What are guys' thoughts on girls in slutty Halloween costumes? (Pictures)

Question

What are your thoughts when you see a girl at a party, trick are treating, (or any place you might see someone in a costume on Halloween), and they're wearing a not so modest costume?

Here are pictures, as general examples, what are your thoughts on them? (Ranging from okay, to too much, and any more thoughts you might have about what's too revealing, and what's just enough)

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Allegory · Accepted Answer

Thoughts? As long as she isn't just shoving her assets in everyone's face it comes off as fun, playful and cute. I still says girls overthink this "slutty" term more then guys do.

If you have the confidence and can pull this off more power to you. Here is the difference between a slut and a fun girl.

A slut wears this and the is desperate for attention on top of it, goes to every guy trying to get reactions and actions.

A fun girl wears this, blushes occasionally, laughs and generally has a fun time being a sailor, cat, baseball player.

It's like flirting, I had a girl on Halloween tell me she was a vampire virgin and my line as a joke was "well we will have to take care of that" as I take her arm and walk off. She goes "no there is nothing you can do it just keep coming back" to which I reply "Well we will have to take care of that a few times". I laugh, she laughs we talk and have fun.

If I wasn't playing with words and kept driving the point that I wanted to "drive the point home" that is the difference between slutty and fun male or female.

Hope that helps.

Littletad · Accepted Answer

I think it's all in good fun. It's a girls actions and decisions that defines them as a slut or other, not their clothes. I mean sure it's a bit too sexy for some, but I think it's all in good fun and just a way to get attraction and attention from would be suitors or simply a display of sex appeal.

What really matters is their decisions and their behavior the rest of the year, not one night.

Flexy · Accepted Answer

I know this is asking for guys' opinions, but here's mine anyway.

These costumes are always modelled after p*rn stars, and the type of rubbish they wear, the fake boobs included.

It just is too much, it's like we're grooming young girls into these roles, and I'm not saying they are innocent, I'm sure one girl did it to step up the game, then the year after others stepped up their games, and now every teenage girl is thinking of coming as a SEXY witch, or SEXY nurse, or SEXY cavewoman, or a SEXY piece of poo.

It's all ridiculous to me, I know I would only wear one for my husband or boyfriend because I don't plan on turning every man on, just one, the one that matters, and also I don't plan on leading men, on becoming an object, and my self-confidence does not rely on the comments and approval of horny men to be in tact.

Tamikaze · Accepted Answer

You see more skin at the beach than you do with these costumes. Would I let my teenage daughter out in one? No! But I also know that the practice of wearing something conservative out of the house and changing it up to something your parents wouldn't approve is as old as dirt. If they can't get their hands on a costume like this, they will make something up on their own to look sexy.

I think you just need to do your best as a parent to teach your girls that if you want to weed out guys who hit on you only because they would like to have sex, you should dress less revealing. As a mature woman I know that all the attention these costumes can get you is not the right kind of attention if you are hoping to attract a boyfriend. A lot of young girls haven't learned that yet.

gxrockstar · Accepted Answer

I'm 17 and a junior in high school. I'm not ugly or fat and I've never worn a slutty Halloween costume. My opinion is if you wear something like that then your a slut. Doesn't matter if its a costume or not. It being Halloween isn't much of an excuse. Halloween is supposed to be scary or creative not dirty and repulsive. My Halloween costume last year was Ghost from Modern Warfare 2. I guess I have more self respect than most girls these days.

Oh and if a girl wears that to try to get guys to like her then those are the guys you do not want to like you. They'll like you for all the wrong reasons.

WeaponZero · Answer

Personally it bugs me that Halloween has sorta become stripper day for girls.  I have a lot more respect and much higher opinion of a girl who goes in a scary or funny costume than one that makes her look like every other maybe-hooker-maybe-not girl on the streets on Halloween night.  Coolest costume I've ever seen was a girl who was dressed as Samara/Sadako from "The Ring."  Be original already like she did =)  Besides most girls I've seen dress somewhat skanky year round anyway, so the "one day to cut loose" thing doesn't fly.

royalwalter3 · Answer

why would you want to wear a slutty costume I mean your a young girl I'm gonna take a shot in the dark on this one your either 14 turning 15 this year or you turned 15 this year I mean really enjoy being a kid it will be over sooner than you think I mean why not try something scary I mean that's what halloween is about right its not to make a porn movie or even to look like a porn star its to be scary well your old enough to make a moderately decent decision but my advise be a kid you got the rest of your life to be a woman and even then don't dress slutty have some self respect but for now trust me just be a kid

Ironpanther12 · Answer

I think all three are way too revealing. I hate it that TONS of girls in today's society have no respect for themselves. Then they complain when men don't have any respect for them. Well it's really quite obvious why...

NOTE: I said TONS of girls not all. I know that there are some very respectable women in today's society as well. I'm talking about the slutty or "looser" girls...

gotc147 · Answer

It's not really men who are pushing the whole slutty costume thing on women, women do a fine job of pushing it on themselves.

It shows in Halloween costume sales, women want slutty, revealing costumes, so costume makers accomidate them.

Why? Because women know what most men want, so they give them small tastes of it then take it away all to tease them. It doesn't take long for men to get tired of it and so they start doing the same thing to women because men also know what most women want.

However, unlike men, women get all broken down and devestated because of it, thinking all men are assholes because they met a few that have been led on one too many times by women. Then women have the nerve to say all men are worthless perverts.

To answer your question, I like it when girls wear costumes like that, not so much at a Halloween party, but rather in either mine or her bedroom.

Sirhc001 · Answer

Slutty costumes aren't exactly rare anymore so most guys don't care. Of course they'll look but it's not like it's the greatest thing ever anymore. My thought would be wow she's hot. I wouldn't ever date her though. If she's wearing that kinda costume just purely to try to get guys with, I might gets AIDS just standing near her

ilovelegs · Answer

I think that anytime girls dress like that for a party including Halloween, - all three costumes, . they're needing attention and like to flaunt their stuff.  In one way or another she gets a kick out of showing off her body. Actually, the theme of Halloween is being scary or at least funny, not as sexy as you can.  So dressing sexy would be pretty showy and everyone at the party would take notice. That can spoil the fun because whenever girls dress that way for a party unless it's a dress as sexy as you can kind of party, it makes the other girls feel sorta uncomfortable and like their date is going to be keeping his eye on her.  So all three costumes are a little too much for a fun party. .

shf84 · Answer

The only problem I have is that women don't know how to do sexy with out looking stupid at the same time. The cloths are cartoonish and overblown a collar has to be twice the size of a mans collar almost a comic take on it as if women were just silly clowns. A girl can wear a black unitard or a Lara Croft outfit or something kind of kick ass or cool maybe a 7 of 9 costume from star trek that's definitely sexy and it's creative. The costumes in the pictures are just silly looking not a lot of creativity there either which is also insulting to woman's intellect. You get the message that a woman's only significance is her body that if she's hot that's all it takes she doesn't have to exorcise any creativity or forethought or any thing she can just take her cloths off and she gets a pass. After all it's all about the men and men running things and making all the decisions blah blah ad nausium. Women are people not just manikins

narutouzi · Answer

We'll those costumes are definately slutty, and all guys do enjoy looking at them, but personally I would never touch a girl wearing something like that on halloween.

It's just too slutty, and real men don't want that.

We want a little mystery, to be surprised when we finally get to "unwrap" you after being in a relationship and working towards that step. Not just like "Oh that's it? I've seen all this before, and so has everyone else. Wow everyone has seen as much of my girlfriend as I have!" That would just be boring.

Mikecity · Answer

in college I would say please go for it because those are some really hot costumes. but you are in high school and you should tone it down a bit, you have to realize that you are still pretty young, the transition to the college years is huge and you will become a woman, and you can experiment with what ever. but if I saw a sixteen year old girl wearing one of those costumes, I think I would be a little worried and hope I never have daughters haha. but in all seriousness, don't be that girl in high school with that costume. if you are confident with how you look, make a statement by being more conservative, and you will save some dignity, because we all need it in college haha. note that I am 20 going on 21 and a junior, trust me on this.

TissueForIssue · Answer

eh that's just good for looking at, I'm not going to go after a girl dressed in that unless I'm looking for sex. Although thoe costumes aren't that bad, I personally wouldn't want my girl to be comfortble dressing like that in public. For me it just shows that she'll be wearing stuff more revealing then I'd want her to wear in public, I feel like only a certain guy should see so much.

ihatecopcars · Answer

I prefer an original home made costume to the store bought ones. The slutty costumes are a dime a dozen and sort of make me feel uncomfortable. It's like they are trying too hard to get noticed but they just sorta blend in. I wouldn't be proud to take a girl I am dating out in one but I'm not saying I wouldn't let her.

csulbfriend · Answer

Basically, my friends and I agreed that Halloween is the one day that any girl can dress slutty and not be viewed as a slutty person... hence majority does it.

As for what guys think about those costumes?

We love it, and majority of guys would probably rather see a girl dressed up like that rather than a zombie or something scary.

here4you · Answer

i went to NYC on halloween and I saw a lot of women, and parts of females I've never seen before lol

and to me I just looked at them and moved on and didn't really think about them afterwards;

me and my boys and their gf's were talking and we said how halloween is the only holiday a girl can dress like a prostiuite and not get criticized for it

BrettH · Answer

if the girl wants to wear a slutty costume let her.. but a cute modest costume will always catch my eye more than a slutty one.. it just shows you wanna put your body on display and id rather see an original costume then one that's really slutty and skanky..

ironcat5150 · Answer

Thought 1 = attention whore

Thought 2 = I'm gonna try and nail her tonight

Thought 3 = what's her name ... aww who cares

Woman who dress like that are a lot of fun for a night or two OR they just like to play with guys. If your into one night stands or you like to be a tease then go for it ... if a guy has no chance of nailing you in that outfit at least he can think of you while he's nailing your ugly friend.

HimeAngie · Answer

I actually know a guy who loves to see women in skanky outfits but hates skanky women. It's very mind boggeling for me but it makes some sort of sense or at least it's not impossible to find a woman like that. I don't think it's really about the clothing, though some men are the jealous type and don't want other men to see to much of their girlfriends, it's more the attitude the woman has. If you can manage the skanky look and not manage to sound and act like you've got cotton falling out your ears it doesn't seem to be a problem.

Xenophobia · Answer

i wouldn't wear a slutty costume unless your looking to get attention that could make you feel uncomfortable...i mean if your looking to get some, then wear it, but its all up to you. You can't complain though when a drunk guy starts flirting with you and wants to get with you.

That-Guy · Answer

I personally think it's great and so does every guy in the world. Halloween is the one night you girls can dress like the sexy slut you suppress in order to maintain the status quo.

Then after, you go back to being you. Have fun, dress slutty or dress funny or insulting. It's all in the name of fun.

Cartiphilus · Answer

Your examples were of adult women not high school girls with the desire to show cleavage and anything else possible.

The girls may leave the house in something conservative and change clothes somewhere into something racy. I once saw a 15 year old with her friend at a grocery store and they were both wearing outfits one showing crack and the other cleavage. Unless you're watching them every minute of the day, they're going to dress the way the want whether you like it or not.

robtheman · Answer

The answer you are probably looking for is in terms on context , It depends on the nature of the party and the people there , if it was a group of freinds it would be acceptable however you would get a few looks if they were around children.

In the case of just adults as long as there is more on than underwear on the person it would be okay slutty is normally acceptable at adult party's

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