Very good take - You have probably giving a few clues as to what you will be like when you are older - I'll let you find out for yourself - Lots of girls, young women feel this way - Just a thought make sure a man earns your appreciation
Thanks for the positivity, some times its hard to see this aspect as we are constantly bombarded with negativity directed ate men every where (it some times feels like women have abandoned us.).
I know this was a take about men but reading it I kept thinking about puppies, maybe itβs your style of writing I don't know 😅 And itβs nice you had such good experiences this far, many of us unfortunately werenβt that lucky
Your post is very sweet and genuine, thank you. It's nice to see kind opinions and strong role models exist. Examples like yourself are the best reason for good men to be even better.
Yeah there's few feminazies here downvoting more supportive opinions. They're probably the same who downvote the men hating ones or the ones that are to hate me.
I didn't knew all this positivity were inside us, we did but didn't figured out unless this post came up, I didn't knew that girls do observe so minutely.
I remember when I was 16, and I was writing in my diary about how great men were and how I would marry a guy that loved me and everything would be rainbows and butterflies. Good times. Hope you donβt ever wake up cause real life usually sucks.
Thank you that was beyond kind. Though i would be remiss if i didn't take a few seconds to say be careful not all men have good in their hearys and i would hate for a sweet kid like you get hurt.
I agree, men are a blessing. I really can't stand many of my own gender.
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I am so glad that women like you exist. You are a goddess among women for giving men credit where it normally isn't given. I am beyond sick and tired of being told that men are stupid, forgetful, inconsiderate and all they do is hold the women back (some of these even came from my own mother :/). We love having women like you around so that we feel that we are doing something right in our lives and I cannot thank you enough.
With so many man hating feminists these days, it's nice to see someone give us some appreciation. And I am glad you admitted the truth that we are stronger.
Why I absolutely hate men: They're shallow and the only thing the care about is a girl's looks. What they say they care about 80% looks and 20% personality Even the most overweight would never date an overweight woman (not me just a metaphor).. That alone show how shallow they are They call it preference but when a woman has preferences they call her shallow
I think you hate men for the wrong reason or you truly don't hate men at all and you didn't realize it, "They're shallow and the only thing the care about is girl's looks" Yes we care a lot about girl's looks, man are more visual creature then personality seeker, and i will tell you something it good for women that way
why you may ask?
We don't have a lot of criteria to be hook, to give you everything to fight and die for you women in the other hand are more personality seeker that make you more selective the expression "Alpha man" may be refer as a man matching the personality and physical traits of your approval and because personality prime for most women it hard to select men right?
So the problem is the selection process and the tactic to use to catch your man
What you are doing wrong is mirroring yourself to find a man, using a tactic to find a friend, another women reflecting yourself, a besty what you feel about men is pity not hate
@pitzi , maybe but it sad, people hate what they don't understand and never question the deep reason of why they feel that way, by questioning yourself you may found out why you truly hate something/someone and if you are right to do so or wrong or you can found out that what you was feeling were something else then what you thought was
You basically hate men because they're not attracted to you then. You're as bad as the guys who claim that women don't like them because they're all gold-digging whores.
@englisc Nah I just dislike unequal power relationships.. Men want to be in charge of everything and I don't like taking orders. I'm not going to be an obedient housepup that her life purpose/problem is to attract a guy
Actually that's not really accurate. Studies have found that women will not date a man if he doesn't hit a certain threshold for looks, no different then men. We also know that unlike men women will also not date men based upon height, they also will not date men based upon income etc. In fact women are even more likely to date within their race while men are far more likely to date outside of it i. e. they have less strict standards then women do. Also men don't claim a woman is shallow for her dating preferences, they say that she is shallow if all she cares about is his height and/or whats in his bank account.
Well, show me the studies, I would be interested in seeing what they found. But again, that doesn't really say a single thing does it? Men prefer looks? Well obviously, if your going to get pregnant then looks matter because your looks indicate whether or not your going to die during child birth, just like women care about money because its an indicator of her and the offspring being taken care of as child birth and rearing are incredibly resources intensive. It doesn't say what women prefer, which by the way as I have indicated they prefer looks and money. So again, that's just a really one sided statement to make, especially as you allude to it yourself when you state: "They call it preference but when a woman has preferences they call her shallow". You also indicate that your being hypocritical as you are calling them shallow for their preferences but then opining that men call women shallow for theirs thus doing exactly what you claim they do.
Learn to speak politely idiot. And no you're not born asexual or gay or straight. Your sexuality/sexual orientation is formed on your teens years. Little children don't have a sexual orientation so what you said is big crap. I'm not a misandrist. I'm sexually and romantically don't attracted to them I didn't say they deserve hate but they're far from perfect as your post claims
Not all of love, Looks can get you so far, and even if your are a 10, if your personality sucks, you drop to 2.. Inside is what carries all of us to the potential of being a 10..
Those of us, both men and women, Who learn that, are so much more happy...
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Great Take! I actually agree with everything you said and somehow all made me think of him while I am reading.. Except he is not a father yet.
"Yet".
You're planning on working on it? :p
@Guanfei not that I didn't think of it with her π
omg him!*
Who knows, maybe you'll find someone like him. Because I think he's kinda taken, if I remember well.
@Guanfei r u here to piss me off?
@Pitzi I must message you, can you PM me or follow?
Very good take - You have probably giving a few clues as to what you will be like when you are older - I'll let you find out for yourself - Lots of girls, young women feel this way - Just a thought make sure a man earns your appreciation
Thanks for the positivity, some times its hard to see this aspect as we are constantly bombarded with negativity directed ate men every where (it some times feels like women have abandoned us.).
Thanks for writzing this, itβs greatly appreciated.
Aww β€
I know this was a take about men but reading it I kept thinking about puppies, maybe itβs your style of writing I don't know 😅
And itβs nice you had such good experiences this far, many of us unfortunately werenβt that lucky
Aw puppies π
I'm sorry if you had bad experience but thank you so much honestly for not being straight up rude here because you had a bad experience
Your post is very sweet and genuine, thank you. It's nice to see kind opinions and strong role models exist. Examples like yourself are the best reason for good men to be even better.
Thanks for this... all too often we see people bashing men..
Really down votes? Seriously why? I told the truth and i get down voted.. Well the two that did it, Please enjoy your cats you feminist cry babies.
Yeah there's few feminazies here downvoting more supportive opinions. They're probably the same who downvote the men hating ones or the ones that are to hate me.
It sucks.. Ah well Still good my take. Seriously.
I didn't knew all this positivity were inside us, we did but didn't figured out unless this post came up, I didn't knew that girls do observe so minutely.
Wonderful writing skills. Great opinion. We love you back. Keep up the good work don't let jealous and haters put you down. You're awesome.
Thank you β€
I remember when I was 16, and I was writing in my diary about how great men were and how I would marry a guy that loved me and everything would be rainbows and butterflies. Good times. Hope you donβt ever wake up cause real life usually sucks.
Lol. young girls are so dreamy
Its an unadulterated opinion, that in itself makes this a lovely post. I hope no man ever destroys her opinion, because people can be shit.
Thank you that was beyond kind. Though i would be remiss if i didn't take a few seconds to say be careful not all men have good in their hearys and i would hate for a sweet kid like you get hurt.
I agree, men are a blessing. I really can't stand many of my own gender.
I am so glad that women like you exist. You are a goddess among women for giving men credit where it normally isn't given. I am beyond sick and tired of being told that men are stupid, forgetful, inconsiderate and all they do is hold the women back (some of these even came from my own mother :/). We love having women like you around so that we feel that we are doing something right in our lives and I cannot thank you enough.
This really warmed my heart. Thanks for the love and appreciation. I'll try to remember this when In feeling down.
Aw β€β€
Thank you very much for your words !! Was having a bad day but that put a smile on my face thank you :)
Aw I'm glad
LOL. I've never seen anyone write a MyTake like this.
But it's good. You're SUPPOSED to like men.
STRAIGHT PRIDE!
Long live Israel!
But you Israeli girls can protect yourselves. ;)
With so many man hating feminists these days, it's nice to see someone give us some appreciation. And I am glad you admitted the truth that we are stronger.
The first thing in a long time that has made me genuinely smile on the internet. Awesome take!
Aawww
Very Nice thought of Men... unlike some feminists...
So sweet of you to pet all our egos hahaha
It really doesn't happen that often and I'm sure its a breath of fresh air for a lot of people :)
Pssst, random hot guy on GAG, how you doing? in my Joey Triviani voice.
@azzntittiz Oh my what a sexy voice! Where have you been my whole life random GaG girl?
Why I absolutely hate men: They're shallow and the only thing the care about is a girl's looks. What they say they care about 80% looks and 20% personality
Even the most overweight would never date an overweight woman (not me just a metaphor).. That alone show how shallow they are
They call it preference but when a woman has preferences they call her shallow
@es20490446e If you're fat you should date fat
@DaMack999 you don't know me in person, therefore your judgement is invalid. Men are shallow jerks, that's my opinion. Freedom of speech
I think you hate men for the wrong reason or you truly don't hate men at all and you didn't realize it,
"They're shallow and the only thing the care about is girl's looks"
Yes we care a lot about girl's looks, man are more visual creature
then personality seeker, and i will tell you something it good for women that way
why you may ask?
We don't have a lot of criteria to be hook, to give you everything to fight and die for you
women in the other hand are more personality seeker that make you more selective
the expression "Alpha man" may be refer as a man matching the personality and physical traits of
your approval
and because personality prime for most women it hard to select men right?
So the problem is the selection process and the tactic to use to catch your man
What you are doing wrong is mirroring yourself to find a man, using a tactic
to find a friend, another women reflecting yourself, a besty
what you feel about men is pity not hate
@boxy243 More like aversion. I stopped being attracted to them long time ago and be came asexual
@pitzi , maybe but it sad, people hate what they don't understand and never question the deep reason of why they feel that way, by questioning yourself you may found out why you truly hate something/someone and if you are right to do so or wrong
or you can found out that what you was feeling were something else then what you thought was
You basically hate men because they're not attracted to you then. You're as bad as the guys who claim that women don't like them because they're all gold-digging whores.
@englisc Nah I just dislike unequal power relationships.. Men want to be in charge of everything and I don't like taking orders. I'm not going to be an obedient housepup that her life purpose/problem is to attract a guy
@BrianMerritt Yes because my goal/purpose/worth in life is defined by my f **ability and men's opinion
Actually that's not really accurate. Studies have found that women will not date a man if he doesn't hit a certain threshold for looks, no different then men. We also know that unlike men women will also not date men based upon height, they also will not date men based upon income etc. In fact women are even more likely to date within their race while men are far more likely to date outside of it i. e. they have less strict standards then women do. Also men don't claim a woman is shallow for her dating preferences, they say that she is shallow if all she cares about is his height and/or whats in his bank account.
@hellionthesagereborn Studies have shown that men care 80% about looks and 20% about personality
@BrianMerritt I'm being sarcastic, I hope you realize this
Well, show me the studies, I would be interested in seeing what they found. But again, that doesn't really say a single thing does it? Men prefer looks? Well obviously, if your going to get pregnant then looks matter because your looks indicate whether or not your going to die during child birth, just like women care about money because its an indicator of her and the offspring being taken care of as child birth and rearing are incredibly resources intensive. It doesn't say what women prefer, which by the way as I have indicated they prefer looks and money. So again, that's just a really one sided statement to make, especially as you allude to it yourself when you state: "They call it preference but when a woman has preferences they call her shallow". You also indicate that your being hypocritical as you are calling them shallow for their preferences but then opining that men call women shallow for theirs thus doing exactly what you claim they do.
You shouldn't criticize majority of men.
Every men has moral disposition that can attract women while some men lack those qualities.
Learn to speak politely idiot. And no you're not born asexual or gay or straight. Your sexuality/sexual orientation is formed on your teens years. Little children don't have a sexual orientation so what you said is big crap.
I'm not a misandrist. I'm sexually and romantically don't attracted to them
I didn't say they deserve hate but they're far from perfect as your post claims
Not all of love, Looks can get you so far, and even if your are a 10, if your personality sucks, you drop to 2.. Inside is what carries all of us to the potential of being a 10..
Those of us, both men and women, Who learn that, are so much more happy...
Hate auto correct, ruins some many good thoughts.. should have started as Not all of us, love...