Disagree to an extent on No 3 , women have a gender based solidarity that men do not have , girls / women may bicker & argue , but have far closer & stronger friendships with each other than men do. You could add to No 5 that you could be perceived as cold & bitchy , this may be a stereotype , but very often very attractive women are very ugly on the inside , they have become spoiled & conceited by everyone sucking up to them & over inflating their egos.
Oh no, too pretty? It's like being too rich. Sooo much drama.
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This is really standard stuff in my opinion. I wouldn't say it "affected my life", is just how life is. For many people.
Except that, even if I didn't work in a almost all men work environment, I would never go to work braless. I would die of embarrassment if someone had to point it out for me.
Funny as I was thinking these things (yeah, my mind wonders at times).
On the work thing though, I came across that today. The gal was / is / can be a head turner and was wearing glasses to appear more sophisticated. Then I notice she was wearing a short skirt with a slit in the front. Talk about giving out two different impressions.
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Would you mind if I took this and make one for a non conventionally pretty girl? Not to make fun of yours or anything, but because this is a good take and I want to share my perspective in the same way
@yourhot I'm going to try next weekend :) I've got a pile of homework to do tonight and I'm usually too tired after school to bother writing anything xD
This is what happens when you're pretty and you think that because you're pretty your life is gonna be perfect. When you encounter problems, aka life, you don't know how to deal with them and suddenly become a victim.
That's the nature of things Looks speak to people on an emotional level If you don't want that to be a focus of you as a person, then don't let it Just by the tone of this take you are allowing it to and it makes you come across as insecure
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Wow, look at the women's comments... women certainly hate each other. When are women going to help each other
Its my pleasure. and don't worry... people can be real nasty in this world. Just be confidant and do the things you like... ignore the people that put you down. I am sure you are beautiful and just keep moving forward. The right man will come your way... its tough and i still wait for the girl that will see my character and heart... be strong :)
this seems writen by someone really young... its real easy to stop looking pretty if that what you want. or you can accept the reality and make a positive thing out of it.
it's time more girls recognize that they are lucky if they're pretty but again... beuty ain't a merit. Society breeds this idea and i can see what happens. narcisism breeds monsters with an ego bigger than personality in itself
For a while, I've felt like a hideous creature because Im not considered pretty. And its things like this that make my self esteem take a plummet. Trust me, it's better to be a beautiful girl than an ugly girl.
Women are naturally competitive and I've learned to deal with it. Pretty girls hate being pretty and ugly girls hate being ugly. Just be happy with who you are honestly.
I fail to see your point. So what you're pretty and people treat you differently. Its better if you were ugly and people treated you differently in a bad way.
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Disagree to an extent on No 3 , women have a gender based solidarity that men do not have , girls / women may bicker & argue , but have far closer & stronger friendships with each other than men do. You could add to No 5 that you could be perceived as cold & bitchy , this may be a stereotype , but very often very attractive women are very ugly on the inside , they have become spoiled & conceited by everyone sucking up to them & over inflating their egos.
Oh no, too pretty? It's like being too rich. Sooo much drama.
This is really standard stuff in my opinion. I wouldn't say it "affected my life", is just how life is.
For many people.
Except that, even if I didn't work in a almost all men work environment, I would never go to work braless. I would die of embarrassment if someone had to point it out for me.
Funny as I was thinking these things (yeah, my mind wonders at times).
On the work thing though, I came across that today. The gal was / is / can be a head turner and was wearing glasses to appear more sophisticated. Then I notice she was wearing a short skirt with a slit in the front. Talk about giving out two different impressions.
Would you mind if I took this and make one for a non conventionally pretty girl? Not to make fun of yours or anything, but because this is a good take and I want to share my perspective in the same way
Yeah of course, go for it :)
Thanks!
Please do it
@yourhot I'm going to try next weekend :) I've got a pile of homework to do tonight and I'm usually too tired after school to bother writing anything xD
BRUH...
@posted.
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just take it and run.
Least you ain't ugly.
I DONT WANT TO FEEL LIKE AN OBJECT, OKAY?
Nobody knows the troubles I've seen, nobody knows but me. D:
PEEEETTTTAAAAAAAAA
@Falling4UTC Hahaha XD
This is what happens when you're pretty and you think that because you're pretty your life is gonna be perfect. When you encounter problems, aka life, you don't know how to deal with them and suddenly become a victim.
That's the nature of things
Looks speak to people on an emotional level
If you don't want that to be a focus of you as a person, then don't let it
Just by the tone of this take you are allowing it to and it makes you come across as insecure
Wow, look at the women's comments... women certainly hate each other. When are women going to help each other
Thank you for this.
Its my pleasure. and don't worry... people can be real nasty in this world. Just be confidant and do the things you like... ignore the people that put you down. I am sure you are beautiful and just keep moving forward. The right man will come your way... its tough and i still wait for the girl that will see my character and heart... be strong :)
Thank you, I really appreciate that :)
you're most welcome :)
Not trying to undermine you or anything..
Nor am i saying that i dont understand or that these issues dont matter, but..
First world problems..
You can make friends even if you're attractive, it's your attitude that counts and making other people feel good around you
this seems writen by someone really young... its real easy to stop looking pretty if that what you want. or you can accept the reality and make a positive thing out of it.
Complaining about being pretty, really n*gga? 😑
I know many many extremely attractive girls that do not have your problems and I came to the conclusion that it all boils down to attitude :)
I can relate to every thing you said, it's like your looking at my life.
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it's time more girls recognize that they are lucky if they're pretty but again... beuty ain't a merit. Society breeds this idea and i can see what happens. narcisism breeds monsters with an ego bigger than personality in itself
For a while, I've felt like a hideous creature because Im not considered pretty. And its things like this that make my self esteem take a plummet. Trust me, it's better to be a beautiful girl than an ugly girl.
Women are naturally competitive and I've learned to deal with it. Pretty girls hate being pretty and ugly girls hate being ugly. Just be happy with who you are honestly.
I fail to see your point. So what you're pretty and people treat you differently. Its better if you were ugly and people treated you differently in a bad way.
I can somewhat relate.
Used to be fat, and after the weight loss many of those things stated above has happened.