Polls: Marriage & Weddings

Married few years now to my lesbian wife and recently she has been telling me her sexy dreams have been about her ex not me.

Which happens but hurts hearing. Has our bedroom lost all excitement or does she just have dreams at random?

I have Asian roots and my family are pressuring me to get married because I’m getting “too old” even though I just recently turned 30. My boyfriend and I are waiting at least another year before getting engaged so we can pay for the wedding ourselves.

I know in Asian culture still being unmarried at 30 is considered late but a lot of my non Asian friends are also still unmarried even at 35+ and some are even still single - yet they aren’t getting pressured by their families to get hitched.

Just interested to know what the people of GaG would consider to be too old to still be single/unmarried!

No high quality man ( definitely exclude alcoholic smokers who have casual sex) marries any legal teenager (and no woman was any age forever) Most Indians definitely want a working woman and only consider you for marriage if you have at least graduated from college. This means you’re at least 24 when you can think of getting married or even older if you have their preferred career. That leaves you with 5 years before they start yelling that you are “old” and should marry anyone! Most Indian boys can’t hold a conversation , don’t have a soothing or sexy accent, don’t look decent enough to be dream guys or satisfy your needs and think they’re superior even when they can never be your dream. It’s been tried and tested. So if you’re an above average woman in India, you’re probably not going anywhere. You also can’t try and dream of someone from a different country because some people have a confirmation bias. They exclude anyone who isn’t their preferred race.

My fiancee recently proposed and I'm over the moon! But we have a problem. We live in Maine, which is wear my family is from. We are visiting his family in Minnesota right now and they seem to think we are going to have the wedding there, but my parents want it at my families church in Maine. My fiancee seems to be ok with either.

Honestly I'd rather do it in Minnesota. My older brother is the pastor at my family's church and I don't want him to wed us, but I feel guilty for not doing it there, but I feel bad for not doing it in Minnesota because my fiancee rarely visits. I hate making decisions T_T

People in my shoes what did you do?