So my girlfriend tells me when she is with me she feels poor and thinks I need a second job. Mind you I live in a high rise condo, drive a Maserati, and pay for all our evenings out. She is constantly telling me her friends husbands and boyfriends shower them with gifts, vacations, and pay for theyr cosmetic surgeries.Is this some sort of gift competition, should I run?
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I did this to my boyfriend before but it wasn't about money, it was about communication and dates and other things like that. I got like that for two reasons: (1) I was/am surrounded by couples who talk 24/7, go on dates every week, live together, do EVERYTHING together and (2) a couple of my friends would say it's "weird" my boyfriend and I don't do those things. Of course I later had to realize that not only have my boyfriend and I been together almost 5 times longer than anyone else, every couple is different. I would say you need to talk to her and ask her why she expects certain things of you. If it's because of her friends and who she is surrounded with then you need to straighten that out; however, if it is for her personal well-being than yes, I would say run.0