Hey, guys, I'm back with another myTake! I'm writing this one because it's something that's been on my heart for a while. And to clear things up, the title should really be:
Things That Annoy Me About Peoples Perceptions And Application When It Comes To Sexual Orientation.
BUT..that title is way too freaking long and there's no room in my colorful heart lol.
So I'll settle for this haha. by the way, all this will many be towards gay people. Straight people...some of you just don't be assholes alright?
As always, enjoy or not. Both are welcomed.
1. Some People Make It Their ENTIRE Image.
Okay so let me say, I'm not hating on gay people. I'm bisexual for one but in more specific terms for some people, I'm "pansexual." Although, I hate that terminology for personal reasons. My point in saying that is it's stupid for me to hate on something I technically fall into the category of.
This is me just saying, I'm tired of some people thinking that in order to be gay you have to act a certain way or you should make it all that you are.
And by that I mean just because you're gay and etc doesn't mean you have to dress a certain way, for good lord TALK a certain way, and more.
I justed the gorgeous Bretman Rock as my example only because I'm tired of some people behaving the way he does because it's what they think being gay is in their minds. That or being sassy, super "feminine", and etc.
Same for women in particular. You don't have to be more "butch" and etc to be gay either.
Nobody has to act a fit this common mold I'm seeing to simply like whatever gender you like. It may sound stupid that I'm saying this but I honestly don't people get that enough. I think this video is a funny and perfect example that shows the point I'm getting at-
This for me is what I'm getting at. I'm kind of tired of so many people being this guy in the pink shirt a little bit. I mean, I like when some people are genuinely dramatic and like being gay. Yes, that's nice, but I think people should aim to be seen as more than just a gay person.
I'm particularly a fan of people who act themselves naturally without all the extra added sometimes. The lip popping, intrusive behavior, and overdramatic movements and voices. Or girls who become super "boyish" and do a lot of deep voices and dick references and etc.
For some, just be more respectful of your environment and aware of the people you influence. I say that because like almost all gay people are like this now, which leads me to my next points.
2. Some People Are Making It Into A Trend
Really this, in particular, annoys the hell out of me. I partly blame the media for it and peoples parents too. See, kids and teens have access to everything older people are doing and etc. Its been this way for a while and the promotion of so much LGBTQ stuff is having good and bad effects.
When your growing up that is a time when you are trying to find and build the foundation of who you are, and everyone is at a different level when it comes to this.
Now I don't believe in that crap that if you keep showing kids and teens gay stuff or letting them do so-called "gay" things then they'll be gay. I think it's perfectly fine for example a boy to play with a barbie. And a girl toy train or something.
However, I do think that pushing sexuality and etc onto objects and media pushing sexuality or sexual orientation in kids faces can have a bad effect sometimes. Some kids aren't sure what they like just yet so they will experiment imitate what they see and what looks best.
And I do know quite a bit of people who claimed to be gay but then admitted they weren't and that they were just trying having fun or they thought it was cool. Yes, some people really do this and it's annoying because it's not some trend. Or some cool thing that's IN like a new top or shoe.
I mean yeah it's cute some people find it alluring or fun to be "gay."
It can be, but for kids and teens, some adults too, I mainly want them to just be sure and find spend some time on there own finding out what they REALLY like and not being distracted by all the shit going on around them involving these topics. I say that because you affect other people and it's annoying as fuck for someone to claim to be gay then find out they aren't while with someone who is.
BUT that also leads me to my third and final point.
3. Not All People Have To Like Or Validate You For It
No really, this is an actual issue for some people. They feel like everyone has like and accept them for who what they choose to do with their life. Validate their egos, and support them or else they are wicked or evil.
And it's not like that at all, people have every right not to like you or what you do with yourself and others. Now I know some of you are like-
I mean now, for the most part, is It none of their business? Yes. And should you give a fuck that they don't like it? No.
But they still have the right to disagree peacefully as do you. Forcing something just pushes it farther away or adds fuel to the fire. It's inevitable that you will have people that will not like your decisions no matter what they are. You just deal and move on because it doesn't matter. It's when it gets physical or turns into bullying then you defend yourself practically. And or become super assertive.
Anyhow, that's all for now GAG. I'm expecting some backlash like this-
haha, but we'll see. Don't get too disrespectful though, I want this to be a practical and peaceful thread. Anything too graphic will be reported.
Add anything you feel that is needed that I didn't address though. I'm tired asf lol. Love you, Take care.