Feminine girls are 10 times more attractive. I used to be into that "gothic" thing, and I did not embrace the gift I had in me all along, the gift of femininity. Here are ten ways to be more feminine.
1. Dressing like a lady
Trade your t-shirts and jeans for dresses and skirts. Always wear lighter colors with pastel shades like pink, yellow, blue, and purple. Black can be a good accent color, but always pair it with a color like pink.
2. Having ladylike hair
Never have your hair above your shoulders if you want to look like a beautiful, feminine woman.
3. Never cussing
Cussing is not ladylike at all. The next time you feel the urge to say a dirty word, push it down.
4. Learning how to dance
Dancing is very ladylike and attractive, and also a great workout.
5. Being polite
Never forget to say please and thank you, and never raise your voice in public. Treat everyone equally and politely.
6. Smiling often
You're not an angsty teenager, so don't act like one. Being happy is a definite sign of femininity and shows everyone that you're pleasant and fun to be around.
7. Talking like a lady
Besides never cussing, there are other things you can do with your voice to sound more feminine. You can talk more softly and in a less commanding way, as well as quitting calling guys "dude" if you do.
8. Being in touch with your vulnerability
Being feminine is about being soft, and being soft can mean vulnerable. I've found that a lot of women use a sort of masculine facade as a way to protect themselves from vulnerability, which is not a weakness, but a feminine strength.
9. Being hygienic
There's nothing feminine about a girl or woman with greasy/dirty hair and chipped nail polish. Always remember skin care, dental hygiene, nail care, etc., and make sure to use deodorant and perfume daily.
10. Surrounding yourself with feminine energy
Put flowers and candles in your bedroom. Paint the walls pastel pink and put framed inspirational quotes on the walls. You can surround yourself with either feminine or masculine energy based on what you put in your space.
In conclusion, every woman and girl has that feminine radiance inside her. Some are just too afraid to embrace it.