I think its because people feel insecure about themselves and so they join in on the popular crowd hating on what they hate to make themselves feel better. Its awful, and being happy with oneself is something that needs to be instilled.
For many years, the epitome of beauty was the increasingly waif runway model. Now it appears the pendulum has swung too far the other way (as it always does), and now it's shameful to be thin. Hopefully there can be some equilibrium here where different body types can be considered attractive.
Antishaming only exists for women, and they seem to want it. Yet have no problems shaming men’s bodies? Women need to become more self aware about how critical they are of men’s bodies...
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Yeah ok we are talking about something else right now though
Not sure I ahve seen skinny shaming in action, but its all sorts of body types that make up this world and no one is any less valuable than the other.. by the way, the girl in the photo.. yeah she certainly doesn't look like ANY kind of a boy..
I was a late bloomer, and have been completely chestless until the age of 16, and guys made fun of me because of that. Now that my boobs grow quite large, women started make fun of me out of envy. And men still laugh at me 'cause I'm short and 'cause my petite body cannot eat 10% of what they eat.
People will make fun of you no matter what. Joke about yourself before they do and laugh at their jokes, no matter how cruel. They will stop doing it. To you, at the very least.
Oh please, people shame BBW's and any girl who looks ugly like me, and we won't even mention Christians as the glorify the gay community. Suck it up and deal with life as it is.
Freaking preach. I'm so sick of being told to eat a hamburger or that I'm a 'walking stick' Why is that for some reason an okay thing to say? smh. Great take.
Ok, I got up to "it's me again", I'm sure whatever you're taking about I will agree with. I'm really just posting this for the points. Although, I stopped for a while to stare at the sexy chick... is it you?
What needs to stop as well is people giving a shit about what people say. People are going to be shitty, we need to preach this body positivity stuff more to ourselves than anyone else. All you can control is you.
"Skinny shaming" is just another term for being rude to mask feelings of inadequacy. It happens to thin guys, tall guys, fit guys, successful guys, etc. Brush it off and keep winning.
how are you going to tell me to ignore them... im now a junior and things people said to me in 8th grade still hurts me... wanna know why? bc i didn't look like everyone else i was petite and even my best friend made fun of me for it... i had no tits, no ass, and weighed like 100 pounds and was 5 1 ish... at these ages these things really matter to you and when people of your own social "class" do this its more hurtful than you can imagine... and its hard to ignore people when all the girls in your grade have tits and an ass and you dont and thats what everyone considers important
@aes321 Ahhh... so, IF you had tits and ass, and "looked" like every OTHER girl, then you would be acceptable because THEY all do, huh? The fact they act like this towards you should TELL YOU they are not worth knowing, that's why you can ignore them. Do you think if you suddenly HAD tits and a nice ass, they'd LIKE YOU better? You'd be "one of the girls"? Well if that's true, you'd be "one of" a pack of shitty girls who aren't worth being friends with. They're showing their true colors. Stop being so concerned with your tits or ass size. All you have to say is "At least I'm a beautiful person where it counts... something you will never be", and walk away.
Let us not forget fat girls only started shaming skinny ones due to pure jealousy. That hasn’t changed. People are more attracted to thinner women for the most part so I’m not even worried about it, id still rather be thin.
It was great. I did get bullied by same-sex verbal. When I was younger I was always underweight because I was Sick most of the time. It was my learning disability that makes me sick most of the time. by the way I have put on weight now.
I wouldn’t say she is skinny. Slim yes but not skinny. She has meat in her body. It’s just smaller proportions but the rest of her is smaller too so it looks good Look at her thighs. That’s meaty and juicy lol
Some broad telling you that 'you need to eat a burger sweetie or you'll starve', is her just being a bitch. The use of the word sweetie on the internet is alway a good indication of a bitch behind the comment.
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I think its because people feel insecure about themselves and so they join in on the popular crowd hating on what they hate to make themselves feel better. Its awful, and being happy with oneself is something that needs to be instilled.
For many years, the epitome of beauty was the increasingly waif runway model. Now it appears the pendulum has swung too far the other way (as it always does), and now it's shameful to be thin. Hopefully there can be some equilibrium here where different body types can be considered attractive.
Antishaming only exists for women, and they seem to want it. Yet have no problems shaming men’s bodies? Women need to become more self aware about how critical they are of men’s bodies...
Yeah ok we are talking about something else right now though
She doesn't look like a 12 year old boy to me, either. Not even close.
Not sure I ahve seen skinny shaming in action, but its all sorts of body types that make up this world and no one is any less valuable than the other.. by the way, the girl in the photo.. yeah she certainly doesn't look like ANY kind of a boy..
The whole body positivity thing is stupid. Just be healthy. How about a healthy eating movement?
That’s a good idea
I was a late bloomer, and have been completely chestless until the age of 16, and guys made fun of me because of that.
Now that my boobs grow quite large, women started make fun of me out of envy.
And men still laugh at me 'cause I'm short and 'cause my petite body cannot eat 10% of what they eat.
People will make fun of you no matter what. Joke about yourself before they do and laugh at their jokes, no matter how cruel. They will stop doing it. To you, at the very least.
Oh please, people shame BBW's and any girl who looks ugly like me, and we won't even mention Christians as the glorify the gay community. Suck it up and deal with life as it is.
Freaking preach. I'm so sick of being told to eat a hamburger or that I'm a 'walking stick' Why is that for some reason an okay thing to say? smh. Great take.
Ok, I got up to "it's me again", I'm sure whatever you're taking about I will agree with. I'm really just posting this for the points. Although, I stopped for a while to stare at the sexy chick... is it you?
In the mytake?
It’s a model called Alexis Ren
Gee, thanks. Never heard of her, I'll be sure to google later
What needs to stop as well is people giving a shit about what people say. People are going to be shitty, we need to preach this body positivity stuff more to ourselves than anyone else. All you can control is you.
I have never met a guy who is skinny shaming. Only heard it here on gags. It's usually the girl her self or other girls shaming the skinny.
As long as someone is healthy it really doesn't matter. Skinny girls are still hot in my opinion.
"Skinny shaming" is just another term for being rude to mask feelings of inadequacy. It happens to thin guys, tall guys, fit guys, successful guys, etc. Brush it off and keep winning.
Skinny shaming? R E A L L Y? This is a "topic" that gets anyone's attention? Holy fuck.
i mean yeah bc people my age get made fun of it day by day and its really terrible
@aes321 Well, they're idiots. Ignore them.
how are you going to tell me to ignore them... im now a junior and things people said to me in 8th grade still hurts me... wanna know why? bc i didn't look like everyone else i was petite and even my best friend made fun of me for it... i had no tits, no ass, and weighed like 100 pounds and was 5 1 ish... at these ages these things really matter to you and when people of your own social "class" do this its more hurtful than you can imagine... and its hard to ignore people when all the girls in your grade have tits and an ass and you dont and thats what everyone considers important
@aes321 Ahhh... so, IF you had tits and ass, and "looked" like every OTHER girl, then you would be acceptable because THEY all do, huh? The fact they act like this towards you should TELL YOU they are not worth knowing, that's why you can ignore them. Do you think if you suddenly HAD tits and a nice ass, they'd LIKE YOU better? You'd be "one of the girls"? Well if that's true, you'd be "one of" a pack of shitty girls who aren't worth being friends with. They're showing their true colors. Stop being so concerned with your tits or ass size. All you have to say is "At least I'm a beautiful person where it counts... something you will never be", and walk away.
well i know that now.. its just i think its important for younger people because it can really wreck your confidence
@aes321 This is where it's good to have other confident friends, or parents even, who can show you how messed up these other people are.
yeah it took a while but i did eventually
Let us not forget fat girls only started shaming skinny ones due to pure jealousy. That hasn’t changed. People are more attracted to thinner women for the most part so I’m not even worried about it, id still rather be thin.
I'm glad there are skinny girls! It's just what I find attractive.
It was great. I did get bullied by same-sex verbal. When I was younger I was always underweight because I was Sick most of the time. It was my learning disability that makes me sick most of the time. by the way I have put on weight now.
I wouldn’t say she is skinny. Slim yes but not skinny. She has meat in her body. It’s just smaller proportions but the rest of her is smaller too so it looks good
Look at her thighs. That’s meaty and juicy lol
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Some broad telling you that 'you need to eat a burger sweetie or you'll starve', is her just being a bitch. The use of the word sweetie on the internet is alway a good indication of a bitch behind the comment.