Did you marry your dream person or did you settle?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I thought she was the one but we got married way to young. And after we or she got pregnant and then had my son she completely change from night to day.
 I stuck it out for quite a while but I couldn't take it anymore so I left that was one of the biggest mistakes because for the nextsix years, she made my life miserable hell but I made it through, okay.

dudeinohio · Accepted Answer

I married her.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

Settled.. I knew we were wrong for each other but I need to escape my mom lol
I think now he has found the right person and I probably never will cuz I wasted my time with him, plus I don't trust men at all anymore.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

Neither yet but my current partner is wonderful. God has smiled on me in my choice of both partners and close friends.

HawkPerception · Answer

Neither. And I refuse to settle. It's either my dream girl or no one. My dream girl isn't necessarily a model. They could be a 7/10 in physical attraction, as long as I am physically attracted to them. But the main thing that makes a girl a dream girl for me, is that they're compatible with me in almost every aspect. Views, interests, goals align, sense of humor, sexual compatibility, etc.

Summeroflove · Answer

People who settle unless they are honest with someone. Most aren’t…. You’re not only hurting yourself. You’re hurting another person who really may genuinely love you and believes that you love them back.

It leads to affairs. And eventually divorcing and breaking up.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I have learned not to have a dream person because that just forces me to either reject everyone else, or feel that I have settled.

AviatorTom · Answer

I don't believe in a dream person, but I didn't settle. Both of the women I've married have been good partners.

Purpleronnie · Answer

I never dreamed of any type of woman in the general or typical sense it seemed , and still seems crazy to fixate on any particular woman visually when who she is / is of far greater importance to me. In other words I’m very aware of my slightly above average looks but stellar character.
It took me considerably longer than I would have wished to find my partner and to be honest I was loosing hope fast when I did so maybe I did settle? But then I’m not married so maybe my story isn’t over yet all I know is I’m the happiest I’ve been in a relationship.

exitseven · Answer

I met my future wife at a time when I was going to give up dating for a while maybe forever. We had so many things in common it was sort of eerie. We lived near each other but we met a couple of hundred miles away. We had gone to some of the same concerts and events and she worked at the local cinema and once I was there waiting in line for popcorn and a fight broke out and everyone started pushing and shoving and the manager and a couple of other guys came out and started kicking people out. My wife was behind the counter and she remembered the fight.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and no.

We dated while she was a grad student. She was my dream girl. My world revolved around her. Before she finished her studies, she broke up with me.

A few years later, we got back together and eventually married. We're happy, but it's never been the same.

So, yeah, I suppose I settled.

sage2021 · Answer

My dream guy asked me to marry him several times but I said no because if we got married the government would take away half of my retirement check.
Otherwise I would have married Patrick, my love.❤️

slatyb · Answer

I hate being alone, and I settled. Don't do this. Don't marry until you have learned to be happy by yourself. Then you will be moving toward instead of away from.

katiesmuff · Answer

No I did not settle! Wasn't looking for a dream guy when out of the blue he shows up. That was 15 years ago and we've been happily married ever sense.

OneNisa · Answer

I'm not married yet, but I would like to marry the man I love.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I married him. I just got lucky, I guess.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Most people's number 1 is just #1 with who their options were.

Anonymous · Answer

I never wanted but I settled. I wanted to marry but never found the ONE. Now I think there is none who matches me.

DJB72 · Answer

We fell in love chatting online, on the phone. I didn't settle.

loveslongnails · Answer

"Marrying" at all would have been "settling".

ABC1x1x · Answer

I did not marry my dream person amd I did not settle. I chose successfully for what was truly available.

Anonymous · Answer

I would never settle, and my dream person was one of my unrequited loves. That's why I never had a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

I didn't realize she was my dream girl at first, but she is, and I was lucky enough to marry her.

Twalli · Answer

I didn't actually have dreams about her until we'd been dating for a few years.

leva543 · Answer

I'm not married yet but the current boyfriend looks great for that idea.

queenofcardio · Answer

Never got married

Anonymous · Answer

Who’s your dream person

NathanDavis · Answer

I'm not married yet

Shiprex · Answer

I married someone to make dreams happen

Anonymous · Answer

I married my dream husband

CubaPirate · Answer

Yes thankfully I did

serious · Answer

I never married. I am single.

itsannalee · Answer

I married him.

mountaineerchemist10 · Answer

Settled. Ended up in divorce within 5 years 🤷‍♂️

Anonymous · Answer

TBD.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

No, and no.

AgentG111 · Answer

Settled

wkhan_87 · Answer

Settled

eagle1951 · Answer

my number 1

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