About 350 million people worldwide suffer from depression, that is about 5% of the world's population. Yet many of us don't know what to do while helping a person with this mental illness, so that is why I took the time to develope this Take outlining what you should and shouldn't do.
DO'S
Do Let Them Know You Care
Often times people with depression feel like nobody cares about what they are going through. Like they have nobody to trust. Ensure them that you care for them and that you are there for them when they need you.
Do Give Them Their Space
Sometimes it is just best for certain people to be alone. If they really just want their space, give it to them. Let them be and give them times to gather themself if needed, but don't neglect them. Be there when they need you.
Do Let Them Vent
Venting is a great way to let someone ease off of their emotions. It can also be pretty upsetting if someone is venting to or at you. Let people with depression vent and don't take anything they say personally. Sometimes when you are venting you say things that you don't really mean. Just give them time to let everything out. Make sure to pay attention while they are venting. Sometimes you just need to vent to someone, but when they aren't even paying attention, it feels like venting to a brick wall.
DON'TS
Don't Say You Understand What They're Going Through
When comforting someone, don't tell them you know what their going through, because chances are, you don't. Depression isn't just feeling sad, often times it is accompanied by feelings of helplessness, hopelessness, loneliness, self hatred, fear, guilt and/or dread if not other emotions. So unless you TRULY know what they are feeling don't tell them you understand, because if you don't you can just end up making things worse.
Don't Pressure Them
Pressuring a person with depression to tell you what they are feeling can potentially make the situation worse. Often times people with depression don't feel like they can tell others what they are feeling. This also leads into our next point.
Don't Let Them Bottle Their Emotions
This is one of the things that makes depression so devastating.People feel like they can't share what they are feeling, so they end up just bottling those emotions. Bottling emotions can be good at times, but if it is done to excess, it can lead to mental and even physical illness. Encourage them to share what they are feeling, but don't pressure them.
Those are just some of the Dos and Don'ts of depression that I could think of. If any of you have depression or know someone with depression,do you agree? Is there anything that I should've includes? Please let me know, and as always, thanks for reading.
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