What are some reasons to get married and some reasons not to?

[Siajanua2027]

[aceleon]

reasons to get married:

-you are not good at flirting or such thing so don't lose the one you somehow manage to score.

- you are afraid of living alone or not capable of living alone.

- you are an emotional mess.

REASONS NOT TO:

- cheating is possible

-weddings are costy

-building a life and house is even more costy

-there is something called child support

-divorce is a thing too

- you have to deal with the bad side of your SO 7/24

-you have to bother with shits you don't care about

- you have to be cooperative even if you rather stab yourself

- babies are disgusting in more than 1 sense of the word

-burden never ends

-repay is seldom satisfactory let alone gratifying

- sometimes you want more but accept lesser which is why it is called SETTLİNG DOWN.

MOST İMPORTANT REASON: your life is no longer your own.

[MrChinaski]

De jure marriage is a ring, a piece of paper and a party. The piece of paper means certain things can be done without more bureaucratic form-filling later to establish you are in a de facto marriage. It's not going to change your life unless you imbue it with magical qualities it simply does not hold.

[DishLady]

The only good reason to get married is because you love one another. Don't compromise on the love.

Reasons NOT to marry are if the person has violent or dishonest tendencies. There's no way to build a loving relationship or to find any sort of peace together where these exist.

[queenofcardio]

For commitment and traditional reasons. Marriages can sometimes be challenging to get out of.

[Persephone02]

To get married-
-Love would be number one.
-Financial reasons like tax breaks would be another one.
-To build a family with someone.

To not get married-
-Financial risk moreso for the man than the woman but if the woman makes more then she would be at risk
-No more freedom
-Could end badly like cheating or abuse or incompatibility over time

[Hagar88]

As a man you got look at

1. Do love her

2. Does she love you

3. She is loyal

5. Can you see her having your kids

7. She has good life skills

8. She will be an assest

9. Reasonably intelligent

10. Basic commonsense

11. can manage money

12. She always dresses well and modestly

[Hagar88]

Reasons not to marry a woman

1. Her past
2. Hasn't been loyal or you dont believe she will be loyal
3. No life skills
4. Doesn't want kids
5. Will be a bad mother
6. Is uninteligent
7. No commonsense
8. Will be a drain on you
9. In debt
10. Dresses slutty

[Hagar88]

There are many things to consider. When I say basic education im not talking about having a college degree, some of the most uneducated people have college degrees.
When I say debts im not talking about someone who took out a student loan at $30,000 to get get a degree & job that pays $60-70,000 a year. Im talking about a woman that has $80,000 in debt because she scrapped by to get a college degree to work a minimum wage job and kept taking out loans and using credit cards. That kind of woman is going to saddle you with not just her debt but add debt while martied to you.
Loyalty as well. Last thing you want is 10 years down the line she decides she's unhappy, doesn't love yoy and wants a divorce so you end up paying alimony and child support and your kids you basically miss out on years of their life raising them that you will never get back.

[Nikki1989]

If you have to ask this question, you are not marriage-ready and perhaps never will be.

[NathanDavis]

because you want a family with them...

because you got drunk at Las Vegas to get away from your family

I'll let you decide which is which... lol

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Personally, there is no good reason to get married.