I think this is actually more common than you think. It is only morally correct to tell your wife about this. I knew a guy who cheated on his wife and promises to never do it again. Now, he's cheating more behind her back. He has no intentions of leaving her but still, its not fair to your wife. You're basically lying to your wife, leading double lives. If you keep this up, one day she will sense that something is off. So just be careful.
There are ethically non monogamous marriages out there too.
This is why not everyone is suitable for marriage. Some people just get bored.
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Yes, it does. Because how can you marry somebody, claim you love them but you want to cheat on your wife? Do that and get caught she'll divorce you and your kids are going bye-bye. You best to just tell your wife the truth that you don't want her anymore. You got married to handle your obligations. You have a FAMILY. It is not about you. You can't handle it? Shouldn't have got married, or kids and should have just stayed single. You're bored? Your problem. Go do something productive in your life. You do not need to be married and is damaging your family.
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I've been married for 4 years but together almost 7 and no definitely not bored yet
I don't think having thoughts like that make you a bad person, but I think not acknowledging that doing so is going to hurt and destroy your family just because you're bored shows you're either struggling severely with mental health, or you're extremely selfish, or perhaps a narcissist.
If you're not happy, you need to start with your wife and see if she would be open to such a thing and if not, if it's better to separate or work it out.I have trouble imagining that going over well with your wife, and this really isn’t the sort of thing you should be discussing with a female friend. Try to work on the relationship you already have, figure out exactly why it is that you’re bored and address it, maybe even do a little solo counseling or couples counseling. When you got married you at least implied that you would be faithful to each other, and telling her you want to be unfaithful ahead of time doesn’t automatically negate that.
Do you find her boring because you’re no longer physically and sexually attracted to her? So it’s more the... she doesn’t turn you on anymore?
I have never been bored in a relationship.
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