I never have cheated I'd feel like shit if I did. I have daughters and I think about what would happen to them if I fucked up like that. I tdd s all just thoughts, I have no plans to act
Those thoughts should NEVER cross your mind. Whatever is going on in your marriage, you have to fix it.
It's being worked on.. this is why I posed the question. I appreciate your candor
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That's awesome... ho early I think she just feels old... missionary and doggy are great but nothing else? Any Ideas how to present new things?
No Strings AttachedUncommitted adult fun time
Oh. Uhm. I mean I get how you are feeling. It's been 13 years. So the novelty and the excitement can fade in that time. But whatever you do. Don't cheat, it'll break her heart.
Dont plan on it.. I'm just curious about my thoughts. I dont like thinking about it and I try not to but my wife is just so boring now.I love her to death and would never intentionally hurt her but.. damn u know
What makes her boring?Also, what excites you?
Ok um well I like when I can give oral. I swear I'd stay down there for a year straight if possible. I'd do it with no reciprocation. Any other position besides missionary and doggy is nice. Or even her letting me watch while she plays alone is hot. Naked oiled massages for her. Sometimes maybe making demands of me..
So it's about intimacy. Talk to her about this
I've tried... she's just uncomfortable since she gained weight and won't open up anymore. I dont know..I
She feels not very pretty anymore. You need to make her feel comfortable and also appreciate her beauty so she'll feel desirable again.
I try. I tell her all the time she's hot and flirt with her.. she blushes and says we will ay later.. and then it's no play time. It just sex.. I don't know maybe I just dont turn her on anymore
You need to let your wife understand that her lack of reciprocation in sex is really bothering you. Because unless you get the issues resolved , your thoughts of no strings attached sex with someone else WILL resurface eventually. You both have many years of life remaining together. If you can’t resolve these issues now, what will happen 20 years later? I’ve seen this type of shit over and over again where wives are unwilling to make their marriages work out. It takes work to maintain a relationship.
Nope to horrible person or nope to bored?