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Great take. Absolutely nothing wrong or shallow about having preferences. I also hate when people use misleading pictures on dating sites and then think a person is shallow once they meet in person and the other person doesn’t find them attractive. I think that is shallow in itself.
amazing mytake.
and yes, you're absolutely right. Having preferences on who you date does not make you a shallow person. fuck those who think otherwise.
and lmao. you used great examples. good job :D
thank you!
I can't remember how I put it.
Something like 'If you're dating someone without any turn offs or deal-breaker, you're basically them because they have a penis/vagina. That's shallow AF'.
Still my thoughts. You're right.
yeah lol I don't remember either
Lol that wasn't the point. Either way, great mytake
OMG this is a fucking awesome Take
I prefer guys with dark hair
And blue eyes
Blue eyes 👀👀
@Fuentes watch your tounge 👀
omg me too!
Wonderful take @AngelicSin and well said!! you are incredibly intelligent for your age i love that about you! <3 there is nothing wrong with having personal preferences when it comes to your love life or otherwise it has nothing to do with being shallow ITS JUST YOUR PREFERENCE! LOL nothing wrong with being selfish about that especially when you want a relationship that will work and make you happy.
Hell no, it's the same as shopping for a car. You want the right color and equipment.
exactlyy
They are shallow, but they don't want to be called shallow. There's nothing wrong with being shallow, but their in denial if they think that requiring a person to be something physically that they aren't isn't shallow.
Preferences are different that requirements. There's a difference between saying, "I like tall men" and "If a guy isn't 6'0 he isn't worth my time." I prefer brunettes, but is a girl is blonde i don't think "i'd never be able to get along with her." Typically i find that shallow guys own it, and know they are shallow. Shallow girls seem to think they have a moral high ground, so they tell guys "You're too short, that's your fault" then when called shallow "NOOOOO IT"S A PREFERENCE". Just own it or shut the fuck up.
And that's what I call, close minded person that got rejected too many times.
https://i.gifer.com/rH7.gif
you're such a child, you never reply with a thought out response, only gif and "witty" retorts. Explain why saying "all guys under 6'0 are trash" isn't shallow? like you literally can't understand the difference between being shallow and having preferences and it's infuriating how dense you are.
... is that what I said mate?
IS THAT WHAT I SAID?
Learn to read and then try to teach me how to talk.
I like women who are sweet, gentle and socially vulnurable, but that's not okay because that's conforming to traditional gender roles, and that's always bad!
good for you
i don't think it's Shallow it's just having standards
exactly.
so saying "I have all men under 6'0" isn;t shallow?
Well, someone just told me that not liking to date black girls is racist. Guess we live in a world where you're forced to date anyone who ask or you're a bad person.
lmao I guess we do
I don't want to spend time with a dumb nagging person. Is that shallow?
No, that's reality lol
Okay, I agree with you but
You used way to many straw man exsamples for me to take you seriously.
well, these examples are actually real and taken from people ON here.
even "You don't want someone who rapes children? You are litterally too shallow for me to bare it."
If yea I take it back.
even this, yes.
It was a question about a specific criminal that had gone to jail for 30 years 3 months ago because he raped 3 kids.
Someone asked something like 'Would you ever date him if he out out of jail and had regretted his actions?" I said no, and I receive that kind of answers lol
Yeah i take it back.
having preferences is not a bad thing, it's selective breeding tends to work out quite well! :)
aha. We agree.
i mean you're still 16 at this age most of the guys aren't that bad + the guys who'll be telling you shit like that will either be soyboys or white knights, most girls that'll say shit like that are deluded feminists.
That Mytake was so hot, I had to take a shower after I was done reading it! I still got burns on my skin... I never knew I was so Shallow :(
Your not
@Wowgirl10q Thank you for saying so :)
Off course we have preferences. But it's not always the rule. It can change. I don't like long hair but if I fall in love with someone with long hair I will accept it. But i will keep scissors in my back pocket the whole time.
It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Other than that,👍🏼
yeah I guess?
i only like girls with gothic style, am i shallow?
i do agree with your take by the way
Nope
I like skinny white girls thats what I like I dont care who the hell call me shallow lol
lol good for you then, I get bothered though that a bunch of pathetic anonymous guy talk shit about me.
People nowadays don't like to work for things they just cry and whine about not getting their way. They never wanna work on their bodies, attitudes or lives yet want people to like them as they are
I prefer dating a short girl (shorter than me).. Doesn't make me shallow ☺
nope
You can prefer/like as many things as you want. It’s standards that you need to try to go easy on.
I agree