Is it rude & presumptuous or smart & thoughtful to provide immediate family a list or link to Amazon wishlist for bdays, Father's Days, etc?

[DrPepper12]

Should one get even minimally upset when you provide a list but people buy you something else? Nothing? Substituted their own judgment?

Rude & presumptuous

Smart & thoughtful

Both really

Who GAF as long as you get what you want w/ no hassles!

Entirely depends on the group you wanna FYI

Here's my take...

[MisterWack]

Rude and Presumptuous….

Also my birthday was a few months ago, if you guys could give me $100,000 for this most beautiful grand answer that took me a whole 5 minutes I’ll never get back on my life. Thank you and God Bless You.

$100,000 no more, no less.

I need eggs….

[DrPepper12]

I feel your pain. I'll send you my DOGE refund check instead of that's ok?

[MisterWack]

@DrPepper12 Actually since ur a doctor give me proper medical care from RFK Jr for me…
Oh wait.

[exitseven]

I have all the power tools that I need and if I do not get fat I will have enough clothes to last me the rest of my life. I have been dropping hints to my kids that I would like some activity like white water rafting or concert tix. So far no good.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[LavenderHaze]

I’d appreciate if my dad or boyfriend did this 😂 I find them so difficult to shop for so a wish list like this would be great!

[DrPepper12]

I got my bio & student kids in the habit of making wish lists so they're always prepared with an answer for any occasion. Makes life SO MUCH EASIER for both people!!

[Tarifa]

I'd never do it. My daughter will leave little hints, but that's different of course.

[Likes2drive]

I think it’s smart and thoughtful

[RedInnocent69]

Fair if someone asks, what do you want