Do married people ever get bored of each other?

[Anonymous]

Imagine seeing someone everyday since 2003. doesn't it get boring? you know this person inside out... there is nothing new to see anymore.. you've heard all his jokes... he's doesn't have any new ones left. he doesn't impress you anymore and you don't impress him anymore because you are both so used to each other. You both might care for each other but where is the excitement anymore? you both have made love to each other so many times that you both have ran out of energy. Same old thing every week. Staring at the same old face.

[Dr_Dixon_Cider]

I imagine every woman that claims she just wants a nice guy with no drama and is nice and safe becomes you at some point. You want the sparks and butterflys again... let me sell myself.

I treat women like shit.

That's it... and it has gotten me laid way more with way more clam that your nice man will ever get. You really want to come back to this... the door is open... my fellow narcissists, manipulators, and Peter Pan syndrome homies can help you out.

You'll either learn to appreciate what you got or you'll take a dip back in with us.

[Asker]

well that's why you are still single at your ripe old age

[Dr_Dixon_Cider]

Married for 20 years + and I still get extra action, so I don't know what you're talking about. Judge me for my age... fair... but realize I also judged you for yours, so I consider us even.

[LazerBean]

Lmao it's giving manipulator club meme

[Asker]

@dr_dixon_cider

im pretty sure you aren't married to anyone. every guy on here who is the most jaded and bitter are usually unwanted, childless old men in their 40s-50s

[Dr_Dixon_Cider]

I just got back from fucking... I have children and also with who I was just fucking. I figure you're just used to the usual online coomer and not guys like me. Probably hard for you to believe. I've never had problems getting vagina and in fact have the opposite problem. I have no reason to lie... I'm just the type of dude you've probably grown to believe doesn't exist. There is nothing fantastic about me outside of that. I'm not 6 foot and 12 inches tall or a millionare... just a dude. In fact I haven't worked a job for like 15 years... I'm just loved enough to be taken care of.

But with that said... I'm that guy that's probably been balls deep much more than anyone on this website and I'm not saying that from a place of ego... it's just logic... these are losers. And I know why.

They're boreing. I'll fight with a woman instead of comply and submit. These simps do the opposite of that. You're getting bored with your man probably for the same reasons and I'm just trying to help you realize why you feel that way. He doesn't challenge you or push back like he probably should.

I'm basically saying he's probably you're bitch and you being a woman probably doesn't find your bitch all that because you've mastered control over him. Let's look at the differences...

Would he basically say he treats women like shit? I doubt it. I do though and will never have any of his problems. Is what it is.

[Asker]

@dr_dixon_cider

Happily married well adjusted men don't tend to talk like you do. That's how I know you aren't married

[Dr_Dixon_Cider]

I don't know what world you live in. "Happily married" is an oxymoran first of all, and as far as I know from talking to my fellow married bros... we all talk like this. Maybe not to a woman's face, but welcome to the internet baby, you get a back stage pass to how we really think. To what we say when you bitches are shopping and making traveling plans. lolz. The quality we share is that we perservere the bullshit for our kids.

But I think your viewpoint isn't made up... I think you've been talking to simps or something. You know... the kinda guys that actually are "lucky" to even have a girl. They have a problem I never had, and thus put on that 'nice guy' persona to every chick they meet. News flash, that shit is fake.

I'm 3,000% sure I've been married longer than most, if not all of the people on this website by the way... so yeah, I'm not going to gas you up about marriage like these people will.

[Dr_Dixon_Cider]

Look, I can just tell you're bored and lacking much flare with what you got going on... maybe even thinking about finding it elsewehre or already spending too much time watching romance dramas just to get those feels for a little bit. I don't know the details of your situation, but I can tell your relationship is currently boreing the shit out of you and I'm just trying to tell you why.

I bet you could command him to take out the trash when the trash can is empty, and that's what I think the problem is. The sparks and butterflies are always there until the guy just starts doing whatever she says and comply just to shut her up or avoid her bad side. "Keeping her happy" stuff. If I'm wrong about that... just tell me I'm wrong and I'll STFU. I can accept that I missjudged a situation expecially when I'm going off such little information.

[exitseven]

yes, they do. how people deal with it makes the difference.

[Asker]

Must be hard.

[exitseven]

Yes, but like most things in life, you get out of it what you put into it

[Bianca_Italy]

''But where is the excitement anymore?''

Here is your problem: you crave excitement, you prefer trivial excitement over what truly matters. You're not emotionally adequate for a stable relationship if you'd prefer a stranger who doesn't really know you or care about you.

People are wired differently.

For example, I don't find any excitement in novelty and I don't get bored of someone; I don't equate stability to boredom.

[Asker]

why is it wrong to crave excitement? it's only natural to get bored over time.

[Bianca_Italy]

Answer my question: do you really find new men exciting even though you know they don't give a fuck about you? Because I can tell you that men don't give a fuck about you.

You like being used? Have fun, I guess.

To each their own.

Mind you, I'm not saying you don't have to get bored in a relationship no matter what, I'd get bored if my energy wasn't matched, if I was treated poorly... but getting bored for no reason to crave stupid excitement? That's immaturity.

[Asker]

you can certainly go out, get a man to fall in love with you and he can care about you.

[Asker]

there are a lot of problems and issues stay with someone that you are tired of.

[Bianca_Italy]

Naive. You still haven't realised how rare love is.

[Asker]

@bianca_italy

love isn't rare. trust me, I think people just over glorify love. No matter how much you love a person, you can still get tired of them.

[Bianca_Italy]

''Love isn't rare''.

So so so naive!!!

You're mistaking excitement for love, you see guys and girls kissing each other everywhere and you think they love each other.

No, they don't. It's just attraction, excitement. Love is something else. Love is rare, extremely rare, and most relationships don't have it. That's why boredome happens.

[Bianca_Italy]

boredom*

[Asker]

@bianca_italy

Love is not rare. If love was rare, no one will be getting married or having kids.

Also love tend to change over the years. That's why half of all marriages end in divorce. Someone who loved you 30 years ago, may not love you anymore.

Just because he loves you, it does not necessarily mean he is happy with you

[Bianca_Italy]

You believe getting married and having kids = love.

Again, you have a lot to learn.

[Asker]

@bianca_italy

who doesn't marry for love? who marries someone they don't love? we don't do arranged marriages in the US.

plus, just because a man loves you, it does not mean he is necessarily happy with you. Love is overrated. Focus more on things like compatibility than love. Love does not guarantee happiness. I have seen plenty of husbands who love their wives but their wives don't give them any sex or affection. My own father loves my mother to death but he is very mean to her at times. Love doesn't garuantee anything

[Asker]

I have seen plenty of husbands who love their wives but their wives don't give them any sex or affection so he wants to cheat.

[Nikki1989]

None that I know of, but I am sure it probably happens.

[WhitneySnow]

Probably but then ones who don’t divorce prefer the familiar comfort of one other person to the chaos of hanging out with tons of different strangers every week. Of course the ideal is to have one person you love and a lot of good friends to hang out with as well.

[Asker]

You mean to say it's easier to stay with someone you are used to because there is no challenge. But without challenge, comes boredom

[WhitneySnow]

I totally disagree, but you’re not going to convince me and I’m probably not going to convince you, so let’s just agree to disagree

[slatyb]

Sometimes they do, sometimes not. Boring people are bored. I think the important thing is to find someone who is your intellectual equal, someone who gets you, who understands you so well that you don't worry about talking over their head.

[Asker]

Trie words of wisdom. I am almost 30 and finally realizing this after dating a guy. It didn't work cuz we were total opposites. This is why most successful couples are married to someone very similar to them in every way

[LazerBean]

Not if they are both doing things right. And I have to say, someone who hasn't learned a new joke in 25 years is sad!

[TonyMetal___1986]

I know one thing for sure, if i was married, i'd never be bored from my wife 😌

Look at this mentality and this mental disease, spreading negativity about marriage, why would someone be bored from their spouse? Does they get bored from their parents, kids and from themselves too 😏

[Asker]

@TonyMetal___1986

No offense but I feel like most on this site have pretty low IQ.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Why is that? Is it because of my answer or other people's answers?

[LazerBean]

@TonyMetal___1986 agreed, it is a disease to think this way.

[Asker]

@TonyMetal___1986

I get tired of having to explain basic common sense. And way too many people on here get offended by the truth so they insist their lies are the truth. I love answering questions and providing insight but I've come to realize that most people on this site don't make any logical sense and can't be reasoned with.

[Asker]

@TonyMetal___1986

People don't believe in what is true. They believe in what makes them feel good.

[itsannalee]

Bored? Nope, but sometimes i feel like to just travel alone.

[Anonymous]

I'm sure a lot do. I believe it's important to make time for each other. Constant effort and care will help alleviate any problems.

[jahaims]

You don't understand what a relationship is if you are asking this

[Likes2drive]

Of course, that’s usually when women are not happy anymore and think about divorcing their partner

[Anonymous]

Realizing that I've actually answered "no" to her on several occasions when she's asked me if I wanted to have sex, my answer would have to be "yes"

[Bianca_Italy]

Do her a favour: break up with her/divorce her.

[Opinion Owner]

@Bianca_Italy After 37 years of marriage, i think it's a little late to contemplate a divorce. We're to dependent on each other.

[Bianca_Italy]

Dependent on each other in what ways?

[Opinion Owner]

@Bianca_Italy She's too dependent on me for financial income, and I'm too dependent on her for taking care of medical matters, doing laundry, and various other things

[Bianca_Italy]

Too bad.

[Genie23]

God. I hope not.

[TonyMetal___1986]

I'm a genie in a bottle, you gotta block me the right way 🤣

[Genie23]

Get a life. Seriously. You're still acting up because I blocked you 12 years ago after you acted really weird and eager when you found my answer somewhere that I was a virgin. I was 23. I had the right to block anyone who creeped me out. After that, you came back with many different accounts. I haven't blocked you on any of those accounts even though you have tried to provoke me all these years and made false allegations. This is your 7th account, right? If you don't leave me alone, I'll have to block you, and I'll be forced to inform staff about harassment from you. Leave me alone.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Same old you, never gonna change aren't you 😏
You just grow older by numbers but when it comes to the upbringing you're always the same!

Not my seventh account, nope!

You can inform anyone you want, and don't threat me about blocking me, cause i'm the one who already asked you to block me, enjoy your life being hated by a lot of members pn this site 😄

You already know that you're threats are useless with me, the best thing you can do here is to block me, i'll be thankful cause the name "Genie" in a bottle irritates me 🤣

[TonyMetal___1986]

If you wanna play it clean i'm ready, i have a game for you to play, you said that i'm a creep and bla bla bla, you had to block me right? Ask a question to the gag community if they think that "TonyMetal" is a creep, if the majority says yes than you'll never see me again, i'm a man of my word and if i win and turned out that i'm not a creep than you owe me an apology...

Deal?

[Asker]

@TonyMetal___1986

Is it because you don't ever want to get bored of your wife or that you can't get bored?

Because logically its only natural to get bored of someone you see everyday for 30 to 40 years.

So for you to act like I don't make any sense, its ridiculous

[Asker]

@genie23

I don't know you at all. I don't give a crap If you are a virgin

[TonyMetal___1986]

Ridiculous to you, not to me...
You get bored, i don't!
That's a committment, a forever sacred bond, it's clear that you're a troll, i remember you now, you're just here to attack everyone who opposes your opinions...

If you don't like my answer or opinion, just don't read them or ignore them miss anonymous!

[Asker]

@TonyMetal___1986

Commitment doesn't mean you can't get bored.

Realize your answer doesn't make any logical sense

Instead of attacking me, think at what you have written and why it might confuse others.

Plenty of people on here write things that make no sense then attack me for it when I question them

[TonyMetal___1986]

You asked and i have answered and it's over!
Plus you're questioning my honesty!

[Asker]

@TonyMetal___1986

That's why I said what I said.

People don't believe in what is true, they believe in what makes them feel good

You just Hate the idea of getting bored of your spouse, not that you can't ever get bored of her

[lilBigPotato]

I guess it can happen.

[Danny_dan92]

Only if you don’t do things right

[Anonymous]

It surely happens