Guys what do you think of women that buy jewlery for themselves?

[Anonymous]

There is this very beautiful ring that is $150 that I absolutely love and my birthday is coming up, I am thinking about buying it for myself but at the same time I'm not sure if that would considered strange or selfish or anything. I do have a really good guy friend in my life, but I do not expect him to buy it for me. Just because he gave me a diamond bracelet when we were kids doesn't mean he will buy me this said ring&I wouldn't expect him to do that and i can afford it more than he can, but I would never tell him that. I would hope it wouldn't bother him or make me seem selfish, would it? Ladies I've asked said no, but I'd like to hear a male's opinion. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

Not my money. You earned it. Spend it how you see for. Honestly I don’t think men really care. Men do the same all the time. Whether it’s a basketball jersey, watch, tattoo, video game, camping equipment, etc. The only way I could see it causing a possible issue is if this “friend” thinks you got it from another man. Maybe he might get upset if you wear your bracelet more than the one he gave you, thinking his wasn’t good enough. But I’d be surprised if the one he gave you as a kid still fits.

[Pyrofox]

Its like tattoos I hope it means actually something to you.

[Asker]

Oh it does, it's a 2 caret ring with jack skellington face on it (from the nightmare before Christmas, I'm a big fan)

[RoseySarah]

Think they are smart and good with money! It's your birthday go for it!

Why would it make you look selfish? Shows you know what you like and go for it!

[Anonymous]

As long as it’s not an actual engagement ring that you bought for yourself then I don’t see anything wrong with it

[jamesgoldman]

I love them*


*not biased by the fact that it's my business so that deal makes me money

[Anonymous]

If I like jewellery then i always buy for my besti because I know she like jewellery a lot.
She is my friends with benefits

[Asker]

Cool, but if she ever bought herself jewelry or a ring for herself would it make you feel bad? Like I don't want it to look bad or selfish of me if i buy myself a ring lol but also don't want to bug him and give the wrong idea either lol. I care about what he thinks because he is a really good friend I don't want to ruin the friendship of course although I'm certain he likes me more than a friend because as mentioned, he gave me a diamond bracelet when we were 12 years old and I'm the only female he hugs and texts lol

[Opinion Owner]

She never asked me i gift her and no why should I feel bad if she can buy for herself?

[Asker]

I like your answer. I thought it could seem selfish in some people's opinion lol

[Opinion Owner]

No no go girl buy yourself if he is your real friend then i bet he even like it..

[Asker]

True and yes he is a real friend. I was mean to him and snapped on him all because I was hurting from a previous situation with a guy and I apologized and explained things to him and thought he would be mad at me and hate me but he said no and still gave me a big hug with both arms so yes, I'm sure he will be supportive no matter what. Besides a man can be rich in the most special way: treating a lady with kindness and respect ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Treating lady with kindness doesn't make us poor. ❤️

[Asker]

Exactly, that's what I was trying to say lol sorry if it came out wrong haha

[Opinion Owner]

No girl you're 💯 right..
You're such a wonderful person that you think about your friend. ❤️