I did this to my boyfriend before but it wasn't about money, it was about communication and dates and other things like that. I got like that for two reasons: (1) I was/am surrounded by couples who talk 24/7, go on dates every week, live together, do EVERYTHING together and (2) a couple of my friends would say it's "weird" my boyfriend and I don't do those things. Of course I later had to realize that not only have my boyfriend and I been together almost 5 times longer than anyone else, every couple is different. I would say you need to talk to her and ask her why she expects certain things of you. If it's because of her friends and who she is surrounded with then you need to straighten that out; however, if it is for her personal well-being than yes, I would say run.
No. It's not and don't run. Tell her straight up that you guys are adults and are starting a solid income together. Tell her if she wants things then it should be fair that she gets a second job or a job in general sine I don't know your situation. I would never EVER tell my boyfriend that. It's not normal and it's not okay. No one is entitled, they earn it with hard work and dedication. Poor is surviving on food stamps. Poor is living in Ethiopia with civil wars and tummy bloat because there's not a good enough diet. Poor is getting a second job because you guys can't feed yourselves. There's wants and needs, and if she has a vast amount of wants then she should handle it. Stand up for yourself and she's dating you, not her friends' significant others.
If it hurts your feelings or makes your uncomfortable you should tell her about it.
Maybe-just maybe she doesn't know that her comments are offensive. Some people just don't have a filter. See if what she's saying comes from a place of superiority/entitlement, or they are just comments of ignorance.
If you talk to her about it and she has no regards for how you feel or your financial situation, you need to leave the relationship.
She is your girlfriend, she is not your wife. Even if she has more money that you that doesn't give her the right to criticize what is yours and what you have worked for.
If you're too poor for her you need to show her the door.
You should run and run FAST. Get yourself a decent woman because that is only indicative of what you are in for if you have any intentions of making her your wife, and my friend that will be a living hell for you
Yo I'll be your friend bro, also I think you're poor, buy me more stuff.
I mean doesn't that sound a littttttttttttttle suspicious?
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Dude if your between 30-35 and you have that kind of money don't settle for some chick who is only after your wallet... You can find a down to earth hotter girl. Give her the boot.
She sounds like an immature gold digger.
*whiny voice* "But my friend got to vacation in Hawaii!"
Ugh, people like that are just high class hookers, haha!
My advice: RUN!
Would you happen to have a younger sister is equally successful?
Jokes aside, find someone worth your time, she clearly isn't.
Trade in the Maserati for a Hyundai...
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It seems like she's just using you for financial reasons.
Beware, she might also be cheating at you while your sights are away from her.
she is obviously just using you... if the sex is good and you don't mind blowing your money on her then stay... if you want a real relationship, then yes, run!
My advice: Run and stop thinking with your penis.
She sounds like an ungrateful airhead. You will be better off without her.
Woah someone's being used.
You're dating a c-nt. Dump her ass.
run!
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