When the holidays are getting closer and your wallet is getting slimmer:
Don't sweat it. LOTS of people have been there. I wanted to share some ideas I've received over the years that have worked like a charm.
5. Booze. But not just any booze -- some custom, classy booze. One idea is to buy a cheap bottle of wine. Soak the label off and make a custom label sticker. Vintage: The year you met.
If wine isn't her thing, buy a cheap handle of liquor and make infused vodkas. Put them into smaller, glass bottles for a more expensive-looking presentation. (I recommend three flavors.)
4. Selfie on the Shelf. If your girl is any like most females, then she is always taking selfies. Choose one of the best pictures of you two and get it printed into an actual photo. Remember those? Buy a cheap but nice frame, wrap it up and she'll never see it coming! If she's got a bunch of frames, hire your best photography friend or family member to do a photo shoot of you two. They should be able to do something that's extremely cheap or free if you barter for something.
3. Go Couponing. OK, so this one is inspired by another awesome member of the community, sexyback. "Love Coupons: A Great Gift Idea For Him (and for Her!)"
She nailed the sexy coupons, so check out her great myTake, and put your spin on it for you lady.
2. (Blank) in a Box. Make her a box, or buy something at the local craft shop and fill it with good stuff: brownies, a mix of her favorite cookies, fresh flowers, candy or, you know, anything else that will fit in a box.
1. A Night-In Kit. If Netflix & Chill is your style, then get your girl movie popcorn, candy and make her dinner to take a regular Netflix night to the next-level. If you are looking for something different, be her personal masseuse for a night. Get scented oils, lotions, bubble bath and watch some YouTube videos on how to massage like a boss.
Being broke AF happens. Don't shy away from gifts, just be a little more creative in what you give. You'd be surprised how much you don't need to spend to give your lady a great gift. Who knows, she might like a super-thoughtful gift over a super-expensive one after all.
Ladies, add anything in the comments that you would like to receive.
Gentleman, add anything that has worked for you in the past.
What Guys Said
Sentimental gifts and food
Sometimes gifts that they know mean a lot to us Like I once gave an ex my yearbook xD (my yearbooks and old stuff from school/childhood are heavy too me)
I also show up from time to time with a bag full of candy straight outta the corner store
Very nice myTake. These are all very good, original ideas. Thanks!
A single rose is really cheap, maybe with something like baby's breath wrapped around it. Most girls I know complain they never get flowers so even one flower can have a huge impact.