't respect marriage.

So far, said married man is basically telling her he wants nothing to do with her. And is resisting, but she won't give up.

[midnightmoon05]

Let the married man deal with her. He had to learn his lesson. She also has to learn her lesson. She won’t listen to anyone.
how old is she?

[Asker]

She's 19. I happy the man is trying to keep her at arms length.

If I were in his situation, I'd tell my wife, and arrange a meeting between the wife and the 19 year old girl and let my wife handle it.. Cause she's a woman there is a pretty strong limit to what I can actually do. It's not like she's a man and I can just knock her out.

[WhitneySnow]

You can scold her, but she’s unlikely to care what you say

[Asker]

Im just so ashamed that my family produced someone like her. I have told her that if she continues this, she, and by extension her family, won't be welcome in our home any more.

[WhitneySnow]

Don’t lock out your sister and brother in law. Not their fault. People can be willful.

[Asker]

I suppose.