If you’re not married, do you actually plan to marry and have kids?

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Historygal · Accepted Answer

No boyfriend but I do want to get married and have kids one day , first got to find a worthy guy ! The rest will follow

Paige2006 · Accepted Answer

Eventually I want to do both

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Nope and nope
There would have to be unprecedented changes to marriage and divorce laws before i would even consider marriage. Similarly, there would have to be Earth shattering changes to child custody laws, particularly on the enforcement side, before i would have children, in or out of marriage.
Since the entire planet will cease to exist eons before those laws are changed, there is no chance in Hell that i ever subject myself to that kind of subjugation.

HawkPerception · Answer

I'm not in a relationship, nor married, but I do one day hope to have a family. That's where a lot of joy comes in life. There's also hardships when it comes to parenting, but it's worth it.

sawno · Answer

I'm not planning either one, but I am not against having kids if it happens.
Marriage I don't think is fair in the modern no fault divorce screw the guy kinda dynamic. I don't want to risk being screwed over if she decides to leave, that is not balanced and she will have to accept that I won't marry unless there is a legitimately good reason to do so (But if she really wants the fairy tale I am willing to do it symbolically just not the government contract part).

Kids I'm not to fussed about because of the future I expect the kids to grow up in, I have really dark expectations of where we are headed and I expect my child to grow up in a really controlling authoritarian society where they are effectively slaves. I don't want to have that on my consciousness and willingly create life if I expect that to be the outcome. If it happens by accident ill do whatever I can to be a good father though, at that point the moral objection is gone. I wouldn't force my girl to have an abortion and I'd embrace the "meant to be"ness of that.

Zack-Bann · Answer

If you had asked me some years back I would have said “HELL TO THE NO”

Nowadays I have a lot less or a hardline against the institution of marriage.

The only thing is I would never marry out of necessity, desperation, or held at gunpoint.

I want to fully chose my destiny and have a true life partner I can’t wait to wake up next to every day

(Note that I have no problem remaining a single serial lover for the rest of my life that option isn’t available to me)

nastyb · Answer

I'm not married. Interviewing for husbands... the men are so low quality nowadays, I'm better off going to a sperm bank. Most men cannot adequately support a wife and children. Lotta uneducated, unambitious men.

sage2021 · Answer

So far you have 2 opinions from yourger members, and they both said yes. That makes my heart happy 😊 because there's too much hate towards men and women these days and to know that some still want a family is great news❣️

And it's good to know that not everyone is against babies and children like I keep reading about.

WAH! 💦 WAH! 💦 Goes the
baby 🍼🐥 Hehehe...

LiamJHayden · Answer

Probably not. I'm congenitally sterile so I won't ever have children of my own. And current divorce laws where I live make marriage a not so wise risk. If those laws change I will consider marriage and adoption, even of my then wife's children.

dragoblack · Answer

In this day & age? Marriage is a corporate scam cost as much as a new car. And the economy is in no such position to be having kids purposefully... that and the dating pool is garbage with people who won't or refuse to work on their baggage, want situationships, want a provider/sugardaddy so they can just keep having fun, refuse to work on their insecurities & better themselves as people... etc.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I hope so. I'm 21 and still in college. When the time is right and the right girl enters my life then marriage and kids (and all the practice of making babies!) then it could happen.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Aready did it and i have a son who is 19 y. o!
If i ever want to get married again, this time without having kids because i just want a life partner that's all, i'm not saying 0% chance on refusing kids but prefer not to anymore...

Calyptomaniac · Answer

Already was married once. Whether I do it again or not, I'm not sure. I already have two boys, definitely no more.

Cw992 · Answer

Not married. Wanted both for most of my adult life but it's never worked out! mainly down to me I may add. Time flies in. If you're young and reading this your 20s vanish in the blink of an eye. The first 20 years of your life feel like forever, the second 20 feel like months.

Kayla45 · Answer

I am married but still don’t have my own kids, we have tried before but unfortunately my genes kinda suck so my eggs don’t really fertilize well. Trial and error I guess.

MissSunshine2 · Answer

I honestly don't know. I know I'd like to get married and maybe have kids, but at the moment I am single. There's someone I like, though.

usernameobvious · Answer

That boat looks to be sailing 😁 for me 🚢⛵ if it hasn't already. Sometimes I think offspring would just be daunting.

molonski2 · Answer

I'm too old obviously.. But yeah , Id love to have another child , had I not been to the Vet.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I never "planned" my two kids. They just happened, and they were welcome. To 'marry" had been a social conclusion, but it turned out to have been a mis-judgement. Which was corrected later on.

MrChinaski · Answer

I'm open to remarry. I have no plans to have more kids.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I want to but I dont think it's in the cards for me. The type of woman I want just doesn't exist anymore and I refuse to settle for less than im worth

FrodoSkywalker007 · Answer

I would love to eventually marry and have children

Abbycado · Answer

Yes to marry and maybe to kids.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Not married, have two kids. Not sure i want to marry her, don't see what I get from it. Not having more kids

Amur8711 · Answer

I want a woman to date first, but yes most likely like to marry as for kids I don't feel ready yet.

scott04sa22 · Answer

Romantic relationships are not requirements for me now and since I don't drive it now acts like a filter to me.

VioletHaze · Answer

Yes. I really want to be a mother.

lilBigPotato · Answer

At some point yes but not anytime soon.

Purpleronnie · Answer

Marriage is a maybe , kids is a definite no

AngryCarl3 · Answer

No, my plan is to stay out of hospital.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Not in this life.

Iron_Man · Answer

is it possible for me

Brady · Answer

No, u should hav made this a poll.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Double negative

Twalli · Answer

Marry? Yes. Have kids? No.

Wuai201 · Answer

Im not sure and nope

Erron_Black · Answer

of course

objective_calendar · Answer

Yes probably

robocop666 · Answer

nope I think its a pile of shite

DonaldDarko · Answer

No interest.

XXblack88 · Answer

Maybe

MasterKS · Answer

Zero intrest.

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