Discovered he was married, he said she’s a stalker, what should I believe?

[Anonymous]

This guy introduced me to members of his family but I discovered recently a Facebook page indicating he’s married. He told me the girl is a stalker, his mom and everyone says they don’t know her. He says that he don’t want her and she’s mad about it. Today I did more digging and most of his family members including his daddy are Facebook friends with her. I’m confused…if this girl a stalker then why are your family friends with her on Facebook? He tells me he’s not married and don’t know her. Not sure what to believe

[spartan55]

You can find out if he's married online quite easily. Not sure why you haven't done your due diligence on the guy. Instead you are relying on what he says and Facebook? Come on, use your head.

[Asker]

I think he’s lying to me about everything and I wouldn’t know where to start. I did a people search and he use different aliases and addresses. I don't know anymore. He took me out to dinner

[spartan55]

Look it up whatever county he likely got married. He bought you dinner? Yeah and? Why are you still with that guy? Have some self respect.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Them stalkers are no joke, do an image reverse scan on the girls picture and see if it's fake

[Asker]

The girl exist in real life I seen her before

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well clearly the girl exists somewhere but you've seen her in person?

[Asker]

She actually exist and yep lol it’s a full Facebook page. I mentioned in my post already that his family are Facebook friends with her

[Asker]

It’s a fake page mane it’s a fake page mane smh but they stayed in the same city smh that’s all everyone keep saying. Now his mama ain’t really speaking to me

[ChicoFromThe305]

Does she have a ring? Honestly I feel like digging for the truth is going to take so much effort that it's just not even worth it, with that you can find someone that doesn't have this issue lol

[Asker]

Lol they both don’t but the problem is I feel like everybody lied to me. How the page is fake and y’all asses are Facebook friends with her? Why lie

[Asker]

I said to him…awl your daddy friend with the so called fake page.. who is the girl?

[ChicoFromThe305]

That just sounds like an annoying situation to be in, it surely requires patience, he even got his family on the lies smh lol

[HateyouxD]

Guys say that to girls they are playing. How can a girl stalk a guy if the guy isn't encouraging her to stalk

[Asker]

He says she a crazy girl who wants him

[HateyouxD]

Yea he wants her too but he's playing or he's playing her. He's got some involvement with her behavior

[Asker]

Then his mama ain’t really talking to me like that but the more I look into this they going around playing house

[HateyouxD]

Oh yea that's not good

[HelpfulWoman]

so have you actually asked his mom or is it just what he's told you?

[Asker]

I asked his mom and she told me it’s a fake page but I’m confused…

[Asker]

I feel like his mom is lying to me and trying to cover up for him because she isn’t really talking to me as she was before

[HelpfulWoman]

honestly? message the girl and ask her. if she's his wife, she'll probably have the "receipts" as they say (or just evidence)

[Asker]

She won’t accept the request and her page don’t accept messages from anyone unless you her friend

[HelpfulWoman]

hmm, sounds too dodgy to stick around for.

[slatyb]

Go read Al Franken's book "Lies and the Lying Liars Who Tell Them". Run away fast.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Not cool that he's married.

[Asker]

Not cool at all

[ThrillSeeker01]

I'm sorry. I'd just move on.